Sheila L. Jackson's Blog
March 14, 2014
Evolving as a Writer
No writer was born with a magical pad and pen in his or her hand that guaranteed them a bestseller. For most, it has taken years to hone their craft on the road towards becoming an award winning novelist. Evolving as a writer takes dedication, hard work, and an eagerness to learn all there is to know about the art of writing.
Several ways to evolve as a writer:
1. Conferences
2. Writers Workshops
3. Joining a Local/National writers’ group
4. Reading/Researching: will help determine the type of books you would like to write.
5. Rejection: it doesn't mean failure, but a teaching tool to help fine tune your writing skills and get you on the road to professionalism.
Most writers become disappointed and ready to pull the plug from their computers when they are unable to keep up with the times. If pursuing writing as a career─ change is a must─ it’s part of a writer’s growth. To get your created juices flowing again and that burning passion you once had:
1. Learn what type of books people are reading and writing.
2. Read! Read! Read! Books in and out of your genre. You’ll be amazed at how they spark new ideas and creativity within your own writing.
We all have been there, starting off strong only to run out of gas before completing our manuscripts, due to negative feedback. Don’t despair! Regroup and start over.
Don’t fret, if the critique group doesn't fall in love with parts of your story. Be ready to make the necessary changes to get your manuscript polished and ready for submission.
Change is a dreaded word for most, but if you’re planning to make writing a career choice─ it’s inevitable. Your readers are evolving and so should your writing. Advancing as a novelist is a good thing. Without the bumps and bruises along the way, you will never reach your full potential. Writers are constantly transforming as a caterpillar does when turning into a butterfly. Embrace the metamorphosis process, because in time, your writing will fly off the pages and develop into something beautiful.
Several ways to evolve as a writer:
1. Conferences
2. Writers Workshops
3. Joining a Local/National writers’ group
4. Reading/Researching: will help determine the type of books you would like to write.
5. Rejection: it doesn't mean failure, but a teaching tool to help fine tune your writing skills and get you on the road to professionalism.
Most writers become disappointed and ready to pull the plug from their computers when they are unable to keep up with the times. If pursuing writing as a career─ change is a must─ it’s part of a writer’s growth. To get your created juices flowing again and that burning passion you once had:
1. Learn what type of books people are reading and writing.
2. Read! Read! Read! Books in and out of your genre. You’ll be amazed at how they spark new ideas and creativity within your own writing.
We all have been there, starting off strong only to run out of gas before completing our manuscripts, due to negative feedback. Don’t despair! Regroup and start over.
Don’t fret, if the critique group doesn't fall in love with parts of your story. Be ready to make the necessary changes to get your manuscript polished and ready for submission.
Change is a dreaded word for most, but if you’re planning to make writing a career choice─ it’s inevitable. Your readers are evolving and so should your writing. Advancing as a novelist is a good thing. Without the bumps and bruises along the way, you will never reach your full potential. Writers are constantly transforming as a caterpillar does when turning into a butterfly. Embrace the metamorphosis process, because in time, your writing will fly off the pages and develop into something beautiful.
January 28, 2014
Conquering Your Fears
I remember as if it was yesterday when God spoke to my spirit about writing a book. I did not want to take on the task, because of fear. Fear of what others would think when I told them what God was calling me to do. I had to do some long, hard praying, to make sure that I heard Him correctly. When I held the book in my hands for the first time, I thought that I was going to faint, because it was now a reality. The secret that I kept for eight long months was now out in the open. As a first time author eight years ago, I had to learn how to conquer my fears against those who knew me best. Would they accept my new calling? Or would they perceive it as a joke? At any rate, I trusted God and overcame my fears to be the person that He called me to be. I did not let what others thought of me change the path that God had for my life.
If you do not conquer your fears, God’s plans for your life will be delayed. If He told you to step out on faith and believe in His Word, what else do you need? But, you have allowed others to tell you what you can and cannot do. Some people do not want to see you move forward. So, they use their negative influences to try and hold you back. It’s time to learn your enemies’ tactics when they come to poison your mind with self-doubt. They will try every trick in the book to keep you from succeeding and moving forward to a life of prosperity.
Those that pretended to be your friends loved it when you felt defeated and had to lean and depend on their phony support— thinking that they meant you well when they really did not. They gloated over the fact that they had you believing that they were your friends. When all along they stuck close to you to make sure that your dreams would never come to fruition. Look, listen, and learn their schemes. Sometimes people stick close to you in the disguise of fake friendships just to keep feeding you negative information, in hopes to stagnant your plans in life.
Whenever you talk about the positive things that God is doing in your life, watch their conversation turn negative. With God, there is no negativity in what He speaks. God only wants to empower your life through His Words. He wants to set you free from the crippling conversation that has been planted and rooted in your mind by family and friends. God knows that you cannot move forward in Him, until you have mentally and spiritually broken that defeated image of yourself. He wants you to see your self-worth in Him, so that you will not give others the power to destroy your dreams.
I was always told from a very young age, “To have peace inwardly is worth more than money in the bank.” You can sleep at night without a care, knowing that God will protect you from the slander of your enemies— remember talk is cheap. Never give a person power over you, because the moment you do, you will surely be defeated. You cannot choose the family that you were born into, but you can choose your friends and the people that you allow into your life.
Fear is your worst enemy, because it causes you to lose your faith. When you complain, it brings to life what you have dreaded the most—failure. There are those that will die in their situations because they cannot see pass their “poor is me attitude.” God told Moses to tell the people, what they feared the most would be the very thing that will destroy them.
Instead of conquering and living in the land, that God had promised and prepared for them. A land that was already fertile. All they had to do was conquer it and move in, but the Israelites would wander in circles in the wilderness, until all those that complained against God died. Fear was the culprit that caused them not to live the life that He had planned for them. Fear will be the force that will destroy us today.
The devil will always paint the picture to make it seem as though life was good when people who had control over you were mentally, physically, and spiritually beating you down. As soon as God wants to deliver you from those bad situations and take you to a place where you can be free, you rebel. Satan does not want you to know that through Christ there is deliverance from the negative reports that had you bound to the pressures of life. Whining will only keep you in those predicaments, until you eventually succumb to your situation.
It’s time to rise above the influences of fear and see yourself as the victor in everything that you set out to do. When you have conquered your fears, you can move on to the next chapter of your life. With faith, prayer, and determination, the sky will be the limit for you, because you have finally believed the report of the Lord.
If you do not conquer your fears, God’s plans for your life will be delayed. If He told you to step out on faith and believe in His Word, what else do you need? But, you have allowed others to tell you what you can and cannot do. Some people do not want to see you move forward. So, they use their negative influences to try and hold you back. It’s time to learn your enemies’ tactics when they come to poison your mind with self-doubt. They will try every trick in the book to keep you from succeeding and moving forward to a life of prosperity.
Those that pretended to be your friends loved it when you felt defeated and had to lean and depend on their phony support— thinking that they meant you well when they really did not. They gloated over the fact that they had you believing that they were your friends. When all along they stuck close to you to make sure that your dreams would never come to fruition. Look, listen, and learn their schemes. Sometimes people stick close to you in the disguise of fake friendships just to keep feeding you negative information, in hopes to stagnant your plans in life.
Whenever you talk about the positive things that God is doing in your life, watch their conversation turn negative. With God, there is no negativity in what He speaks. God only wants to empower your life through His Words. He wants to set you free from the crippling conversation that has been planted and rooted in your mind by family and friends. God knows that you cannot move forward in Him, until you have mentally and spiritually broken that defeated image of yourself. He wants you to see your self-worth in Him, so that you will not give others the power to destroy your dreams.
I was always told from a very young age, “To have peace inwardly is worth more than money in the bank.” You can sleep at night without a care, knowing that God will protect you from the slander of your enemies— remember talk is cheap. Never give a person power over you, because the moment you do, you will surely be defeated. You cannot choose the family that you were born into, but you can choose your friends and the people that you allow into your life.
Fear is your worst enemy, because it causes you to lose your faith. When you complain, it brings to life what you have dreaded the most—failure. There are those that will die in their situations because they cannot see pass their “poor is me attitude.” God told Moses to tell the people, what they feared the most would be the very thing that will destroy them.
Instead of conquering and living in the land, that God had promised and prepared for them. A land that was already fertile. All they had to do was conquer it and move in, but the Israelites would wander in circles in the wilderness, until all those that complained against God died. Fear was the culprit that caused them not to live the life that He had planned for them. Fear will be the force that will destroy us today.
The devil will always paint the picture to make it seem as though life was good when people who had control over you were mentally, physically, and spiritually beating you down. As soon as God wants to deliver you from those bad situations and take you to a place where you can be free, you rebel. Satan does not want you to know that through Christ there is deliverance from the negative reports that had you bound to the pressures of life. Whining will only keep you in those predicaments, until you eventually succumb to your situation.
It’s time to rise above the influences of fear and see yourself as the victor in everything that you set out to do. When you have conquered your fears, you can move on to the next chapter of your life. With faith, prayer, and determination, the sky will be the limit for you, because you have finally believed the report of the Lord.
May 4, 2013
Overcoming Adversities
Overcoming Adversities
By Sheila L. Jackson
I decided to write this blog, because it amazed me at the many men and women dealing with hurtful issues in the church. Whether it is rape, molestation, incest, adultery, or betrayal, these traumatic experiences will hinder your spiritual walk. Most insensitive people will say, “Get over it, that happened in the past.” But it’s easier said than done. When a person has been sexually and verbally abused, or even stalked in the church, the event is traumatic.There is no magic pill to relieve the hurt, shame, and stress that it causes.
As I speak out about overcoming adversities at women conferences, I began to see a large number of men sharing their stories of abuse in the church, as well. Victims of this nature will not come forward, for fear of being blamed for what happened to them. No woman, man, or child asked to be abused, hurt, and treated like trash. As women, we are the worst at pointing our fingers and blaming the victim for what happened. No one has the right to violate another person.
80% of rape victims know their rapist; only a small percentage is raped by strangers. Rape doesn’t just happen in our homes, schools, or place of business. Today, many are being violated in the very place we believe to be a safe haven— the church. The world is a cold and cruel place, if we're not protected at church, where can we go to feel safe?
I heard a radio personality say that pastors have no business counseling their congregation on such issues as marriage, incest, or rape. He went on to say, “They are not equipment to handle such in-depth issues. I agree with the radio personality to a certain degree. Unless you have a PH degree in psychology/sociology to know the warning signs of abuse, you are not qualified or equipped to council on such matters. There are many broken people sitting in our congregations Sunday after Sunday turning to their leaders for help, only to receive uneducated and unspiritual advice. I applaud those church leaders who have further their education on this subject, in order to better help their members.
How can victims overcome adversities such as these? Through prayer, seeking professional counseling, and know that what happened to you, is not your fault. In I Corinthian 5, God left rules and regulations to follow when dealing with a sexually perverted member of the congregation. Many pastors seemed to avoid this book. They make excuses and hide behind church protocol to keep from dealing with such hard hitting issues, but know that God will hold them accountable for not getting their parishioners the help they need.
To overcome adversities in the church, educate yourself, your spiritual healing depends on it. Most preachers are concerned with packing the church pews each Sunday morning, building bigger sanctuaries, and lining their pockets with money. Your feelings and interest are little or no importance to them. Get the help you need, even if it means moving to another church.
By Sheila L. Jackson
I decided to write this blog, because it amazed me at the many men and women dealing with hurtful issues in the church. Whether it is rape, molestation, incest, adultery, or betrayal, these traumatic experiences will hinder your spiritual walk. Most insensitive people will say, “Get over it, that happened in the past.” But it’s easier said than done. When a person has been sexually and verbally abused, or even stalked in the church, the event is traumatic.There is no magic pill to relieve the hurt, shame, and stress that it causes.
As I speak out about overcoming adversities at women conferences, I began to see a large number of men sharing their stories of abuse in the church, as well. Victims of this nature will not come forward, for fear of being blamed for what happened to them. No woman, man, or child asked to be abused, hurt, and treated like trash. As women, we are the worst at pointing our fingers and blaming the victim for what happened. No one has the right to violate another person.
80% of rape victims know their rapist; only a small percentage is raped by strangers. Rape doesn’t just happen in our homes, schools, or place of business. Today, many are being violated in the very place we believe to be a safe haven— the church. The world is a cold and cruel place, if we're not protected at church, where can we go to feel safe?
I heard a radio personality say that pastors have no business counseling their congregation on such issues as marriage, incest, or rape. He went on to say, “They are not equipment to handle such in-depth issues. I agree with the radio personality to a certain degree. Unless you have a PH degree in psychology/sociology to know the warning signs of abuse, you are not qualified or equipped to council on such matters. There are many broken people sitting in our congregations Sunday after Sunday turning to their leaders for help, only to receive uneducated and unspiritual advice. I applaud those church leaders who have further their education on this subject, in order to better help their members.
How can victims overcome adversities such as these? Through prayer, seeking professional counseling, and know that what happened to you, is not your fault. In I Corinthian 5, God left rules and regulations to follow when dealing with a sexually perverted member of the congregation. Many pastors seemed to avoid this book. They make excuses and hide behind church protocol to keep from dealing with such hard hitting issues, but know that God will hold them accountable for not getting their parishioners the help they need.
To overcome adversities in the church, educate yourself, your spiritual healing depends on it. Most preachers are concerned with packing the church pews each Sunday morning, building bigger sanctuaries, and lining their pockets with money. Your feelings and interest are little or no importance to them. Get the help you need, even if it means moving to another church.
February 4, 2013
Spiritual Fitness
By: Sheila L. Jackson
On television and radio, infomercials on weight loss, are aired daily. To get the beach body you want for the summer, commercials and magazine advertisements begin popping up during the holiday season. Slim and muscular actors/actresses are paid by sponsors to educate us on what to eat, drink, and the best type of workout equipment to use. They make claims that buying these items will give you the same bodies, as they.
But, have you ever thought about what it takes to get your spiritual man fit? It also takes the same, if not more dedication and effort to live a healthy Christian lifestyle. Food and liquids are not the temptation in this plight. Sin, is the cause of a believer’s spiritual weight gain. The negative things we partake of become stumbling blocks to our spiritual well-being.
What are the differences between physical and spiritual fitness?
Physical Fitness
A state of physiologic wellbeing, achieved through a combination of good diet, regular physical exercise, and other practices that promotes good health.
Spiritual Fitness
A state of spiritual wellbeing, achieved through faith that comes only by meditating on the Word of God, daily. The study of His sacred word helps the believer to become spiritually strong and fit to conquer any task set before them.
Training our physical bodies cannot help us with life’s challenges and struggles. There are invisible hurdles placed before each of us that only spiritual strength can help us cross. Life, within itself is far more difficult than a marathon, because it is ongoing. Only studying the Word of God can prepare us for this journey. The Hebrew writer advises us to lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily overwhelm us (Hebrews 12:1-2). Sin causes us to pack on the spiritual pounds. Hatred, envy, prejudice, jealousy, malice, and backbiting are excess weights that prevent us from reaching our spiritual potential.
You are not alone in your spiritual weight loss quest. The people you encounter and interact with from day to day struggle with the same challenges, as you. Only some are striving to obtain a corruptible body (tone and sleek) that will return to the dust from whence it came. And Christian’s seek to achieve a glorified body that will one day return to their heavenly Father.
Everyone can win this spiritual fitness challenge, but it takes ridding ourselves of things that will prevent us from doing so. Adultery, evil thoughts, and sexual perversion, etc., no longer have to be the spiritual pounds keeping us from reaching our goals. God’s Word has already given us victory over these obstacles in our lives. Like those who have taken the spiritual weight loss challenge before us and rejoiced over their results, so can we (Hebrews 12:1-2).
On television and radio, infomercials on weight loss, are aired daily. To get the beach body you want for the summer, commercials and magazine advertisements begin popping up during the holiday season. Slim and muscular actors/actresses are paid by sponsors to educate us on what to eat, drink, and the best type of workout equipment to use. They make claims that buying these items will give you the same bodies, as they.
But, have you ever thought about what it takes to get your spiritual man fit? It also takes the same, if not more dedication and effort to live a healthy Christian lifestyle. Food and liquids are not the temptation in this plight. Sin, is the cause of a believer’s spiritual weight gain. The negative things we partake of become stumbling blocks to our spiritual well-being.
What are the differences between physical and spiritual fitness?
Physical Fitness
A state of physiologic wellbeing, achieved through a combination of good diet, regular physical exercise, and other practices that promotes good health.
Spiritual Fitness
A state of spiritual wellbeing, achieved through faith that comes only by meditating on the Word of God, daily. The study of His sacred word helps the believer to become spiritually strong and fit to conquer any task set before them.
Training our physical bodies cannot help us with life’s challenges and struggles. There are invisible hurdles placed before each of us that only spiritual strength can help us cross. Life, within itself is far more difficult than a marathon, because it is ongoing. Only studying the Word of God can prepare us for this journey. The Hebrew writer advises us to lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily overwhelm us (Hebrews 12:1-2). Sin causes us to pack on the spiritual pounds. Hatred, envy, prejudice, jealousy, malice, and backbiting are excess weights that prevent us from reaching our spiritual potential.
You are not alone in your spiritual weight loss quest. The people you encounter and interact with from day to day struggle with the same challenges, as you. Only some are striving to obtain a corruptible body (tone and sleek) that will return to the dust from whence it came. And Christian’s seek to achieve a glorified body that will one day return to their heavenly Father.
Everyone can win this spiritual fitness challenge, but it takes ridding ourselves of things that will prevent us from doing so. Adultery, evil thoughts, and sexual perversion, etc., no longer have to be the spiritual pounds keeping us from reaching our goals. God’s Word has already given us victory over these obstacles in our lives. Like those who have taken the spiritual weight loss challenge before us and rejoiced over their results, so can we (Hebrews 12:1-2).
January 1, 2013
My Sisrer's Keeper
Am I my sister’s keeper? In an age where reality television displays demeaning portrayals of women, the bonds of sisterhood may seem broken. With all the trash talking, back stabbing, and fighting in front of a national audience, our standards and character as women have come under fire. Proverbs 31:10, says, “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.” In today’s society, we have depreciated our value and our sisters’ trust for fifteen minutes of fame.
Yes, I am my sister’s keeper. When she hurts, I hurt. When she cries, I am there to comfort her. My door is always open when she needs a compassionate ear to tell her most intimate secrets too. Unfortunately, that is not always the case. We’re quick to jump ship when our sacred sister needs us the most. Love suffers long. Although we may have heard her despairing story, countless times─ love allows us to faithfully tarry beside her, until she has overcome her issue.
Why is it hard for women to complement one another? Often, we become distance and began to bad talk our bless sister behind her back. Why can’t we rejoice in her blessing? A true sister can celebrate no matter who is receiving the blessing.
The bond of sisterhood is even harder to find in our congregations. We pray, lift holy hands and sing, songs of praises to our Savior, all while hating the sister sitting beside us. In most churches, women fellowship has become extinct, because of envy and jealousy. Is this what God’s virtuous woman have become?
Our female ancestors taught their young girls the proper etiquette of behaving and acting like young women. But, today’s elder women are trying to recapture their youth, leaving the younger generation to figure out womanhood on their own. Proverbs 31:25-26 says, “Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.” sisterhood
I will be responsible for leading and guiding my sister back on the right path when she has lost her way. Yes, I’m my sister’s keeper. I vow to use my tongue to build her up, not tear her down. When she needs a shoulder to lean on, I will be the first to offer mine.
Cain killed his brother Abel. Some theologians believed that Cain was jealous of his brother’s sacrifices to God. Stop harboring hatred in your heart, because of the work another sister does for the Lord. God has equipped each of us with gifts. Use what He has given you, instead of becoming envious of your sister. God is no respecter of persons. The same Lord that blessed your sister has the ability to bless you as well.
It’s time for us to stop killing our sisters with our tongues. Life is hard enough without the little daggers we shoot at each other. Let those with experience, become mentors to our future young women. The time is now to leave a legacy of sisterhood behind that they will be proud to follow. Am I my sister’s keeper? The answer will always be a resounding, yes.
Yes, I am my sister’s keeper. When she hurts, I hurt. When she cries, I am there to comfort her. My door is always open when she needs a compassionate ear to tell her most intimate secrets too. Unfortunately, that is not always the case. We’re quick to jump ship when our sacred sister needs us the most. Love suffers long. Although we may have heard her despairing story, countless times─ love allows us to faithfully tarry beside her, until she has overcome her issue.
Why is it hard for women to complement one another? Often, we become distance and began to bad talk our bless sister behind her back. Why can’t we rejoice in her blessing? A true sister can celebrate no matter who is receiving the blessing.
The bond of sisterhood is even harder to find in our congregations. We pray, lift holy hands and sing, songs of praises to our Savior, all while hating the sister sitting beside us. In most churches, women fellowship has become extinct, because of envy and jealousy. Is this what God’s virtuous woman have become?
Our female ancestors taught their young girls the proper etiquette of behaving and acting like young women. But, today’s elder women are trying to recapture their youth, leaving the younger generation to figure out womanhood on their own. Proverbs 31:25-26 says, “Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.” sisterhood
I will be responsible for leading and guiding my sister back on the right path when she has lost her way. Yes, I’m my sister’s keeper. I vow to use my tongue to build her up, not tear her down. When she needs a shoulder to lean on, I will be the first to offer mine.
Cain killed his brother Abel. Some theologians believed that Cain was jealous of his brother’s sacrifices to God. Stop harboring hatred in your heart, because of the work another sister does for the Lord. God has equipped each of us with gifts. Use what He has given you, instead of becoming envious of your sister. God is no respecter of persons. The same Lord that blessed your sister has the ability to bless you as well.
It’s time for us to stop killing our sisters with our tongues. Life is hard enough without the little daggers we shoot at each other. Let those with experience, become mentors to our future young women. The time is now to leave a legacy of sisterhood behind that they will be proud to follow. Am I my sister’s keeper? The answer will always be a resounding, yes.
April 11, 2012
How Do You See Yourself?
By: Sheila L. Jackson
If you would just take a moment out of your busy schedule to watch
and observe the people that you come in contact with from day to day, you
might see that many of them are suffering from depression, an identity
crisis, and/or weight issues. You do not have to be a psychologist to realize
that something has gone terribly wrong in the world in which you live.
More than ever, people are confused as to who they are and what is considered
to be beautiful. Even the television shows and magazines are consumed
with issues of this nature. You see what the world wants you to see
and feel about yourself. You have been programmed and brainwashed into
the world’s system of beauty.
Drug addicts and alcoholics in Hollywood are setting false examples of
what real beauty is, when in reality, most of them are not happy with who
they are. If they were, rehabilitation centers would not be accepting them at
an alarming rate.
We have allowed celebrities who are breaking the law, driving drunk,
having babies out of wedlock, engaging in high profile infidelity, pill popping,
and getting intoxicated to set the standards of beauty for us. Has
anyone taken notice? These are the things that are captivating our young
impressionable kids. They are growing up in a society that cares more about
their rib cages showing through their skin than looking healthy and fit.
These are the images that our children are being exposed to everyday, and
we wonder why they are dying to be thin, hip, and cool. What they see
when they are looking at their favorite celebrities are those who are starving
themselves with unsuccessful fad diets or causing themselves to vomit so
they can fit into a size zero.
Society has become overly obsessed with self-image until it has resulted
in people taking extreme measures to be perfect and to meet standards that
are unobtainable. In the past, it appeared as though women were the only
ones that struggled with a low self-image, but today men are quickly following
the trail behind them.
Why can’t we see ourselves as God does? We are beautiful just the way
we are. True, we all want to better ourselves or to change something about
our appearances. Although as we grow in Christ, change is expected of us,
that change is inward.
God loves your big hips, your thick or thin lips, your straight or nappy hair, big or small body frame, and white or black, red or yellow complexion.
He loves you. You are His creation, His masterpiece, designed for His pleasure
and enjoyment. God did not waste His time when He sculpted and
molded you in His image. So, why have you allowed man to tell you that
you are less than God’s best?
But you are not like that, for you have been chosen by God himself—you
are priests of the King, you are holy and pure, you are God very own—
all this so that you may show to others how God called you out of the
darkness into his wonderful light. Once you were less than nothing; now
you are God’s own. Once you knew very little of God’s kindness; now
your very lives have been changed by it (I Peter 2:9-10, TLB).
Do not allow people to make you feel as though you are nothing. God
has called you out to be so much more—more than what you could ever
imagine for yourself. When people try to make you feel small and unimportant,
know that such a lie is one of Satan’s tricks. He uses those who are
closest to you to make you look at yourself in a negative way. Whatever
negative comments people make about you and your appearance, remember
that God said, “You are not like that.” He sees the beauty and the potential
that lies beneath the poor self-image that you have of yourself. When God
called you into a royal priesthood, He wanted you to know what you are
worth to Him. He has chosen you to be the peculiar one—strange to the
world but unique to Him.
Your thinning hairline down to the rolls on your belly is no accidents
to God. He knew what He wanted you to look like before you were born.
He did not plan on everyone looking exactly the same. You are skipping
meals and over exercising to fit an image that someone else has chosen for
you. Each time you look into the mirror at yourself, you sink further and
further into depression. In your mind, you feel that you do not measure up
to everyone else. If the truth be told, no one measures up to man’s standards,
and neither does the man or woman who set those unobtainable
standards.
We are a society that has become consumed with beauty and perfection
until we have forgotten who the only perfect One really is —Jesus. No one
will ever top the perfect Lamb of God. We may snip, tuck, and clip parts of
our body; but we will never reach perfection as long as we live here on earth.
Measure your self-worth and beauty by God’s standards. Man’s standards
will cause you to have low self-esteem issues and feelings of inadequacy.
It may even cause you to have suicidal thoughts. But the person that
sees him or herself as God does, sees him or herself as beautiful even
though they may have flaws. Their imperfection does not control the way
they see themselves.
You are a diamond in the rough. There is no one exactly like you—the
mold was broken when you were created. Only when you see yourself as
God sees you will you love the image that you see staring back at you in the
mirror. You will never see yourself as beautiful or unique until you can see
yourself clearly through the eyes of God.
If you would just take a moment out of your busy schedule to watch
and observe the people that you come in contact with from day to day, you
might see that many of them are suffering from depression, an identity
crisis, and/or weight issues. You do not have to be a psychologist to realize
that something has gone terribly wrong in the world in which you live.
More than ever, people are confused as to who they are and what is considered
to be beautiful. Even the television shows and magazines are consumed
with issues of this nature. You see what the world wants you to see
and feel about yourself. You have been programmed and brainwashed into
the world’s system of beauty.
Drug addicts and alcoholics in Hollywood are setting false examples of
what real beauty is, when in reality, most of them are not happy with who
they are. If they were, rehabilitation centers would not be accepting them at
an alarming rate.
We have allowed celebrities who are breaking the law, driving drunk,
having babies out of wedlock, engaging in high profile infidelity, pill popping,
and getting intoxicated to set the standards of beauty for us. Has
anyone taken notice? These are the things that are captivating our young
impressionable kids. They are growing up in a society that cares more about
their rib cages showing through their skin than looking healthy and fit.
These are the images that our children are being exposed to everyday, and
we wonder why they are dying to be thin, hip, and cool. What they see
when they are looking at their favorite celebrities are those who are starving
themselves with unsuccessful fad diets or causing themselves to vomit so
they can fit into a size zero.
Society has become overly obsessed with self-image until it has resulted
in people taking extreme measures to be perfect and to meet standards that
are unobtainable. In the past, it appeared as though women were the only
ones that struggled with a low self-image, but today men are quickly following
the trail behind them.
Why can’t we see ourselves as God does? We are beautiful just the way
we are. True, we all want to better ourselves or to change something about
our appearances. Although as we grow in Christ, change is expected of us,
that change is inward.
God loves your big hips, your thick or thin lips, your straight or nappy hair, big or small body frame, and white or black, red or yellow complexion.
He loves you. You are His creation, His masterpiece, designed for His pleasure
and enjoyment. God did not waste His time when He sculpted and
molded you in His image. So, why have you allowed man to tell you that
you are less than God’s best?
But you are not like that, for you have been chosen by God himself—you
are priests of the King, you are holy and pure, you are God very own—
all this so that you may show to others how God called you out of the
darkness into his wonderful light. Once you were less than nothing; now
you are God’s own. Once you knew very little of God’s kindness; now
your very lives have been changed by it (I Peter 2:9-10, TLB).
Do not allow people to make you feel as though you are nothing. God
has called you out to be so much more—more than what you could ever
imagine for yourself. When people try to make you feel small and unimportant,
know that such a lie is one of Satan’s tricks. He uses those who are
closest to you to make you look at yourself in a negative way. Whatever
negative comments people make about you and your appearance, remember
that God said, “You are not like that.” He sees the beauty and the potential
that lies beneath the poor self-image that you have of yourself. When God
called you into a royal priesthood, He wanted you to know what you are
worth to Him. He has chosen you to be the peculiar one—strange to the
world but unique to Him.
Your thinning hairline down to the rolls on your belly is no accidents
to God. He knew what He wanted you to look like before you were born.
He did not plan on everyone looking exactly the same. You are skipping
meals and over exercising to fit an image that someone else has chosen for
you. Each time you look into the mirror at yourself, you sink further and
further into depression. In your mind, you feel that you do not measure up
to everyone else. If the truth be told, no one measures up to man’s standards,
and neither does the man or woman who set those unobtainable
standards.
We are a society that has become consumed with beauty and perfection
until we have forgotten who the only perfect One really is —Jesus. No one
will ever top the perfect Lamb of God. We may snip, tuck, and clip parts of
our body; but we will never reach perfection as long as we live here on earth.
Measure your self-worth and beauty by God’s standards. Man’s standards
will cause you to have low self-esteem issues and feelings of inadequacy.
It may even cause you to have suicidal thoughts. But the person that
sees him or herself as God does, sees him or herself as beautiful even
though they may have flaws. Their imperfection does not control the way
they see themselves.
You are a diamond in the rough. There is no one exactly like you—the
mold was broken when you were created. Only when you see yourself as
God sees you will you love the image that you see staring back at you in the
mirror. You will never see yourself as beautiful or unique until you can see
yourself clearly through the eyes of God.
February 28, 2012
In The Name of Jesus
By: Sheila L. Jackson
Preachers, teachers, and missionaries of the gospel are to share the good news of Christ to the lost. But what if they are responsible for turning those who look to them for spiritual guidance away from Him?
Jesus commissioned us to preach, teach, and carry His Word to the four corners of the world. His commissioned has been tossed aside and replaced with greed, power, and sexual perversion. Many congregations uphold their spiritual leaders in their transgressions; willing to look the other way, if there is something in it for them. Incest, child pornography, extramarital affairs, homosexuality, sexual predators, and church brawlers have taken presidency in our sanctuaries each Sunday. And to think- they have the audacity to use the name of Jesus.
What has become of the church? When a minister can harass or stalk a woman in God’s house and no one seems to care. In the secular world sexual harassment and stalking carries a penalty. In the church, a slap on the wrist is payment for the crime. A pastor can take a child innocence and cry and beg for mercy and still continue to preach, but what about justice and mercy for the victim? In society that same person would be punished to the full extent of the law.
Are victims partially to blame for their pastors’ continued corrupt behaviors? Instead of calling them out for the deceivers they are. Most victims prefer to be paid off in an exchange for their silence. But what happens when they strike again and destroy, yet another life? The false prophets, then proceeds to Bible whip its victim to keep them under their control. He or she picks out scriptures that make them appear holy and justify their ungodly deeds. Proverbs 4:7 says, “Wisdom is the principle thing, therefore get wisdom. And with all thy getting, get understanding.” Search the scriptures for yourself that no man can beguile you.
We’ve seen it on television and read it on the Internet, church leaders getting richer by milking their poverty stricken congregation. And they do it in the name of Jesus. They participate in criminal activities, while standing behind the pulpit proclaiming God’s Word.
How can these things be? Why are they allowed to continue in their wickedness? Will justice prevail? II Corinthians 5:10 says, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad.” Rest assured, God sees their evil and will punished all those who use His name for self-glory and gain.
God’s house was created to be safe haven for the wounded and broken hearted. But the spirit of manipulation entered its doors and began preying on the weak. Those leaders will be held accountable. No one escapes this life without retribution. Matthew 18:6, Jesus says, “And whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.”
Jesus asked Simon Peter, “If he loved Him?”
And Simon Peter answered, “Yes, I love you.”
Jesus commissioned,” Feed my sheep.” He’s echoing those same sentiments to the church today. Ministers’ are the gatekeeper of their congregation souls. Woe unto them who lead God’s flock astray for self gain and elicit sexual pleasures.
The name of Jesus carries authority and great power. To speak it in vain or take its usage lightly will be punished by the Lord God Almighty. Mark 16:17-18, gives a Christian insight as to how powerful the name of Jesus is.
Mark 16:17- And these signs shall follow them that believe. In my name they shall cast out devils; they shall speak with new tongues:
Mark 16:18- They shall take up serpents; and if they drink any deadly thing, it shall not hurt them: they shall lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover.
In the name of Jesus, get an understanding. So, when the wolves’ come wearing sheep clothing, you will have authority and power to pull the wool off and expose him to the world.
Preachers, teachers, and missionaries of the gospel are to share the good news of Christ to the lost. But what if they are responsible for turning those who look to them for spiritual guidance away from Him?
Jesus commissioned us to preach, teach, and carry His Word to the four corners of the world. His commissioned has been tossed aside and replaced with greed, power, and sexual perversion. Many congregations uphold their spiritual leaders in their transgressions; willing to look the other way, if there is something in it for them. Incest, child pornography, extramarital affairs, homosexuality, sexual predators, and church brawlers have taken presidency in our sanctuaries each Sunday. And to think- they have the audacity to use the name of Jesus.
What has become of the church? When a minister can harass or stalk a woman in God’s house and no one seems to care. In the secular world sexual harassment and stalking carries a penalty. In the church, a slap on the wrist is payment for the crime. A pastor can take a child innocence and cry and beg for mercy and still continue to preach, but what about justice and mercy for the victim? In society that same person would be punished to the full extent of the law.
Are victims partially to blame for their pastors’ continued corrupt behaviors? Instead of calling them out for the deceivers they are. Most victims prefer to be paid off in an exchange for their silence. But what happens when they strike again and destroy, yet another life? The false prophets, then proceeds to Bible whip its victim to keep them under their control. He or she picks out scriptures that make them appear holy and justify their ungodly deeds. Proverbs 4:7 says, “Wisdom is the principle thing, therefore get wisdom. And with all thy getting, get understanding.” Search the scriptures for yourself that no man can beguile you.
We’ve seen it on television and read it on the Internet, church leaders getting richer by milking their poverty stricken congregation. And they do it in the name of Jesus. They participate in criminal activities, while standing behind the pulpit proclaiming God’s Word.
How can these things be? Why are they allowed to continue in their wickedness? Will justice prevail? II Corinthians 5:10 says, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad.” Rest assured, God sees their evil and will punished all those who use His name for self-glory and gain.
God’s house was created to be safe haven for the wounded and broken hearted. But the spirit of manipulation entered its doors and began preying on the weak. Those leaders will be held accountable. No one escapes this life without retribution. Matthew 18:6, Jesus says, “And whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.”
Jesus asked Simon Peter, “If he loved Him?”
And Simon Peter answered, “Yes, I love you.”
Jesus commissioned,” Feed my sheep.” He’s echoing those same sentiments to the church today. Ministers’ are the gatekeeper of their congregation souls. Woe unto them who lead God’s flock astray for self gain and elicit sexual pleasures.
The name of Jesus carries authority and great power. To speak it in vain or take its usage lightly will be punished by the Lord God Almighty. Mark 16:17-18, gives a Christian insight as to how powerful the name of Jesus is.
Mark 16:17- And these signs shall follow them that believe. In my name they shall cast out devils; they shall speak with new tongues:
Mark 16:18- They shall take up serpents; and if they drink any deadly thing, it shall not hurt them: they shall lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover.
In the name of Jesus, get an understanding. So, when the wolves’ come wearing sheep clothing, you will have authority and power to pull the wool off and expose him to the world.
July 30, 2010
Apex Book Reviews
Apex Review Of Through The Eyes Of God (Sheila Jackson)
Inspiring new guide to learning how to love yourself as you are.
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
PRLog (Press Release) – Jul 30, 2010 – Through The Eyes Of God
Sheila Jackson
ISBN: 9781581693423
Axiom Press
Reviewed By Dominique Sessons
Official Apex Reviews Rating: 5 Stars
Thick lips...small breast...skinny legs...bony chest...regardless of the particular feature, we are often discontent with the ways that we look – not to mention how much money we have or some of the other superficial circumstances of our lives. Add to all this the burdensome weight of ever-increasing societal pressure to look or act certain ways, and it’s not difficult to understand why levels of depression and discontent remain consistently high.
Which is exactly why Through The Eyes Of God could not come along at a better time. Skillfully penned by author Sheila Jackson, Through The Eyes Of God is an informative, insightful guide to learning how to love yourself – regardless of how you look, how much money you make, or how famous you may or may not be. Backed by applicable biblical scripture, Jackson makes cogent points about the importance of conquering long-held fears, overcoming prejudice, and training yourself to look at your life through spiritual eyes – thereby freeing yourself from the deceptive trappings of the flesh. Jackson also lends special attention to the significance of generational curses, expounding on the destructive potential that they wield over the lives of the innocent masses. By inviting readers to explore the root causes of their behavior – which is often seeded in the years that precede their arrival – Jackson provides them with the essential tools to embrace the healing power of forgiveness.
Undeniably powerful, Through The Eyes Of God is an inspiring reminder to celebrate the essence of who you truly are. A tremendously uplifting read
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Apex Reviews is a seasoned team of authors and editors with a combined total of over 75 years' experience in the publishing industry. Our reviews have been cited in various media across the globe, garnering accolades from editors, agents, and booksellers.
Inspiring new guide to learning how to love yourself as you are.
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
PRLog (Press Release) – Jul 30, 2010 – Through The Eyes Of God
Sheila Jackson
ISBN: 9781581693423
Axiom Press
Reviewed By Dominique Sessons
Official Apex Reviews Rating: 5 Stars
Thick lips...small breast...skinny legs...bony chest...regardless of the particular feature, we are often discontent with the ways that we look – not to mention how much money we have or some of the other superficial circumstances of our lives. Add to all this the burdensome weight of ever-increasing societal pressure to look or act certain ways, and it’s not difficult to understand why levels of depression and discontent remain consistently high.
Which is exactly why Through The Eyes Of God could not come along at a better time. Skillfully penned by author Sheila Jackson, Through The Eyes Of God is an informative, insightful guide to learning how to love yourself – regardless of how you look, how much money you make, or how famous you may or may not be. Backed by applicable biblical scripture, Jackson makes cogent points about the importance of conquering long-held fears, overcoming prejudice, and training yourself to look at your life through spiritual eyes – thereby freeing yourself from the deceptive trappings of the flesh. Jackson also lends special attention to the significance of generational curses, expounding on the destructive potential that they wield over the lives of the innocent masses. By inviting readers to explore the root causes of their behavior – which is often seeded in the years that precede their arrival – Jackson provides them with the essential tools to embrace the healing power of forgiveness.
Undeniably powerful, Through The Eyes Of God is an inspiring reminder to celebrate the essence of who you truly are. A tremendously uplifting read
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Apex Reviews is a seasoned team of authors and editors with a combined total of over 75 years' experience in the publishing industry. Our reviews have been cited in various media across the globe, garnering accolades from editors, agents, and booksellers.
July 21, 2010
Author's Interview
Sheila L. Jackson – Author Interview
by Cathy B Stucker 7/21/2010
What is your most recent book? Tell us a bit about it.
Through The Eyes of God
It exposes the people and places —community, family, friends, workplace and church— that are responsible for causing feelings of unworthiness and self-hatred. It Ideals with how we allow others to validate us and set standards that are unobtainable. And when we fail to meet those standards our self-ideal fails, which causes self-esteem issues.
Tell us something about yourself.
I was born in Shreveport, Louisiana where I still reside with my husband and two daughters. I graduated from Booker T. Washington H.S. I am a Clinical Laboratory Scientist and holds a Bachelor’s of Science degree from ULM of Monroe, La and an Associate of Science degree from Southern University, Shreveport, La.
I have been writing professionally for 4 years. I also wrote articles, such as: Only the Strong Survive, Count it all Joy, and Suffering in Silence, which appeared in Dream Magazine. I also wrote: Voting Booths, allows you to speak now or forever hold your peace (during the presidential election)
What inspired you to write this book? The Spirit of God, He shows me a person or persons that have been beaten down by life and bless me with a word that can deliver them from their broken spirits.
How did you publish this book?
Through Axiom Press.
Why did you decide on that publisher?
My agent found this company and I liked what they stood for.
How did you know you wanted to be a writer?
The Spirit of the Lord told me to write at the age of 39. How did you get started? I just wrote what God put in me and the words just flowed.
What do you believe is the hardest part of writing?
Editing, because you have to read your manuscript over and over. Many people seem to believe that the publishing company will do it all, but it takes several pair of eyes to catch your mistakes and sometimes that’s not full proof.
How do you do research for your books?
The Bible, Life, TV, Books/Magazines, co-workers, etc.
Did you learn anything from writing this book? What?
Yes. People are hurting all over the world. It’s not just a black or white problem, it’s a people problem. I also learned that it’s okay to be who God created me to be and that the color of my skin does not determine who I am, but what’s in my heart does.
What are you reading now?
Nothing at the moment, because I am currently researching infomation for my third book.
What types of books do you like to read?
Thrillers, Romance, Christian Fiction, Self-help books.Who are your favorite authors? Charles Dickens, Kimberla Roby, Victoria Christopher Murray, Sheila Goss, Ernest Hemingway, Joel Osteen, TD Jakes, Joyce Meyers, and Beth Moore.
Why? Because they all satisfy my many personalities.
Are you working on your next book? What can you tell us about it?
It’s filled with drama and action. It will be my first Christian Fiction. I don’t want to reveal too much.
What is the best advice you could give other writers about writing or publishing?
Never give up. You will receive more rejection letters than acceptance letters, but don’t let that discourage you. For every no there is a yes. If you believe in your writing you will keep trying.
What are you doing to promote your latest book?
E-blast, magazine ads, book signing, speaking engagement, blogs, websites, and going to places in my community (beauty shops, libraries, stores, etc.)
Where can readers learn more about you and your book?
www.sheilaljackson2.com, http://twitter.com/sheilaljackson, http://www.myspace.com/sheilalouiseja...
by Cathy B Stucker 7/21/2010
What is your most recent book? Tell us a bit about it.
Through The Eyes of God
It exposes the people and places —community, family, friends, workplace and church— that are responsible for causing feelings of unworthiness and self-hatred. It Ideals with how we allow others to validate us and set standards that are unobtainable. And when we fail to meet those standards our self-ideal fails, which causes self-esteem issues.
Tell us something about yourself.
I was born in Shreveport, Louisiana where I still reside with my husband and two daughters. I graduated from Booker T. Washington H.S. I am a Clinical Laboratory Scientist and holds a Bachelor’s of Science degree from ULM of Monroe, La and an Associate of Science degree from Southern University, Shreveport, La.
I have been writing professionally for 4 years. I also wrote articles, such as: Only the Strong Survive, Count it all Joy, and Suffering in Silence, which appeared in Dream Magazine. I also wrote: Voting Booths, allows you to speak now or forever hold your peace (during the presidential election)
What inspired you to write this book? The Spirit of God, He shows me a person or persons that have been beaten down by life and bless me with a word that can deliver them from their broken spirits.
How did you publish this book?
Through Axiom Press.
Why did you decide on that publisher?
My agent found this company and I liked what they stood for.
How did you know you wanted to be a writer?
The Spirit of the Lord told me to write at the age of 39. How did you get started? I just wrote what God put in me and the words just flowed.
What do you believe is the hardest part of writing?
Editing, because you have to read your manuscript over and over. Many people seem to believe that the publishing company will do it all, but it takes several pair of eyes to catch your mistakes and sometimes that’s not full proof.
How do you do research for your books?
The Bible, Life, TV, Books/Magazines, co-workers, etc.
Did you learn anything from writing this book? What?
Yes. People are hurting all over the world. It’s not just a black or white problem, it’s a people problem. I also learned that it’s okay to be who God created me to be and that the color of my skin does not determine who I am, but what’s in my heart does.
What are you reading now?
Nothing at the moment, because I am currently researching infomation for my third book.
What types of books do you like to read?
Thrillers, Romance, Christian Fiction, Self-help books.Who are your favorite authors? Charles Dickens, Kimberla Roby, Victoria Christopher Murray, Sheila Goss, Ernest Hemingway, Joel Osteen, TD Jakes, Joyce Meyers, and Beth Moore.
Why? Because they all satisfy my many personalities.
Are you working on your next book? What can you tell us about it?
It’s filled with drama and action. It will be my first Christian Fiction. I don’t want to reveal too much.
What is the best advice you could give other writers about writing or publishing?
Never give up. You will receive more rejection letters than acceptance letters, but don’t let that discourage you. For every no there is a yes. If you believe in your writing you will keep trying.
What are you doing to promote your latest book?
E-blast, magazine ads, book signing, speaking engagement, blogs, websites, and going to places in my community (beauty shops, libraries, stores, etc.)
Where can readers learn more about you and your book?
www.sheilaljackson2.com, http://twitter.com/sheilaljackson, http://www.myspace.com/sheilalouiseja...
All The Buzz Book Review-Interview
Buzzin’ about with Sheila Jackson
July 13, 2010 By Renee Williams
Would you rather find true love or be filthy rich? I would like to find true love; why be rich and lonely.
Would you rather sing in the rain or dance in the streets? Sing in the rain, because the noise from it will drown me out, but everyone can see me make a fool out of myself dancing in the streets.
Complete this sentence – If you were stranded on an island… I would love for Kyle Chatman, one of Rochelle Alers fictional characters, to be stranded there with me. Oh Lord, forgive my thoughts.
Out of all your college experiences, what was the most fun? When my girlfriends and I were trying to bust into Al B. Sure and New Edition’s room after their concert.
If I came to your home and looked in your refrigerator, what would I find? A mess, because I have kids that spills everything.
What did you want to be when you were 12 years old? I wanted to be the next Tina Turner
What is your worst quality? I get irritated easily.
Where do you go to get away? Sad to say, the bathroom
What makes you laugh? Stupid Reality shows and watching my family clown around the house.
Mention some incidents when you laughed at yourself? When I mistakenly put meat in the kitchen cabinet, instead of the refrigerator. I had to laugh when I was fixing my clothes in a store window, only to find out when I walked inside that people were eating facing that window.
If you were given one million dollars how would you spend it? Pay my Tithes first, I must give God His. Put some in a college fund for my kids, give to a women/child group home, go on a cruise, buy a new car, and re-decorate my entire home.
If you were granted one wish to change the world what would it be and why? To cure all diseases. I hate to see people suffer, especially kids.
If you are given a chance to travel into the past where would you go and why? To the Garden of Eden to stop Eve from eating the forbidden fruit. Mankind have suffered greatly because of that incident .
What is one of the most embarrassing situations you have had? When the daycare worker found a pair of my underwear stuck to the inside of my daughter’s coat. And in front of everyone she held them up and asked if they were mine.
What is one thing you’ve always wanted to do, but have yet to do? Travel to an exotic Island
July 13, 2010 By Renee Williams
Would you rather find true love or be filthy rich? I would like to find true love; why be rich and lonely.
Would you rather sing in the rain or dance in the streets? Sing in the rain, because the noise from it will drown me out, but everyone can see me make a fool out of myself dancing in the streets.
Complete this sentence – If you were stranded on an island… I would love for Kyle Chatman, one of Rochelle Alers fictional characters, to be stranded there with me. Oh Lord, forgive my thoughts.
Out of all your college experiences, what was the most fun? When my girlfriends and I were trying to bust into Al B. Sure and New Edition’s room after their concert.
If I came to your home and looked in your refrigerator, what would I find? A mess, because I have kids that spills everything.
What did you want to be when you were 12 years old? I wanted to be the next Tina Turner
What is your worst quality? I get irritated easily.
Where do you go to get away? Sad to say, the bathroom
What makes you laugh? Stupid Reality shows and watching my family clown around the house.
Mention some incidents when you laughed at yourself? When I mistakenly put meat in the kitchen cabinet, instead of the refrigerator. I had to laugh when I was fixing my clothes in a store window, only to find out when I walked inside that people were eating facing that window.
If you were given one million dollars how would you spend it? Pay my Tithes first, I must give God His. Put some in a college fund for my kids, give to a women/child group home, go on a cruise, buy a new car, and re-decorate my entire home.
If you were granted one wish to change the world what would it be and why? To cure all diseases. I hate to see people suffer, especially kids.
If you are given a chance to travel into the past where would you go and why? To the Garden of Eden to stop Eve from eating the forbidden fruit. Mankind have suffered greatly because of that incident .
What is one of the most embarrassing situations you have had? When the daycare worker found a pair of my underwear stuck to the inside of my daughter’s coat. And in front of everyone she held them up and asked if they were mine.
What is one thing you’ve always wanted to do, but have yet to do? Travel to an exotic Island
