Early in the new year I was sharing a few (more than a few!) glasses of wine with the hubby and a dear friend, Rhea Merck. A couple of years ago we instituted a weekly gathering we call "Wino Wednesday" to meet and hash over whatever is going on in our lives and to bounce ideas off of each other.  On this particular Wednesday evening Rhea was sharing Elizabeth Gilbert's concept of "Big Magic" (from her wonderful book of the same name – check it out!) and we started talking about times a flash of