The title is a bit of a misnomer, as only a small portion of this otherwise fascinating account actually concerns the Titanic disaster. This unique narrative is really one of a kind, however: it recounts the fascinating, albeit sometimes tragic, but often triumphant life of Violet Jessop, the oldest child of an Irish couple, whose life would still be worth remembering, even if she wasn't a survivor of both the Titanic and Britannic disasters, which first piqued the interest of maritime historians, who saw the value in her memoirs.
The fortuitous survival of this manuscript provides a vital contribution to the "history from below" -type account of life aboard ship, especially that of a working class stewardess in the early twentieth century. Importantly, Violet wrote her own life story, back in 1934, when she had apparently submitted it for a literary competition, under the pseudonym Constance Ransom. She was still apparently concerned with her privacy, still as an employee of the shipping line. She continued to work on her manuscript over the years, however, filling it further with her own unique stories and anecdotes. Her two nieces approached a maritime publisher in 1997, many years after Violet's death, to see if they would then be interested in publishing it.
Almost magically, it landed in the hands of an editor who had a personal connection to Violet: his mother had been one of "her passengers," back in the 1920s, during a crossing on White Star's "Majestic," and had spent many hours listening to Violet's incredible tales of survival, first as an invalid child, and then as a disaster survivor. As his mother had spent much of the voyage ill, Violet had taken particularly good care of her, likely because of her own near-death experiences growing up as a frail and sickly child, having survived multiple (almost an unbelievable number, really) brushes with death. The editor's mother had told him about her, and he actually visited her once, in 1970, at her lovely retirement cottage in Suffolk. He had been searching for Titanic survivors for his own book, and was immediately enamored with Violet, finding her a sharp and witty storyteller, even in old age.
Born to Irish parents, Violet was actually born in Argentina: her parents had immigrated shortly before her birth. First living in a small house with dirt floors, a succession of children followed, only about half of which survived their first few precarious years, mostly succumbing to a plethora of lethal diseases, including scarlet fever (of which Violet's beloved younger brother, whom she remembered well, died), diphtheria, meningitis, smallpox, and tuberculosis. Violet herself contracted several of these diseases, barely surviving them. Her father did not: he died when she was still a teenager, leaving a wife and six surviving children. The family made their way back to England, but were forced to separate, the four boys ending up in a Catholic children's home while their mother worked at sea, while Violet and her younger sister lived essentially on their own, until Violet came of age and decided that she likewise would follow her mother's example and go to sea.
What follows is an account of Violet's 42-year career at sea, where she remained until her retirement in her early 60s. Her adventures as a world traveler began in 1908, when she worked the southern route from Europe to South America. After spurning the advances of a sea captain, however, and with little recourse, as was the case for many women in her position at that time, Violet was dismissed from one company, but was able to procure employment with, in her estimation, a less desirable company, the White Star Line, which did the Europe-North America (New York) run, crossing the tempestuous North Atlantic with some of the most affluent (read: demanding) passengers in the world. It was with this company that Violet was involved in not one, but THREE major incidents: the sinking of both the Titanic and Britannic, and the collision of the Olympic, which could also have resulted in serious loss of life.
I won't spoil Violet's riveting account of her experiences aboard the Titanic, other than to state that her story is riveting. It was, after all, her episode aboard that doomed ship that went down in history, that the editor first took an interest in her, and sought her out for an interview. It was not until decades later that her memoirs came to light, and eventually, to publication. The material about the war(s) is also fascinating, yet again demonstrating one person's strength of will, and to do what it took to survive unimaginable hardship, in that case, alongside others who had to muster the same courage and fortitude.
Overall, this is a fascinating and engaging yarn, composed by a master storyteller, one which reveals the strength of the human spirit and the will to overcome unimaginable hardship. It also provides a window into a lost world, in the completely unique account of the life of a hardworking stewardess employed on the great ocean liners in the early 20th century, when it is often assumed that middle-class women such as Violet had little opportunity aside from marriage and family. However, this incredible soul forged a life all her own, despite unceasing challenges: from her many near-death experiences as a child, to being a woman on her own, which presented its own dangers (Violet recounts something many women of the day experienced, sexual harassment, abuse and exploitation, even in early childhood, which continued throughout adulthood, even by some of her shipmates), and survival of not one but two world famous maritime disasters, this book tells the story of a vibrant and determined soul who lived her life her way, inspiring many others in the process.