The Fight between Mother and Daughter
Have you ever had a conflict with your parents? If yes, this short story is a must-read for you because you will get more views on how your parents or your kids actually feel. “Two Kinds” was published in 1981, it is a short story from the collection The Joy Luck Club, by Amy Tan. She is an American writer and in this story, she works to explore the relationship between mother and daughter name Jing-Mei, and also the experience as a Chinese American. In 1949, Jing-mei’s family moved from China to America because her mother believed that anyone can be a prodigy if you live in America. She’s trying to help her daughter find her talents, firstly, she encourages her Jing-Mei to be like the first Chinese Shirley Temple but they fail. Then, they go over obscure facts, however, they decide to learn piano with their neighbor, Mr. Chong, a middle-aged deaf man.
After a year, there is a talent show where Jing-Mei gets to play the piano. She enters the show full of confidence, but it turns out horrible which makes her parents reveal the disappointed face. This situation leads to a fight and her mother gives up about Jing-Mei becoming a prodigy. When she turns 30, the plot twist, her mother gives her a piano as a present and she says, “You have natural talents, You could have been a genius if you wanted.” I feel like this is a twisted point that makes the tension between Jing-Mei and her mother disappear. If she said this earlier when Jing-Mei was still a kid, I believe that she wouldn’t give up and continue to find her talents.
The theme of this short story is about parental expectations and that to be respectful to your parents. First of all, her mother shouldn’t be forcing her to do things that she is not willing to do. For instance, forcing Jing-Mei to take piano lessons. In addition, I also think that parents shouldn’t compare their kids to other kids because everyone has their own talents and strength. However, even though her mother may not know where her daughter’s talent is, she still helps and supports her daughter to find it which I believe is a good parental expectation. Another theme is you should be respectful to your parents. I think this because where Jing-Mei said, “I wish I weren’t your daughter, I wish you weren’t my mother.” I feel like this is very rude and she shouldn’t have said this to her mother because this must make her mother’s feeling hurt. She should respect her mother more, even though she doesn’t like things she did for you.
My opinion about this story is that it is enjoyable and I would definitely like to recommend this to kids and also adults because it gives us the perspective of mother and daughter, how they feel when they have a serious conflict. On the other hand, I also think that this is an emotional story because the story includes a conflict between Jing-Mei and her mother. When Jing-Mei realizes that what her mother does is all beneficial to her and to help her to be a prodigy. Lastly, the piano that was given as a present by her mother before she passed away makes me feel sad for Jing-Mei.