Good book. I think people who are involved with rescue are saints. Also, cheers to those who are doing things to foster the welfare and healthy view of Pit Bulls too. The only negative on the book is that it feels a bit scattered, but I think of it as a group of stories on dogs which makes it easier to deal with the organization of the book. Hopefully, it doesn’t matter that I read this book before reading his other book ‘The Dogs Who Found Me’ so I will need to go and read that one soon.
I liked the book from the questions he ponders. He also brought out some information that I didn’t know on dog bites that I will share in this review.
Also, in the book he has letters or emails from people and their stories. Those are often very inspiring.
In the beginning of the book he mentions:
‘Last spring, Terry Gross asked me to describe my relationship with Brando when I was a guest on her NPR show, Fresh Air, “He's my soul mate,” | said, without thinking.’
That is the start of a good conversation on how important we see dogs. It enfolds into a story of a person who takes in a dog that needed a lot of care and referred to the dog as unique. Then he asks:
‘What exactly is it that makes some people see some animals as hopelessly demanding, while others see them as some thing we might term unique?’
I like his answer he comes to:
‘So, does it make sense to save a unique dog? Does it matter in the end whether everything we do makes sense? While there are those who shake their fingers in disgust at people who share an emotional bond with their pets, most of us realize that what we do for our dogs is not a selfless act, and it doesn't have to be. We're returning a favor they've done for us, for all the ways they keep us in check. The Delta Society, which studies the benefits of human-animal interaction, reports that people who care for pets experience lower levels of blood pressure, cholesterol, hypertension, and illness. And there’s nothing wrong with that.’
I don’t remember any big moment where you need Kleenex, like what too many people fear in dog books, but he does discuss the issue of their mortality:
‘Loving a dog—or a person—doesn’t mean that there aren't times when we need to put our feelings aside. And that is perhaps the one element of our relationships with dogs that makes our feelings so intense. We take them in knowing there will come a time when we will need to be with them, and support them, when it is time for them to die.’
Here are some other excerpts I also liked:
‘Mine is a totally unscientific sample, but I’ve never heard anyone say that the worst mistake of their life was getting a dog. What they say instead is this: I can't imagine what my life was like before... Having a dog has made me a more responsible person... Needless to say, he's the love of my life... I look at everything in a different way now... Our dogs connect us.’
‘On a stoop around the corner from us, I saw the dog who would become Jambalaya sitting calmly, watching the neighborhood slowly return. Like a lot of the animals, she seemed so at home with her perch that I assumed there were people with her. But that’s what dogs are like, even months after being abandoned: They are certain their owner is coming home. ‘
‘There’s a huge difference in the experience of people who volunteer to take an animal into their home—through adoption or fostering—and those who volunteer in a public shelter day after day. Those volunteers have to do the hard, essential work that many of the rest of us manage to avoid. They have to deal with the reality of overcrowding and the difficult decisions involved in shelter triage. Not all of the animals will be saved, yet the volunteers are there to make a difference, in spite of the odds. I wanted to make sure that I acknowledged their contributions, because so often volunteers can feel that they are invisible.’
This next bit was from my favorite story when someone found a dog with a broken pelvis. (In a coincidence a friend of mine fell off her horse and broke her pelvis a couple of days ago.)
‘But Jimmy was the center of our conversation as we drank margaritas and waited for our food at a Mexican place in Alameda. Martha explained that Jimmy had come into the shelter with a broken pelvis from a hit-and-run. Yet even in that condition, he had managed to wag his tail and offer kisses to everyone, so he had been saved.’
That lead into a conversation on something I didn’t know about regarding shelters:
‘You hear stories about public shelters all the time—about the number of animals put down, about the way these decisions are made. Often if an animal is sick or of a particular breed, they get dumped into the category of “unadoptable,’” which means that they aren't even counted among the statistics of euthanized dogs. This is how some shelters are able to claim they only euthanize 2 percent of their animals. Jimmy would have fallen into this category at many shelters because his post-accident treatment promised to be long and costly, and there was no telling whether there would be a home waiting for him at the end.’
Then I also appreciated this conversation on dog related fatalities. I know it is long, but good to know the information he gave during an exchange with high schoolers:
‘“What's most likely,” I asked them. “That a person will be killed by a dog or by lightning?” It was unanimous: our unnamed victim would no doubt be attacked and killed by a dog rather than by lightning. The entire classroom was certain. “Actually, we are all far more likely to be killed by lightning,” I informed them. Actually, five times more likely. And twenty-five times more likely to simply be struck by a lightning bolt without being killed. This comparison may seem absurd, but it helps to put things in perspective among people who are convinced that there is an epidemic of deadly dog attacks. We all know how often someone in the community is killed by lightning because that certainly makes the news. So if a real dog attack is that unlikely, why is everyone convinced that the opposite is true?
Among fatal dog attacks between the years of 1965 and 2001, 19 percent of the victims were under the age of one, with 95 percent of these occurring when the infant was left unsupervised with a dog. The second-largest group was two-year-olds, who accounted for 11 percent of fatalities, with 87 percent of these cases involving two-year-olds left unsupervised or two-year-olds who wandered off into another area, Boys between the ages of one and twelve were two and a half times more likely to be the victim of a fatal dog attack than girls of the same age. How do I know all of this? Because I read it in Karen Delise’s statistical study Fatal Dog Attacks.’
So nice book of stories, especially if you like stories around dog rescue and also if you like Pit Bulls. Speaking of Pit Bulls, here a final bit on when he went to someone’s house:
“No one runs over to greet the pit bull,” she said. “They usually head straight for the golden retriever.”