Every teenage girl will dream about handsome actor, football player or singer. Hit Justin Bieber with your bra or panties, scream when you see Twilight saga and Robert Patinson, and masturbate on Cristiano Ronaldo, that are teenage dreams nowadays. That kind of perceptions come out from movies where guy is tough hero who will do everything for his fragile princess.

Now what is with guy next door, guy with pretty face and good manners, who will walk next to you and listen your problems? Girls will say, that is out, what a loser, boring, ordinary guy, he is not hot by the way.







One good story talks about Sam. He was football fan, once he stayed without teeth in crowd at stadium, then he was in prison for a few days , indeed kind of bad guy who left school to enjoy in wild life. Girls in my city were crazy about him, even he changed them more often than his clothes. He was without teeth, wow how cool, danger guy, even Steven Segal should invite him for his sparing partner. One day he hit his girlfriend , with fist in her mouth and everybody saw this. Blood was on her face, and he said that he did good score. Nobody helped her, they mind ed their own business.

Few years later that girl was travelling with bus on the way home, after she passed last exam. Sam was also there, in bus. He was not so handsome anymore. He lost much hair, he got 20 pounds on weight, and still he did not had any job. When their eyes met, Sam approached her to say hello. She looked him and she did not say nothing. Just she took her big book to read. She did not felt nothing, it was just one unpleasant moment and regret : “oh damn why i loved this creature?”

The point is, wild and aggressive guy as Sam might make your life interesting, you will have own soap opera but i hope you have health insurance or big brother who can protect you. Otherwise, you might finish with abuser .
Sometimes, bad behavior will be just phase in one life period.
Parents would say :”He will calm down in marriage. ” This is not rarity to see ex wild guy who made such noise with his car how to carry for his daughter in playground. He can be gentle father and responsible husband. It is possible that young bad guy grow up into bad husband who beats his wife. Which way will someone choose, it depends on circumstances and his choice. In any way, violence cannot be justified with problematic childhood. It will be his excuse: “they treat me so bad. ”

If you can’t deal with bad dude, pay attention on guy next door.

His ideas can refresh your mind. He could be treasure box, if you open this with right key. Maybe you will get bored at start, but later he will surprise you. Some crazy things you can do together with him because he is more flexible and adventures are not just his ego’s expressions . Teenage girls will often underestimate sweet guys, cause they are shy, on distance, with good manners. They are maybe virgins, and they wish to collect sexual experience. Later, the same girls will cry on someone’s shoulder, with deep regret , because they made bad choice.

What will you choose, that will define your love relation. If you chose bad guy, deal with him. Don’t let him to insult you, beat you, cheat you. Try to use his wild character as motivation . He might be great lover. He might love journeys, adrenaline, adventures.

If you chose guy next door, it doesn’t mean that you will get bored. If you are open minded woman, you will push him to open himself . This guy might show you how to control yourself, to be calmer and to stay more on the ground.