..:We learn through reading, the experiences of other"s and their points of views. But what they deeply learn and what help them change doesn't necessary means it will change you the same way as well. It simply means that if they could do it and find a way, so can you. They are only guiding you and helping you somehow so that you too can overcome life's struggles and circumstances. The greatest lessons and points of views that should be able to help us and change us, should be the ones we learn and experience ourselves. Take, learn and apply other people's lessons and points of views on your own life, but find a unique way that will benefit you, work for you and help you grow the most:.