Right Couple, Better Timing
1. Before I read this book, I briefly looked at the existing reviews. One of the reviews hinted something to the effect that Clarissa wears her low-income status as a personality trait. In all fairness, I could see this. From the quick perusal of that review, it seems like to that individual that facet of the book and of Clarissa's character turned them off to the book. I could see that as well. For me, I am also somebody who grew up low income and who also went to a prestigious institution on scholarship. I won't knock that reviewer because I think that they have a point, but what I will say is that because I also share in this identity of coming from a low-income/poor background and being the "have not," I resonated with this fight within Clarissa. I think it's also important to understand that while Clarissa has his view of herself (and you can make the case that because she has this view of herself other people treat her as such), but other people legitimately were treating her as less than and called her "low class" because she did not come from money. I agree with Mimi's assessment that having class is not about what you wear; it has everything to do with your state of mind and how you view yourself, and ultimately, is a result of how you view yourself and allow other people to treat you as well. This was Clarissa's fight to overcome. Regardless of how good or bad our childhood was and the resources of our birth, we all have some facet(s) about ourselves that we need to overcome. Clarissa very much overcame this view of herself.
2. Cody and Clay and their use of "woman!" was hilarious to me.
3. Joel ❤️
4. While this book is not part of the seven book _______ Romance series, it is set in the same universe. I loved that because I was not quite yet ready to let go of the Farmhouse Ladies and the men obsessed with their wives.
5. One of the things that I find very interesting about Cody and Clarissa (and I would be interested to see if the two of them are aware that they have this same area of growth in common), and that area of growth is asking for help and accepting help when it comes to their personal matters. For Clarissa, she is used to being the person who helps others not the person who receives help and/or is doted on. This stems from Clarissa constantly being in caretaking roles. For Cody, the issue stems from always needing to be in control and asking for help means that you are no longer in control and that you can't do it all by yourself. I see Cody's lack of wanting to ask for help as an attachment wound attributed to his mother, whereas for Clarissa it's also a wound, bit from the circumstances of her childhood being a kid who grew up having to depend on services. We say as a society that opposites attract, but I think once you dig under the surface sometimes we have more in common with people then we think.