How To Love An Addict is a story of understanding. The most painful lessons in life can be the greatest catalyst for change. Because we are human, we all hurt the same, and we must all heal the same. The day by day principles for healing in this book are timeless and have worked for thousands of years. When we understand the universal elements, the magnificence of nature, and our own essential nature, we can come to know balance and find our place in the world, even in the midst of chaos and heartache.
The author is a Native American, Idaho native. The 12 year meth addiction of her youngest son provided some of the most painful, yet encouraging lessons she never thought she’d learn. The process of coping with the conflicting emotions created by watching her child suffer, with those leading her toward her own life path, provided the tools and the courage to share the truthful, yet sometimes painful realities of loving an addict. She is the mother of 4, and the grandmother of 3. She would like to thank the addicts in her life for their suffering, and allowing her to learn all of these lessons. The road is long and difficult, but there is nothing that cannot be overcome. There is a lesson in all suffering, crisis, and conflict, if only we pay attention. By writing this piece, she risks the relationship of friends, family and acquaintances, but her hope is that by sharing the knowledge that she has gained, you might be assisted in your journey. Her hope is that you are able to find even one piece of advice within the pages of this book that may help you to be happier. Life is never perfect, and we shouldn’t expect it to be. However, when such incredible suffering is in our midst, we can still make the choice to be happy moment by moment.