This book is orginally from the 70's and from a Indian culture background and some areas are characterized from that point of view, f.ex. the custom of dowry and caste systems that is very popular in Indian culture. Zac Poonen takes a stand against it showing why christians should stay away from such customs when it comes to finding your life partner. Some of the points Poonen is promoting is his own good and honest opinions and many of them are truly biblical principles and commands that every christian should pursue in the relam of sex, love and marriage. The book is conservative and maybe too much for an avarage christian, but for christians that really, wholeheartedly, eagerly and sincerly wants to follow Christ and the Word in every matter, this area is no exception and should be pursued. The book also gives some important things to consider before getting engaged and married, f.eks. doctrinal differences, church denominational differences and other relevant areas.