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240 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1984
Those Winter SundaysI still think this is one of the most perfect poems I know, and I was grateful enough to buy this book without further research to thank Hayden for giving me a poem that shows me how to feel for my own dad... The book has finally reached the top of my pile and I have discovered that he was an African-American poet, and converted to his wife's Ba'hai religion from his adoptive parents Baptist faith, so I read and (mis)interpret his work through this knowledge.
Sundays too my father got up early
and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold,
then with cracked hands that ached
from labour in the weekday weather made
banked fires blaze. No one ever thanked him.
I'd wake and hear the cold splintering, breaking.
When the rooms were warm, he'd call,
and slowly I would rise and dress,
fearing the chronic angers of that house,
Speaking indifferently to him,
who had driven out the cold
and polished my good shoes as well.
What did I know, what did I know
of love's austere and lonely offices?
Yet even as I lifted up the headI can't help but think of Alice Walker's discussion of Medusa in The Temple of my Familiar" where she interprets the 'gorgon' with her 'snake' hair and fatal 'ugliness' as an archetype for Black Woman, a defensive European demonisation of an African mother goddess. How does this relate to the 'hero''s overflowing will-to-violence?
and started from that place
of gazing silences and terrored stone,
I thirsted to destroy.
None could have passed me then -
no garland-bearing girl, no priest
or staring boy - and lived.
We must not be frightened nor cajoledAnd he also says 'I am tired today/of history, its patina'd cliches/of endless evil'. He seeks tranquility and love. I am writing too much, I ought to just say that Hayden wrote luminous verse and that I can't understand why more people don't read it. Perhaps his pessimism is too much. In 'The Mirages':
into accepting evil as deliverance from evil.
We must go on struggling to be human,
though monsters of abstraction
police and threaten us.
And the mirages, theis something profoundly sad that rings true, echoed in 'Traveling through Fog': 'the cloudy dark/ensphering us seems all we can/be certain of. Is Plato's cave', but also too harsh for me, because we put meaning into our paths by walking them, mirage led or no, (and there is nothing outside the cave for the wise old White man to bring back down to us. Their claims are lies.)
mirages -
I knew what they were
yet often
changed my course
and followed them.
Less lonely, less
lonely then,
the stranger said
October—
its plangency,
its glow as of words in
the poet’s mind,
as of God in
the saint’s.
We must not be frightened nor cajoled
into accepting evil as deliverance from evil.
We must go on struggling to be human,
though monsters of abstraction
police and threaten us.
What will you have? she inquired, the sallow vendeuse
of prepared tarnishes and jokes of nacre and ormolu,
what but those gleamings, oldrose graces,
manners like scented gloves? Contrived ghosts
rapped to metronome clack of lavalieres.
Turkeys like feather-
duster flowers
lie trussed in bunchy smother.
The waves roar in and break
roar in and break
with granite spreeing hiss
on bronzegreen rocks below
and glistering upfling of spray.