I tried to like this book. Or I tried to like Sandy.
I understand that several of her antics are supposed to be amusing but the whole reading glasses things just felt forced and over the top.
I am married and can completely understand and empathize with her frustration with her husband, as it relates to his procrastination. However, I was frustrated with her choice to just move away from the situation. It felt like there was so much more going on there than procrastination, more like maybe he was not ready to move. Her choice felt a little bit over the top, if not silly. I don't know, I admired her for taking care of herself in the moment but the whole "not talking to him" just felt juvenile, even though I totally understood her frustration. So, now I'm frustrated with myself, lol, I seem to be vasicilating between two opposing opinions.
I did not care for Sandy, even though there were times when I really liked some of what she did, for example when she helps to "stage" a bathroom for a woman who did not plan to sell her house. However, I did not completely dislike her until we get to hear some really judgmental and condescending statements that she makes. The whole thing about southern people being "slow" is so overdone and insulting. Ugh Finally, for me her superior and contemptuous attitude toward her son-in-law just was too much for me to stomach. All we saw him do was call her "mom", so sorry that you are above him trying to create a closeness between you. Anyone who has married into a family where someone feels as if you were not good enough to become a part of who they are might find her attitude to be a bit too much to take. I kept thinking of all of the things he could have been calling her instead!
She complains about having to live with him when her daughter goes out of town, she created this situation, move out! Or, go home. She encourages her daughter to try to get her (Sandy's) husband to get going on the renovations of the house with the condition that the daughter does not tell her father that Sandy asked her to do so. Wow, I didn't know that it was ok to manipulate adult children into interceding into your personal affairs with your husband.
I don't know what I thought this book would be, it feels like she is trying to do a light fiction Erma Bombeck or someone like that. However, it just does not read that way, for me.
As is obvious by now, I could not like Sandy. I tried. Finally, I realized it just was not going to happen.
As an aside, when I first joined goodreads, I was excited to find a place, other than just my old notebooks, and then my computer journal to write my honest thoughts about the books that I read. So, in the past, I have written maybe too much of my honest reactions to books, here, when I first finished them. Now, I still write what I think but if I hate a book I wait at least a week before creating a review, here, for myself. I don't want to come off as just a ranter.
Having said that, I hated this book. I could not get over her superior attitude and manipulative behavior. Then there is a place where, as if to try to justify her current actions, she lists all of the good things she has done and the self sacrifices she has made.... Wait a minute I've gotten sidetracked, lol I didn't mean to go into more detail about this book just to say that I did not like it but I hope when this review is read it does not sound like a rant. I may have missed the boat on that one....