If I had one author whose books I was allowed to bring to a desert island, Jerry Bridges would be that author. And of all his books, if I was only allowed one, I would choose this book - True Fellowship: The Biblical Practice of Koinonia.
We hear the word 'fellowship' a lot today, but it is mainly used in a social, entertainment, sporting context. Whereas, the biblical concept is something deeper, higher and better! Jerry Bridges explores the full biblical import of the word 'koinonia'/fellowship and challenges our low modern views! His chapter headings are enough to make us salivate spiritually ...
Chapter 2: Union with God
Chapter 3: Communion with God
Chapter 4: Fellowship is a Community
Chapter 5: Spiritual Fellowship
Chapter 6: Partnership in the Gospel
Chapter 7: The Fellowship of Spiritual Gifts
Chapter 10: The Fellowship of Suffering
Chapter 11; The Fellowship of Serving.
Bridges captures the essence of koinonias/fellowship as a relationship, a partnership, a communion, and sharing in and a sharing with! These sub-meanings summarise the true meaning of fellowship, the fellowship we have with God and with each other in the body of Christ.
His final paragraphs most ably describe the outcome of this study, "In this study of fellowship we have covered a wide range of topics. We have examined koinonia as the living expression of our objective relationship with God and with all other believers. we have seen that fellowship is a caring community and a partnership in the gospel, a sharing with one another spiritually and a caring for each other materially. Suffering together, serving one another, and using our spiritual gifts for the benefit of the entire Body are all conscious expressions of true biblical fellowship. With such a diversity of topics, how can we tie them all together? Is there a common thread, a single idea that will enable us to begin to apply all that we have learned intellectually about koinonia?
"Yes, there is. the foundation of daily experiential fellowship among believers is found in Paul's statement that 'in Christ ... each member belongs to all the others' (Romans 12:5). I belong to you and you belong to me, and we each belong to and have 'ownership' in every other believer in the world. This mutual belonging to one another is the thread that ties together all the seemingly diverse elements of fellowship. As we recognise and apply the fact that we belong to each other, we will genuinely love and care for one another. We will seek to build up one another through spiritual sharing, and we will meet each other's material needs. We will enjoy one another in times of social fellowship, and we will suffer with one another in times of trial. All of these many facets of fellowship are rooted in the concept that we belong to one another.
"So let's not view all these glorious elements of New Testament koinonia as just a somewhat long list of Christian duties to be juggled precariously among all the other pressures of life. Rather, let's concentrate on this objective nature of koinonia, this belonging to one another in Christ. Then we will see these other expressions of biblical fellowship falling more naturally into place in our lives. They will not seem to be diverse, unrelated duties, but simply the appropriate responses of true koinonia to each situation and relationship we encounter. We will then begin to experience the joy of fellowship, and we will understand why those first New Testament believers 'devoted themselves ... to fellowship'" [pages 189-190].
This is a truly 5-star read, and having had the pleasure of meeting Mr bridges and speaking with him, his books, and this one in particular, takes on a whole new resonance!