A human working on healing knows that every single step in their story line has been created of them, by them, and for them. They know that they are no one’s victim. They reject the cultural pull toward commiseration and victimhood. They replace these habits with the unshakable sense that they, themself, have called in every circumstance in their life for the purpose of taking themself higher. They remember that, through rupture, the Goddess or God is remaking themselves into the woman or man they were born to become. They know, deep inside themself, that there is an inherent rightness, an inherent perfection to everything and everyone. They are not thrown off their spiritual path when some devastation happens to them or to another. They live in the truth that every moment is a gift, and every stroke is a chance to go higher.