Sharyn Ferns's Blog: Domme Chronicles

Content warning: Death and grief

It’s muggy today in the way that overcast summer days often are, the air thick with it. I really want to put my hair up, get it off my neck, it is somehow not soft anymore, but scratchy, straw-like. I don’t know why. But I had it blow-dried at the hairdresser yesterday and they do some kind of magic that once undone can’t be recaptured, so it sits uncomfortable on … Continue Reading

“Hey
Anyone can get love
Anyone can get laid
You know you’re home when you find the ones who stay
Brave enough not to tame
They let you burst into flames
Stoke the coals and then watch you blow
They’re the ones make you trust in the universe
When you’re lost and you’re left and it’s getting worse
They’re the ones who you know will get you by
We are all strange
And it ain’t … Continue Reading

For new dominants, there is often an internalised belief that they are ‘being mean’ to their submissives when they play. Especially when the play involves physical or emotional pain. Impact play, CBT, nipple torture, humiliation, degradation…

This is true for many dominants, but it’s especially true for new dominant women who have been socialised their entire lives to ‘be nice’ and who often enter online spaces where they are heavily rewarded by fetishists for ‘being … Continue Reading

The lovely Axe from the Masocast invited me to have another chat with him and of course I said ‘yes’ to that :).

My fourth interview for the Masocast! I am clearly his favourite :P.

My earlier interviews can be found here:

Inaugural Masocast interview (2012!)Second Masocast interview two years laterMy third Masocast interview in 2019

And here we are at number four :).

Some snippets:

I cannot say it’s because of that,

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This fantastic femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:

Post-punishment ritualsSweetness in my ‘Ask Me‘s! Thank youD/s Kissing 101, an impassioned primerMoney is complicating my relationship: Halp!How many ‘great loves’ have you had?Can I maintain my masculinity and be submissive? (spoiler: YES!)And more!

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes and Spotify: Subscribe if you want to be sure to get my audio porn delivered straight … Continue Reading

I still haven’t ventured into the femdom sims since I last posted about femdom in Second Life, for the record. Instead I am trying my hand at adding scripts to simple objects because I’m curious and it’s fun to learn new things. RLV scripts, to be specific.

WHAT HAS THIS GOT TO DO WITH FEMDOM, FERNS? JFC?!!

Patience, grasshopper.

RLV stands for Restrained Love Viewer.

RLV (Restrained Love Viewer) enhances your Second Life experience

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I ventured into Second Life to check out the femdom sims some eleven years ago.

I wrote some posts about how I found femdom in Second Life way back then:

Sunday Curiosity #9 – Femdom in Second Life IntroFemdom in Second Life – RandomnessFemdom in Second Life – My Thoughts

Recently I was contacted by a lovely submissive, Roth, who was spending time in Second Life (SL) and I ventured back in with … Continue Reading

This is adapted from my response to a question on Fetlife that I see a lot from submissives who have partners who are new and exploring their dominance:

“How can I help my partner be more dominant?”

These questions always seem to be accompanied by descriptions of what they’ve tried that essentially boil down to ‘I told her how to do (more of) my fetish to me’ and, unsurprisingly, that doesn’t work so well…

This … Continue Reading

In a book club chat with Joshua Tenpenny, the submissive half of the M/m couple who authored Real Service (if you haven’t browsed my non-fiction BDSM booklist yet, go take a look!), he talked about the realities of submission with years of real D/s relationship experience behind him, and I tell you what, discussions with people with that kind of experience is a breath of fresh air.

One of the things he said was essentially: … Continue Reading

This is another femdom audio erotica story written and spoken by me: A taste of the femdom audio porn on my Patreon :).

I glance sideways at you, catch your eye. You are watching me. I know that look, it says “Here I am, Ma’am…” It invites and challenges me. It waits.

You are good at it, inviting me in, I mean.

I turn to face you and you hold your breath, steel yourself, shore

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