Stephanie Lahart's Blog - Posts Tagged "encouragement"

I will not give up on me. For I have been down that road before. I remember what it’s like to walk away from something that I was so passionate about. I remember what it’s like to walk away from my dreams. I know what it feels like to settle for less than what I deserve. I know what it feels like to pretend that everything is okay when on the inside I’m hurting and full of pain. I know what it feels like to have sleepless nights…tossing and turning, wondering if things will ever change.

I know what it feels like to be waiting by the phone, hoping that you’ll call. I know what it feels like when you love somebody and they don’t love you back. I know what it feels like to give your heart to someone over, and over, and over again. I know what it feels like to be lied to…it didn’t seem to faze you one bit. I know what it feels like to not be put first in someone’s life because drugs and alcohol have the first priority. I know what it feels like to have low self-esteem. I KNOW…I KNOW! I know what it’s like to have a child and you think that it’s going to be the changing factor in your relationship. I know what it feels like to love someone so much, and yet they still don’t get it.

I know what it’s like to give up on me. I now know just how important I am. I count, and I deserve the VERY best!I am special…I am loving…I am loyal…I am beautiful on the inside…I am strong, and I am worthy and deserving of genuine love. I know my self-worth, so I will not give up on me! I will not give up on me! I will NOT give up on me! I am NOT a victim, I am victorious. Amen!

I want my readers to see themselves in this passage. Keep telling yourself that you won’t give up on YOU. Keep saying it until you believe it. Keep saying it until you achieve it. Do NOT give up on you. You’re much too important. Believe that!
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I know that you may be going through some really tough and trying times right now, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re still dealing with the hurt and the pain from your past, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like giving up and throwing in the towel, but, please don’t, you’re going to be okay. I know that you feel like you just can’t take it anymore, but keep on pushing anyways, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being mistreated and misunderstood, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of everybody depending on you when you wish you had somebody to depend on, but, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of always having to be the strong one for the family, but you’re going to be okay.

I know that you’re tired of your kids giving you a hard time, but you’ll be okay. I know that you’re tired of working long hours and still having to struggle to get by, but, no worries, you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of all the fussing and fighting, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of feeling lonely and wish that you had somebody to love, but you’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of being sick in your body, but, by God’s grace and mercy, you will be healed. You’re going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of disappointing yourself and others that love and care for you, but it’s going to be okay. I know that you’re tired of pretending like you have it all together when all hell is breaking loose in your life, but be encouraged, ALL is well.

You’re going to be okay because our God is in control. He will give you peace in the midst of a storm. All you have to do is talk to him. There is no right or wrong way to talk to him. Just talk to him like you’re talking to a regular person. He knows all and he sees all. He knows our struggles. He knows our pain. He knows our disappointments. He knows, He KNOWS! We can depend on God to see us through. Make no mistake about that. He loves and cares for us. Everything works together for the good of those who love the Lord. Not some things, but ALL things. You’re going to be okay!
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Open up your heart to receive the love that you deserve.

Let your past mistakes make you stronger and wiser.

Forgive yourself and be at peace.

Love yourself and see the best in yourself!

Respect yourself!

Be good to yourself!

Take care of yourself because YOU are important!

Leave your comfort zone behind.

Get out and see new things.

Experience all that life has to offer for you.

Be spontaneous!

Let down your guards!

Do things that bring happiness to you!

Smile and laugh, laugh and smile.

You’re on your way to being free!

LIVE and don’t just exist.

Make everyday count for something.

Create memories that will live after you’re gone.

Love, love unconditionally.

Allow yourself to be vulnerable, because it’s okay.

Communicate your feelings, don’t hold them in.

Be bold and stand up for what you believe.

Don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

Always remember how important you are.

Don’t allow anybody to keep you down.

Stand tall!

Keep your head up!

Never lose confidence in yourself!

We all make mistakes, nobody’s perfect.

Learn, grow, and do better.

Pay attention to life and life will show you many things.

Increase your knowledge and be open to learn.

Never underestimate what you can learn or do.

Give yourself chances and don’t doubt yourself!

To be free is to really live.

Live your life and live it well.

No more regrets!

No more shame!

No more thinking about what you should’ve done!

NO MORE!

LIVE! That’s all. LIVE and be free!

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Some people will not believe in you,
But you’d better not be one of them.
Some people may not see your full potential,
But you’d better not be one of them.
Some people may question your capabilities,
But you’d better not be one of them.
Some people will purposely overlook you,
But that’s okay, it’s THEIR loss.
Some people will not be supportive of you,
And they will speak negative and hurtful words.

Know Who You Are!
DON’T BE DISCOURAGED… PERSEVERE.

ENCOURAGE yourself,
BELIEVE in yourself, and
LOVE yourself…
Never doubt who you are.

Always think highly of yourself!
Always know that you matter!
Always know that your voice matters!
Always know that you are worth it!
Always give yourself a chance!
Always know that you can and will succeed!

Written by Stephanie Lahart! Black Female Author and Poet, Youth Motivational Speaker for At-Risk Teens, Teen Mentor, and Entrepreneur.