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Until YOU get enough of what you’re going through, no matter what advice a person gives you, you’ll continue to go through the same thing.

Have you ever known somebody that says, “I’ve had ENOUGH,” BUT, days, weeks, or years later, you see them still putting up with the same crap. That’s because they didn’t really mean it when they said that they’ve had enough. They spoke it out of their mouth, but their heart was still in it. The truth of the matter is, sometimes the person has to go through the fire themselves in order to really learn a lesson.

There’s nothing like getting hurt until you reach a point where it breaks you down. There’s nothing like experiencing disappointment, until it’s looking you straight in the face. There’s nothing like being lied to by somebody you fully trusted, but now you recognize the truth. There’s nothing like helping somebody over and over again, just to be burned in the end.

Have you had enough yet? Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired? How much more are you willing to put up with? Is this just a waste of your time? You say that you’ve had enough of his/her cheating. But as soon as they sweet talk you, you’re right back in their arms, totally dismissing what they’ve done to you. You say you’re sick and tired of lending money. But as soon as someone shares their sob story with you, you’re at the bank or pulling out your wallet. You say that you’re sick and tired of EVERYTHING, but you keep finding yourself pulled back into your misery.

What is it going to take for you to be good to yourself? It’s one thing to be kind, but it’s another story when you allow people to start taking advantage of you and have you on a roller coaster ride of emotions. You’re up one minute, down the next, and being twisted in every direction. It’s time to put you first! The next time you say that you’ve had enough, mean it and stand on your word without wavering.
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I will not give up on me. For I have been down that road before. I remember what it’s like to walk away from something that I was so passionate about. I remember what it’s like to walk away from my dreams. I know what it feels like to settle for less than what I deserve. I know what it feels like to pretend that everything is okay when on the inside I’m hurting and full of pain. I know what it feels like to have sleepless nights…tossing and turning, wondering if things will ever change.

I know what it feels like to be waiting by the phone, hoping that you’ll call. I know what it feels like when you love somebody and they don’t love you back. I know what it feels like to give your heart to someone over, and over, and over again. I know what it feels like to be lied to…it didn’t seem to faze you one bit. I know what it feels like to not be put first in someone’s life because drugs and alcohol have the first priority. I know what it feels like to have low self-esteem. I KNOW…I KNOW! I know what it’s like to have a child and you think that it’s going to be the changing factor in your relationship. I know what it feels like to love someone so much, and yet they still don’t get it.

I know what it’s like to give up on me. I now know just how important I am. I count, and I deserve the VERY best!I am special…I am loving…I am loyal…I am beautiful on the inside…I am strong, and I am worthy and deserving of genuine love. I know my self-worth, so I will not give up on me! I will not give up on me! I will NOT give up on me! I am NOT a victim, I am victorious. Amen!

I want my readers to see themselves in this passage. Keep telling yourself that you won’t give up on YOU. Keep saying it until you believe it. Keep saying it until you achieve it. Do NOT give up on you. You’re much too important. Believe that!
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Synopsis:

Note to Readers:This book is recommended for mature audiences. Some parts of this book contain sexual relations.

Hannah-Marie is married and she will be celebrating her 25th anniversary in three more days. But, there’s a problem. She has three other men that have been occupying her mind: Christian, Liam, and Bryce. Hannah-Marie has been thinking things that a married woman shouldn’t, things that her husband would NEVER imagine or suspect. After all of these years of marriage, why now? What is it about these other men? Will Hannah-Marie ruin her marriage and risk it all? Many secrets will be revealed, secrets that have been hidden for years. Does her husband, Matthew, REALLY know his wife, and what secrets have Matthew been hiding?

In a marriage, sometimes you think you know everything about your mate, but you don’t. Will Hannah-Marie come clean to Matthew or will her thoughts become a reality with these three other men? Hannah-Marie thinks she’s the only one with secrets, but she’s in for a surprise when Matthew reveals his secrets as well. Marriage can be a beautiful thing BUT, as we all know, some decisions can change the course of a marriage forever…or do they?

Marriage/Temptation/Romance/Decisions

Genre: Fiction

Available on Amazon: Paperback and Kindle
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Are you “in love” with the one that you’re with, or did you settle? Many people are in relationships that they aren't fully committed to. On the outside, their relationship looks perfect, but on the inside, their heart belongs to somebody else.

My heart goes out to people that are in relationships and/or are married to someone because of status, family, money, etc. It must be torture to be with somebody physically, but mentally, you’re thinking of somebody else. Somebody that you TRULY wanted to be with, but you can’t.

Can you just be honest with yourself for a minute? You know that you still think about him/her. Deep down in your heart you would be with him/her if you could. You can’t and won’t get this person out of your mind. They will forever be in your heart. You sometimes fantasize about “what if.” This person was special to you, and still is. Nobody else knows your thoughts and feelings but you. You wouldn't dare speak of it to anyone.

The thought of him/her brings a smile to your face. You sometimes wish that you had the courage to do what you really wanted to do. But you’re so focused on what others will think of you.

What about YOU? Shouldn't you have the choice to be with who you want to be with? It amazes me how family can say that they love you and that they’re behind you, but if you go against the grain, they’re quick to disown you. Hmm…That’s some real food-for-thought for some of you reading this. Love is NOT controlling.

People should be able to love who they want to love. You can’t help who you fall in love with. Why should anybody have to suppress their feelings? It’s just not right.

I hope this passage helps someone out there. Be with who you want to be with. Your happiness matters. Don’t allow what others may think about you to influence your decisions. It’s YOUR life! Love, be happy, and enjoy life! We only get one life, so why waste it?

Stand up for yourself, be courageous, and most importantly of all, be truthful to yourself. Be with the one YOU love!

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Open up your heart to receive the love that you deserve.

Let your past mistakes make you stronger and wiser.

Forgive yourself and be at peace.

Love yourself and see the best in yourself!

Respect yourself!

Be good to yourself!

Take care of yourself because YOU are important!

Leave your comfort zone behind.

Get out and see new things.

Experience all that life has to offer for you.

Be spontaneous!

Let down your guards!

Do things that bring happiness to you!

Smile and laugh, laugh and smile.

You’re on your way to being free!

LIVE and don’t just exist.

Make everyday count for something.

Create memories that will live after you’re gone.

Love, love unconditionally.

Allow yourself to be vulnerable, because it’s okay.

Communicate your feelings, don’t hold them in.

Be bold and stand up for what you believe.

Don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

Always remember how important you are.

Don’t allow anybody to keep you down.

Stand tall!

Keep your head up!

Never lose confidence in yourself!

We all make mistakes, nobody’s perfect.

Learn, grow, and do better.

Pay attention to life and life will show you many things.

Increase your knowledge and be open to learn.

Never underestimate what you can learn or do.

Give yourself chances and don’t doubt yourself!

To be free is to really live.

Live your life and live it well.

No more regrets!

No more shame!

No more thinking about what you should’ve done!

NO MORE!

LIVE! That’s all. LIVE and be free!

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I want you to take a close look at your life. Do you find yourself rushing all of the time?

Well, Think about THIS: We go about living our lives on a daily basis, and we have what we call a “to-do list.” We have to do grocery shopping, stop by the cleaners, pick our children up from day care/school, wash the car, walk and feed the pets, go by the bank. And the list goes on and on.

Every day we do what would be considered “the norm.” We get SO busy that sometimes we forget to slow down and appreciate life as it should be. Don’t get me wrong, all of these things that we do are important, but it’s also equally important to find a good balance with everything else in our lives. Learn to relax. Don’t be in a rush. Take your time, and remember to value the things that are truly important. Many people don’t realize just how valuable life is until something tragic happens. I’m going to give you an eye-opening example of what I’m talking about.

Do you take the time to hug and/or kiss your loved ones every day? Do you take the time to cook and then sit down with the family to enjoy it? Do you take time out of your day to just laugh, smile, or unwind from it all? Do you make time for “family time?” Do you take the time to ask your mate or somebody who’s close to you “How was your day” and be patient enough to allow them to answer and then talk about it? Do you take the time to say “I love you?” Do you take the time to sit down and have long, deep conversations?

Do you allow yourself time to do what you enjoy, or do you spend all of your time only doing what you HAVE to do? Can you sit through an entire movie or show without answering or looking at your phone? Are you too busy on the computer that you don’t even notice what’s really going on in your household? Do you allow your mind to take a break and rest? Did you stop doing something that you love because you feel like you’re too old? Remember, age is just a number. When was the last time, or have you ever taken a long train ride and enjoyed the sound, sights, and people around you?

I could go on and on, but I think that you get my point by now. We have to allow time for the things that really matter. Now that I’ve got your attention, it’s time for you to ask yourself: “What can I do to bring balance into my life?” When we know better, we should do better. You owe it to yourself. Live life to the fullest! Value what’s most important, and allow yourself to enjoy all of the peace that comes with it.

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An unbreakable bond is what we share
Our love is genuine and rare
Beautiful memories of you and I
Laughing, smiling and joking
Unafraid to be ourselves
We are mother and daughter

Openly talk about whatever is on our mind
We fully trust one another with our deepest thoughts
We are best friends
How awesome is that?!
Never have to pretend
We can just be ourselves

We love each other unconditionally
Occasional attitude
Moody ways
And those not so good days,
Will never change the way we feel
Our love is one of a kind

We don’t always see eye to eye
But we communicate to make things right
Never stay upset with one another for too long
For our love is much too strong
Togetherness
An undeniable bond

You are my daughter and I am your mother
Always there for one another
Fully supporting and encouraging each other’s dreams
Uplifting, never discouraging
We are each other’s biggest fans
We are one

Kiss and hug each other on a daily basis
Show each other love and appreciation
I’ m an image of you and you’re an image of me
We are very special to one another
Mother and daughter is what we are
We Are Each Other’s Heartbeat!


– Written by Author Stephanie Lahart


* I was inspired to write this poem about me and my daughter's relationship. I hope you enjoy reading it! :)

Kings and Queens don’t compete against one another. They support, encourage, and help each other out to the best of their ability. They fully understand that they’re a team. His success is her success and her success is his success.

They build each other up, NEVER tear one another down. They choose their words wisely when they speak. They understand the power of words once spoken.

They love each other for who THEY are. Respecting one another’s uniqueness, flaws in all. They understand that nobody’s perfect.

They are faithful to one another. They wouldn’t dare entertain that kind of foolishness in their relationship. They both know what they have in each other, and no other man or woman could come between them, no matter what! Cheating is total disrespect! That’s not something that they’re willing to play with.

Kings and Queens complement each other very well. They make each other look good. When they step out, people can’t help but to take notice of their blessed union. Their love for one another is genuine and rare. The love that they share is simply beautiful!

The king respects his queen and the queen respects her king. Respect is a big deal! They understand that without it, there is no real relationship.

They are one! He feels her pain and she feels his pain. But together, they fight through it all. Giving up is NOT an option for them. They always rise above because they have each other. Together, they represent strength, courage, and wisdom. Their union is the real deal. Oh yes it is!

Communication is important to the both of them. It keeps their relationship healthy.

Their sex life is great! They don’t believe in withholding their love from one another. They don’t play childish games like that. Romance is NOT lacking in their relationship. No neglecting here! LOVE, LOVE, AND MORE LOVE.

They show their appreciation for one another because they understand the importance of doing so. Everybody wants to feel and know that they are appreciated. Everybody!

Never too busy for one another. They understand that “TIME” is valuable. They both understand that balancing work/life/school is of great importance. You should never be too busy for your loved ones.

Trust! Without it, any relationship is doomed. So with that being said, they are honest with one another, even if it hurts. They understand that lying to one another is just NOT worth it! It’s better to be upfront with each other because lying causes division and unwanted problems.

Neither one of them are selfish to a fault. They are both okay with compromising because they understand that you can’t expect to ALWAYS get your way. That’s just not fair to either one of them.

Kings and queens are NOT perfect by any means. They have their bad days too. And yes, they have disagreements just like everybody else, but they don’t stay mad at each other for long. They fully understand that anger, bitterness, and resentments lead to much greater problems. So they make sure that they communicate the problem once they’re both cooled off.

To have a love like this is unmatchable!

May all of you one day find YOUR king and YOUR queen.

What a BEAUTIFUL kind of love this is! Absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

Written By Author Stephanie Lahart 

“It’s so easy and convenient to buy our children gifts, but I encourage and challenge you to give them gifts that TRULY matter! The gift of unconditional love. The gift of encouragement. The gift of support. The gift of friendship. The gift of communication,understanding, and patience. The gift of guidance and support. The gift of quality time. And the gift of loving them for who THEY are. Material things are nice, but NOTHING compares to genuine love! Parenting should be taken seriously.”

– Author Stephanie Lahart

"His Tongue Was One of His Greatest Qualities" | An Inspirational Relationship Poem About Love | Love Poems for Her and Him | Couples Poems | Love Relationship Poems

His tongue was one of his greatest qualities

He knew exactly how to use it with me

Encouraging, kind, and loving words

Flowed freely and frequently from his lips

Always inspiring me to upgrade my thinking

His tongue spoke life into me

Awakening gifts in me that I didn’t know existed

He used his tongue wisely

Truth be told

He’s part of the reason why I am me

Exquisite, Powerful, Fearless, and Unapologetic

I’ll be forever grateful for his genuine love

- Stephanie Lahart