Every few years, when I’m feeling burned out in ministry, I read a book about soul care to help me get back on track. Lance Witt worked at Rick Warren’s church for many years and knows firsthand how easy it is to become unhealthy spiritually while going through the motions of meeting ministry demands.
I especially appreciated his chapter on approval addiction and how those of us who suffer from a malady called “eternal niceness” often find ourselves saying yes to things that drain our joy just because we don’t want to disappoint anyone. We run decisions through the filter of ‘What will people think?’ rather than “What’s the right thing to do?” When we end up with nothing left (emotionally, physically or spiritually) to give, we have only ourselves to blame.
Witt affirms that “we have been scammed into believing that an insane pace is simply the price tag of effective leadership.” Quoting John Ortberg, he writes, “Hurry is not about a disordered schedule, it is about a disordered heart.”
Nothing earth-shatteringly new here, but very helpful nonetheless.