I read this book with my coworkers. Our discussions challenged me to explore the constructs I value and how I view others. I will admit that it was the great group of people, who were willing to be vulnerable enough to share their experiences and let others show theirs that made this so valuable. Had I read this by myself, I would probably have not marked it as high. It was hard work to see my short comings and realize where it might hurt other people and it will push you to challenge your ideas of interacting with others.
I probably would give this book a 3.5 rather than a 3. I just didn't like it quite enough to give it 4. This was a textbook for a diversity class I took. I appreciated the various examples and theories.
In all seriousness, I read this book for my winter quarter humanities class and it helped me understand diverse identity and communication surrounding identities on a much deeper level. There were very helpful tools and reflection guides in this text that gave the reader more options for interacting with the text beyond just reading. My favorite part was how Allen included anecdotes from her personal life to give better perspective on the problems with identity we all face. Her honest reflection about her own internalized beliefs and how even she struggles to practice what she preaches made this text more than something I had to read for a class, but also something I can relate very deeply with.
Because the author uses anecdotes from her own life to illustrate examples of discrimination and overcoming stereotypes, this book is much more readable and less dry than most textbooks.