A Brief List of Things That Did Not Work For Me in This Book:
1. The condescension of the narrator.
2. The sexism.
(a) The suggestion that romantic relationships initiated by women aren't worth having.
(b) The thinly-veiled slut-shaming or insinuations that doing xyz makes you a slut.
(c) The objectification of young women, especially through discussions of "appropriate" clothing and the assumption that a girl devotes her wardrobe to attracting the opposite sex without consideration for personal preference or individuality.
(d) By the way, it's your responsibility to make sure that guys don't try to have sex with you. Men have responsibilities, too—as long as they treat you like royalty, but never like a person, they're good to go.
3. The sad attempts at humor.
4. The vague anecdotes and quotes from teens that had zero context.
5. The informal writing. I think it was meant to sound like a friend was talking to you, but it did not.
It isn't entirely bad. Many of the verses and Biblical discussions were halfway decent and the cover/book design was lovely. Whoever designed the book has a good eye. But mostly, I didn't like it.
It's a book that's meant to empower girls and make them realize that Jesus finds them incredibly valuable, but the way that this book is written shows that the writer does not find all girls quite so valuable and even veers into the realm of the dehumanizing sometimes. In an overall sense, I think the author seeks to make the reader feel like she is special as an individual, but in trying to promote individual strength demeans and subdues the value of other women who make other choices.
To the individual, perhaps this book is good. To the individual, perhaps this book can help someone see the value in themselves especially as given by God. But also to the individual, it can ask someone to bolster their self-esteem at the direct expense of others. It's not okay for girls to put down other girls like that. And thus, I am not okay with this book.