THE HOUSE ON CRASH CORNER and Other Unavoidable Calamities is about the sad, hilarious and meaningful ways we deal with the crises in our lives. You can't spell joy without the oy. True stories range from growing up in Brooklyn as the Yiddish speaking daughter of Holocaust survivors, to my work with cancer patients, to life as a mom of two young boys, to becoming a cancer patient myself.
This started out as a funny & touching look at growing up a daughter of Jewish immigrants - & evolved into so much more ! Reminded me afresh how precious life is, & how I must eat that cake & regret nothing. Not top-notch literature, but will make you grateful for your life. I could so relate to her plea to enjoy the little blessings before life leaves us.
Many times I would feel a tear sneak up as the writer muses on mortality and the future - things I worry about all the time, too !
Honest and amusing autobiographical essays by a psycho-oncologist cancer survivor whose parents are holocaust survivors with gambling problems. Seriously!
I'm not normally huge on memoirs, and so I was wildly unprepared for how quickly and deeply these essays sucked me in. The House on Crash Corner overflows with sharp wit, tender heart, and raw wisdom. Ms. Greenstein has a knack for finding potent humor in some of the most horrifying situations (which is, after all, when we need it most). That brand of comedic absurdity prevents this boldly honest and thus frequently dark book from ever becoming too depressing. That's not to say I wasn't deeply saddened by the myriad woes the author and her ensemble of family members, friends, patients and even acquaintances had to endure. But the point is that, in the end, Ms. Greenstein's genuine compassion and invaluable insight remind us that our existence on this planet--in all of its transience and pain and horror and suffering--is not just 'worth it,' but in fact an amazingly precious chance to partake in the miraculous festival called human life. Which is, if I think about it, not just a reminder: it's a gift.
Had the description of this book been complete, I might not have picked it up. It is much more than essays about the author's relationship with her Holocaust-survivor parents. It's about surviving cancer, mothering newborns, pondering denial, and "life at both ends." And at times, it's very funny. It is one of the most powerful books I've ever read. I recommend it highly.
Interesting book (memoir) of a psycho-oncologist tells of events in her life as she grew up in a family with Jewish parents that are both survivors of camps during World War II. She shares many funny stories as well as heart wrenching one about patients and he own struggles. Enjoyable read with situations I could certainly relate to.
Beautifully written and so readable. I read this book when I was dealing with a bunch of unpleasant life issues and Greenstein's own experiences made me stop feeling sorry for myself. she isn't preachy--in fact she's funny and self deprecating and after reading it, you want to be her bff.
It did suffer from those BIG TURNING point moments that only seem to happen to authors. I do not find it believable that seeing a pregnant woman in an elevator leads to BIG THINKING. and leads to another baby. It seems so contrived.
Only a couple of chapters in, like it so far. This was not what I thought it was going to be but I liked it just the same. People raved over it. I thought it was good but..
Interesting compilation of essays covering her parents who are Holocaust survivors, her work as an oncology psychotherapist, her role as a mother and her own experience with cancer.