In the Rodney Dangerfield movie "Easy Money" Rodney's character has a chance to inherit millions if he can avoid drugs, alcohol,cigarettes, sex and gambling for a few days. But he weakens over time, and one of his friends exhorts him: "C'mon. You know what they say, 'When the going gets tough, the tough get going.'"
Rodney looks at him with his trademark fidgety neck twitch and says, "Yeah? But what if you're not tough?"
So maybe you're not so tough either? Or maybe you want to get a little tougher? Tired of getting sand kicked in your face? :) This book will get you there.
It has the classic look of a cheesy worthless self-help book, but this baby is loaded with concrete, evidenced-backed information that goes right to the heart of its title: it's showing you a way to get tough for the rest of your life. (Even into your nineties!)
I remember hearing stories of the legendary endurance of Tiger Woods, driving himself mercilessly with little or not sleep for days on end. But then when he did sleep he would sleep for twenty hours straight. And that's one of the things Toughness Training for Life really emphasizes—you can have high stress in your life, but if you have it, you need a lot of recovery time as well. The author shows this great graph with a line in the middle and fluctuating waves going across it. (Can you see it?! Okay, so I'm not so good at describing stuff like that!) The idea is if you go big in one direction (stress), you need to go equally big the other way (recovery). Furthermore, the truly dangerous things are to go flat line on either side of the line. In other words, too much stress without recovery and too little stress are equally dangerous. Which handily refutes the people that think the goal is no stress.
Oh, the author is not all academician. He's part drill sargent too. (And we need this, you know.) Check this out. He writes:
(Being tough) means you control your emotions rather than the other way around. It means you can weather life's storms and seize life's opportunities. It means that when the going gets tough, you're tougher.
Sort of makes you wonder if he saw "Easy Money."
The book is chock full of toughness wisdom with sections on: "Toughening the immune system""Parenting tough kids" and even "Toughening for women"!
Get smart. Get tough. Get Toughness Training for Life.
Free copies of any of my novels for anybody willing to write a review or even if you just try to write one and fail. :) If gifted through Amazon, I would ask that you download them, though. You can find my novels ("IWS Rules", "Judgment Day" and "Now Boarding" are no longer available though) (and "Front Row" is a short story) on my GR author page and if anything appeals message me. :)