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Are Relationships Predictable?
Some believe money is the issue in relationships, but millionaire's break-up and divorce too so that can't be it. All you have to do is look into the entertainment or sports industry to verify that.
Some think they need someone that matches up well with them (physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually). On the contrary, people whose astrology or numerology charts that show they are compatible still break-up. People who have the same faith or spirituality still break-up. People who are of the same class or gender still break-up.
Some say they need a person to be a friend as well as a companion/mate. Many friends who take that next step together still break-up too.
So what is the real reason or issue that can be corrected??? Hint...all the examples above cause you to give away your power to circumstances/events/people outside of yourself. YOU have the power to start or maintain any situation no matter how favorable, unfavorable, or predetermined it seems.
This is why sometimes one may see a couple who seem to be not compatible at all. One may be tall, and the other short. One may be outgoing, while the other is shy. This goes to show they have tapped into the REAL secret of relating-ships...contrary to public opinion.
People can talk about the possibilities, but they cannot plan and predict your actual CHOICE. That is the gray area. Always remember that. Your decision or choice gives you the ability to "flip the script" and the power to do the unexpected to make what you want to happen.
Although things may line up the way it is supposed to happen, it CANNOT foretell the ACTUAL decision or action taken at the appointed moment. The POWER is within...which is connected to the seen and unseen...know thyself!
Compatibility: The Code of Harmony for Love and Unity
Franklin Gillette
Some think they need someone that matches up well with them (physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually). On the contrary, people whose astrology or numerology charts that show they are compatible still break-up. People who have the same faith or spirituality still break-up. People who are of the same class or gender still break-up.
Some say they need a person to be a friend as well as a companion/mate. Many friends who take that next step together still break-up too.
So what is the real reason or issue that can be corrected??? Hint...all the examples above cause you to give away your power to circumstances/events/people outside of yourself. YOU have the power to start or maintain any situation no matter how favorable, unfavorable, or predetermined it seems.
This is why sometimes one may see a couple who seem to be not compatible at all. One may be tall, and the other short. One may be outgoing, while the other is shy. This goes to show they have tapped into the REAL secret of relating-ships...contrary to public opinion.
People can talk about the possibilities, but they cannot plan and predict your actual CHOICE. That is the gray area. Always remember that. Your decision or choice gives you the ability to "flip the script" and the power to do the unexpected to make what you want to happen.
Although things may line up the way it is supposed to happen, it CANNOT foretell the ACTUAL decision or action taken at the appointed moment. The POWER is within...which is connected to the seen and unseen...know thyself!
Compatibility: The Code of Harmony for Love and Unity
Franklin Gillette
