It is very difficult to solve a situation between one person to another when you’re dealing with one person to a group of others.

For each person has their own motive for trying to solve the situation or to not solve the situation.

So you can never solve a personal relationship when one person is confronted with a group, and the reason being when one person is confronted with a group of people it’s not like when one mind is confronted with one mind and therefore they can come to a clear distinctive definition of their words.

When a group of people are confronting one man we have mass confusion for each person that comes to this meeting to solve the problem comes with their own motives and their own reasons and whether or not they personally want to or don’t want to solve the problem.

So it is important that when you imagine a person in your mind’s eye that you imagine just one person in your mind’s eye.

So I repeat, imagine the other person in your mind’s eye and begin to talk to them.
How are you assuming their response?

Are either of you hurt, angry, defensive, fearful?

Is there some way you can speak to them so that they will respond in a more positive way, or so that you can face them more compassionately?

Do either of you have an unrealistic expectation of the other?

What would your life be without them?

How would their life be different without you?

In what way and ways are your lives connected?

What is the context of your relationship?

Is there a particular issue that causes tension between you?

Can you visualize a solution that will ease the tension?

Are you willing to negotiate a resolution?

Explore the relationship in your mind’s eye from as many different perspectives as possible.

Be aware that your relationship grows and changes as you do.

The more objective you become, the more you free yourself from fears, the more insightful and creative your thoughts will become.

Gradually you will be able to relate fear with feelings of self-love, worth, and compassion.

Compatibility: The Code of Harmony for Love and Unity
Franklin Gillette