The fox boy... Oh....
:c
As I thought, Miko is indeed annoying me. She's not a bad person or anything, but confessing your love to someone and then telling them they can't even hug you except once a month is...kinda ridiculous. I am 100000% here for her not wanting to jump straight into a sexual relationship, but even if Kagura wasn't an incubus, what exactly do you want from someone when you tell them you love them and want to be with them, but they can't even HUG you, or show you like any affection whatsoever?? Then even when Kagura is just being innocently affectionate or something, she reads into everything as, "omg, I can't believe I almost just had sex with him!!!! HOW COULD I?" Uh, no... Your hands touched for a microsecond, good grief.
Consent is always, always required, but she is absolutely, without a doubt, confusing. No, I'm not saying that confessing to someone means they can do whatever they want with your body. But I'm not sure what Miko is expecting from Kagura? He threw himself at her originally but has been mostly going along with her back and forth the best he can keep up with it, since she said she wasn't ready for sex, and actively tries to explain to her that he literally needs her affection and touch to survive--especially since she let on that she doesn't want him to be with anyone else. A damn incubus stopped messing around with other girls for her and she gets mad about H U G S. He comes up with ways to get energy from her without pushing her into sex (hugs, holding her, having her pat his head, verbally express her feelings) and she acts like every bit of eye contact is swooping in for her virginity. Then she'll initiate something and he'll get excited about getting a kiss from her and she freaks again. I'm not saying to just give it up, but girl, please just communicate. There's no reason to set up a "lovey dovey" day and then try to get out of it when it was YOUR IDEA, when you could just say "this is what I'm okay with right now on a daily basis," because he clearly attempts to explain and communicate and would listen.
Sometimes Kagura's lines have made him sketchy, like when she tells him to stop whatever he's doing in one scene and he says he doesn't like hearing those words. Okay, well, that's too bad, buddy. Also when he was going into her dreams, as incubi do. But his actions have generally indicated he'd do anything she wanted, and this would be a lot less frustrating if she would communicate that instead of making small advances and then freaking out when he's happy and reciprocates. There's no like, "What we're doing now is okay, but that would be too much." Neither of them are perfect, especially Kagura in the beginning, but he's clearly growing and responding to her boundaries, while she continuously drops them enough for him to make an advance, and then slams it back to no-contact-whatsoever mid innocent kiss. I don't condone any of the hints at forcing anyone from side characters or otherwise, but I also think Miko is being written in an incredibly frustrating way that is purely to create drama or drag things out. We could have lots of good kissing scenes/non-smut before the eventual smut if they just tried pacing things normally instead of this black and white NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER or ALL THE SEX. There is plenty of healthy, safe relationship-building and boundaries that they could explore without this "hinting at having to force things on her because she's wishy-washy" setup that makes everyone look bad. A lot of anime and manga seem to use "no" during these moments as "actually, yes" but that's not really what's happening here, and it's honestly just a problem with anime/manga in general that consent and communication are overlooked.