Rikky Bhartia's Blog
February 14, 2014
Valentines Day... My view, do you agree?...
Valentine’s Day... The Day of love, when everyone say love is in the air, hearts seems floating everywhere and arrows chasing them to hit them. Enter and live in them forever, some do hit but some miss, some hearts gets broken into pieces by getting hit from wrong arrows and some arrows, after hitting their correct target surpass them and gets hit by other arrows, hence resulting in two life’s ruin...
To simplify above, today some hearts meet and become one forever, when someone proposes and the other accepts, someone just be happy by watching their love smiling, some even loses their love to someone else, but there are few people today who just keep hiding themselves from everyone, and remember their lost love, collecting the pieces of broken heart be it broken by their love or be they themselves have thrown away their love, some selfish people still enjoy their life with someone new in their life, forgetting the one they have left behind to weep and to remember them and the lovely moments spent with them this day...
Some who fall newly in love even don’t realize in their happiness they unintentionally hurt someone, by saying today is my best day, I am crazily in love and asking ‘hey how are you? Are you still remembering your love? And such stuffs’....
But I want to ask all, is this day, The Valentine’s Day to be specific only to enjoy our love, to spend the day saying lovely words to our special one, giving them gifts, looking in each other’s eyes, dreaming of the future with each other, or to chase our love, to try and propose him/her, to regret on ourselves for being unable to express? Or to remember our lost love?
As if we do only these things, it makes the Day and its importance very small, if you show off your love to everyone, it basically shows that you aren’t actually feeling love, as if you do you won’t have time and words to share it with others, and even you won’t need to do, and if you show that you are alone, you are making fun of yourself, as on this day those who are with love won’t pay attention to your loneliness, and those who themselves are lonely they will give a damn, and the posts like ‘I am happy to be single, I am in love with myself etc’, everyone knows the reality of such posts. As these posts may become a source of love and happiness for us but may hurt someone alone on the day.
Yes this day is of love and to spread love, but not to the one we love, as we love them every day, and every moment of our life, and if we need this one day to love them, then, is it really love?
Yes we can’t ignore our love, as this is a special day in life of people in love, but along with them, this day gets its meaning by loving and spreading our love to those people who are not loved by anyone, who don’t know what love is. Who are alone and sad...
There are a lot of people and faces around us, who smile but have kept their sadness hidden behind their smiles, which hold back tears just not to spoil your day, to see you smiling, to make you enjoy your love, this day is not to chase the one you have been chasing long as they won’t ever turn back to you, but this the day to turn back and see the one who loves you and is running behind you, by running behind someone and ahead of someone, you gain tears for you and spread for someone too, but by turning back you earn smiles for you, and for others.
This day is to wipe of tears of someone who is crying in memories of his/her love, to accompany someone alone so that he/she doesn’t have time to realise the emptiness and absence of love in the life, this is the day to do different things in different ways, to hold hand of someone and say
‘Chill Maar Yaar, hum hain na, tera bhi hoga.’
Even this is a day to unite two lovers if you can, to make someone know the feeling of other if you know he/she can’t express, this is the day to save someone from getting trapped and hurt in fake love, this is the day to bring love back in someone’s life or to make someone meet new people and new friends, who knows may be they found their love among these new people, and you be the reason for someone smiles...
If today you can bring smile on someone face,
If today you can wipe someone’s tears,
If today you can make someone feel not alone,
If today you can give someone the reason to mingle,
If today you can take away someone’s sorrows,
If today you can erase someone bad memories,
If today you can give someone new memories.
It’s then today you can say Its Valentine’s Day,
As then someone else will also be Happy to say with you Happy Valentine’s Day...
And will mean it, and won’t run away from this day and talking to people on this day.
Valentine’s Day is not only for two people in love, couples, engaged people, but also for two friends, two acquaintances, two strangers, and two people who are made for each other still to meet, but enjoying the day of love at the same time with their friends at different places who don’t ignore them, waiting for each other...
So save someone’s from losing the love in his/her heart to loneliness and sadness...
Since morning got then messages asking for a post on Valentine’s Day, but had no clue what to write, as posting normal love post was not my cup of tea for the day, 'KYA KARUN BINA VALENTINE KE VALENTINE POST MAARNA WO BHI FEEL KARKE THODA MUSKIL THA’, but then this idea came to my mind and wrote it...
A little long I know but if you have read till now do comment was it a worth read????
RB...
Me "N" Her - A Strange Feeling
To simplify above, today some hearts meet and become one forever, when someone proposes and the other accepts, someone just be happy by watching their love smiling, some even loses their love to someone else, but there are few people today who just keep hiding themselves from everyone, and remember their lost love, collecting the pieces of broken heart be it broken by their love or be they themselves have thrown away their love, some selfish people still enjoy their life with someone new in their life, forgetting the one they have left behind to weep and to remember them and the lovely moments spent with them this day...
Some who fall newly in love even don’t realize in their happiness they unintentionally hurt someone, by saying today is my best day, I am crazily in love and asking ‘hey how are you? Are you still remembering your love? And such stuffs’....
But I want to ask all, is this day, The Valentine’s Day to be specific only to enjoy our love, to spend the day saying lovely words to our special one, giving them gifts, looking in each other’s eyes, dreaming of the future with each other, or to chase our love, to try and propose him/her, to regret on ourselves for being unable to express? Or to remember our lost love?
As if we do only these things, it makes the Day and its importance very small, if you show off your love to everyone, it basically shows that you aren’t actually feeling love, as if you do you won’t have time and words to share it with others, and even you won’t need to do, and if you show that you are alone, you are making fun of yourself, as on this day those who are with love won’t pay attention to your loneliness, and those who themselves are lonely they will give a damn, and the posts like ‘I am happy to be single, I am in love with myself etc’, everyone knows the reality of such posts. As these posts may become a source of love and happiness for us but may hurt someone alone on the day.
Yes this day is of love and to spread love, but not to the one we love, as we love them every day, and every moment of our life, and if we need this one day to love them, then, is it really love?
Yes we can’t ignore our love, as this is a special day in life of people in love, but along with them, this day gets its meaning by loving and spreading our love to those people who are not loved by anyone, who don’t know what love is. Who are alone and sad...
There are a lot of people and faces around us, who smile but have kept their sadness hidden behind their smiles, which hold back tears just not to spoil your day, to see you smiling, to make you enjoy your love, this day is not to chase the one you have been chasing long as they won’t ever turn back to you, but this the day to turn back and see the one who loves you and is running behind you, by running behind someone and ahead of someone, you gain tears for you and spread for someone too, but by turning back you earn smiles for you, and for others.
This day is to wipe of tears of someone who is crying in memories of his/her love, to accompany someone alone so that he/she doesn’t have time to realise the emptiness and absence of love in the life, this is the day to do different things in different ways, to hold hand of someone and say
‘Chill Maar Yaar, hum hain na, tera bhi hoga.’
Even this is a day to unite two lovers if you can, to make someone know the feeling of other if you know he/she can’t express, this is the day to save someone from getting trapped and hurt in fake love, this is the day to bring love back in someone’s life or to make someone meet new people and new friends, who knows may be they found their love among these new people, and you be the reason for someone smiles...
If today you can bring smile on someone face,
If today you can wipe someone’s tears,
If today you can make someone feel not alone,
If today you can give someone the reason to mingle,
If today you can take away someone’s sorrows,
If today you can erase someone bad memories,
If today you can give someone new memories.
It’s then today you can say Its Valentine’s Day,
As then someone else will also be Happy to say with you Happy Valentine’s Day...
And will mean it, and won’t run away from this day and talking to people on this day.
Valentine’s Day is not only for two people in love, couples, engaged people, but also for two friends, two acquaintances, two strangers, and two people who are made for each other still to meet, but enjoying the day of love at the same time with their friends at different places who don’t ignore them, waiting for each other...
So save someone’s from losing the love in his/her heart to loneliness and sadness...
Since morning got then messages asking for a post on Valentine’s Day, but had no clue what to write, as posting normal love post was not my cup of tea for the day, 'KYA KARUN BINA VALENTINE KE VALENTINE POST MAARNA WO BHI FEEL KARKE THODA MUSKIL THA’, but then this idea came to my mind and wrote it...
A little long I know but if you have read till now do comment was it a worth read????
RB...
Me "N" Her - A Strange Feeling
December 30, 2013
I found her back....
Like every second guy I also fell in love with someone, I loved her die heart, I was so shy guy that I didn't ever dare to go in front of her and express her my feelings, and like thousands of road side Romeo’s I also just followed her, played hide and seek from her and world, just to get a glance of her without coming in notice of her and others, at a few times I even felt that she knows who I am, and what I feel for her but she also not sure of anything, she looks at me when I don’t look at her, she follows me when I don’t follow her...
Then one day I saw her with someone else, and something deep down my heart, felt some pain and I don’t know from where I got the courage to approach her, stand in front of her surrounded by both of our friends, and hold her hand and told her everything looking straight into her eyes, at that time I didn’t know that what would be the reaction of it, but to my surprise she put her palms on her mouth to hide her blush and then hugged me tight, saying I was just waiting for you to say all this...
Few days later we kissed for the first time, it was first kiss in my life, and a few days later I did the biggest mistake of my life... We both were returning from a party totally drunk when I got intimated by her beauty and made love with her, and lost her forever after that...
No, making love was not the mistake as we were to marry, but making it in car on a highway was mistake, a few mistakes later when we were totally drunk and kissing in a high speed running car, I lost my control on my car and the car crashed down the road into ocean...
I lost my conscious and after few days when I regained my senses I found that she was not found anywhere and all believe she drowned within the car as even car couldn't be traced, I fell out of car and got saved...
From that day I only punished myself for being the reason of her lose, but today after 20 years I got her back... but not in form of my girlfriend, but in form of my daughter, when I saw a young teenage girl exactly a copy of her walking into my office for interview and her form had her name in place of mother and mine in place of father, but both had a ‘Late’ prefixed to them, when I asked her about her parents she said I lost my father in an accident even before I was born and my mother a few months back...
Leave you comments...
RB...
Then one day I saw her with someone else, and something deep down my heart, felt some pain and I don’t know from where I got the courage to approach her, stand in front of her surrounded by both of our friends, and hold her hand and told her everything looking straight into her eyes, at that time I didn’t know that what would be the reaction of it, but to my surprise she put her palms on her mouth to hide her blush and then hugged me tight, saying I was just waiting for you to say all this...
Few days later we kissed for the first time, it was first kiss in my life, and a few days later I did the biggest mistake of my life... We both were returning from a party totally drunk when I got intimated by her beauty and made love with her, and lost her forever after that...
No, making love was not the mistake as we were to marry, but making it in car on a highway was mistake, a few mistakes later when we were totally drunk and kissing in a high speed running car, I lost my control on my car and the car crashed down the road into ocean...
I lost my conscious and after few days when I regained my senses I found that she was not found anywhere and all believe she drowned within the car as even car couldn't be traced, I fell out of car and got saved...
From that day I only punished myself for being the reason of her lose, but today after 20 years I got her back... but not in form of my girlfriend, but in form of my daughter, when I saw a young teenage girl exactly a copy of her walking into my office for interview and her form had her name in place of mother and mine in place of father, but both had a ‘Late’ prefixed to them, when I asked her about her parents she said I lost my father in an accident even before I was born and my mother a few months back...
Leave you comments...
RB...
December 28, 2013
The Lost Me....
The lost dream of a pleasant tomorrow together, haunts me more than the bad yesterday we had together...
The lost real tears with you, hurts more than the fake smile I have without you...
The way of our getting apart, seem more unbelievable than the way our destiny merged...
The silence without you, disturbs me more than the fighting voices we had...
The bright shinny day without you, seems more dark than the nights we spent together...
The regular talks now as friends, feels meaningless than the little talks we had as lovers during our fights...
The soothing rain shower, feels more pinning than the heat of the scotching sun rays...
The only thing is that my life after you, seems a new different life after a death...
The lost real tears with you, hurts more than the fake smile I have without you...
The way of our getting apart, seem more unbelievable than the way our destiny merged...
The silence without you, disturbs me more than the fighting voices we had...
The bright shinny day without you, seems more dark than the nights we spent together...
The regular talks now as friends, feels meaningless than the little talks we had as lovers during our fights...
The soothing rain shower, feels more pinning than the heat of the scotching sun rays...
The only thing is that my life after you, seems a new different life after a death...
