Although this book was originally intended for anyone curious about surrendering to and navigating a committed relationship, it will particularly serve anyone who is married or intending to be married. Marriage is deeply mysterious, insecure and unpredictable. It is likely that you have not been given any of the competencies necessary to support yourself and your relationship through such a baffling and challenging experience. Marriage provides an excellent opportunity for growing up. It has the power to push us out of childhood and into adulthood. This book portrays marriage as a deeply powerful initiation.