I appreciated the author taking on some hard subjects, a fallen-from grace pastor who had an affair. I've suffered from spiritual abuse since I was saved at 18 and appreciate authors that are willing to talk about what is going on in the church.
SPOILER ALERTS: Don't read further if you plan to read the book.
However, I was very disappointed in the way the topics were handled. The pastor (Jack) almost seemed to blame the woman because she made the hotel arrangements, plied him with drinks, then they woke up together. It was his choice to drink, his choice to sleep together.
When his infidelity is revealed, his wife and daughter immediately leave he is devoid of emotion. He doesn't think about them, recall memories, or miss them. He also shows no remorse. Part of it is his character, who reacts with denial and refusal, but he barely moves into true repentance. On page 85 he is calling his lover, but only gives her up because her lack of interest. The only remorse is in the next paragraph. "Because now, stone-cold sober, he could face the reality that what he-they-had done was wrong."
I liked how his dad showed up and brought him home, despite the fact he hadn't talked to him in ten years. His dad is a fine man, and a model of true Christianity.
The timetable is rushed, and relationships are fixed so quickly, unlike in real life.
By page 116 he is fixing a neighbor's roof and has all the pure motives. We don't see him reading the Bible and weeping in prayer over his sin and how he's failed his family and his congregation, he's suddenly doing good works, and everything is fine.
When he meets his wife for the first time post the affair (p. 157) he yells at her. He almost demands forgiveness. This is also the first time the grandfather meets his granddaughter, Alison, and I would've loved to see some tender interactions as the godly grandfather gets to know his daughter, but there was a lot of detail about food choices.
The restoration of the relationship with his former best friend was also a warm-fuzzy as they gradually came together despite failures on both their sides, but mostly Jack's. What I didn't appreciate is that this pastor, just weeks after sleeping with another woman, is back in the pulpit and making the news. This is why sexual sin continues to grow in the church today. The elders should've been counseling him and helping his to restore his relationship with his family and make it right with his former congregation, not welcome him to preach. That was very hard to read.
Also, prior to the affair his leadership style in the church bordered on abuse and narcissism. While he changes his preaching style, these issues are only lightly touched on.
By page 257 he is drunk and finally realized it is all his fault. Yet he's been preaching and doing good works and has become the town's sweetheart. Again, not encouraged to make things right, but to live one day at a time.
And meanwhile, there are a few women that are hinted as love interests, which was not tasteful to me at all.
While there were some beautifully restored relationships, and moments of confession, I felt the issue of his affair was taken way too flippantly. I've seen too many affairs in the church and the devastation that it brings.
The timetable should've been slowed way down to bring the pastor to true repentance.