Amish Lily love Jacob from afar while he loved his best friend who loved & married a vet newly joined the Amish. When they are caught together after he’d stolen an abused horse, honorable Jacob proposes to her and they marry soon after. At first Jacob still thinks of his friend until he begins to see Lily’s sterling qualities. They both fight the attraction until they don’t. Amish attraction & passion.
- plot little unbelievable, but characters good , life well described, scenes with horses seemed realistic
+ student with TBI autistic like qualities
Amish Characters committed to forgiveness first, then anger / frustration/ grief. How can that even work. The forgiveness seemed forced and expected before it had grown to be real.
Anniversary & Mom dizziness
Having a peaceful predictable book helped
Quotes: 130 Jacob might consider me second best, Alice, but I’m not settling with Jacob. It’s what I want. Truly. I want this. I want to be married to Jacob… I do.
131 bishop’s sermon on Lily & Jacob’s wedding day: I’d like to raise the point that God doesn’t care if you’re happy.
Oh great, Lilly thought. Perfect for my wedding day.
Nope, he doesn’t care if you’re happy, but he does care, very much, if you have joy. Now some of you will say that the two are one and the same – happiness enjoy – but this is not so. Happiness is a feeling. Happiness is fleeting, dependent on the moment, the circumstances, even the weather. Joy is transcendent, enduring, and in the biblical context is not an emotion. Joy is an attitude of the heart. Joy brings us peace, a refuge in the midst of troubles. God gives us joy through his spirit. But the enemy tries to steal your joy and give you temporary happiness instead. Now, is there anything wrong with being happy? Nee, but it cannot last. So, you may wonder why I bring up the difference between the two dash it is simple really I bring it up to advise you, because marriage – and it’s true, every day, working, living, dying state – is not easy and is not much fun. No, marriage is sacred before the Lord, a decision for a lifetime, but too often I think young people look upon it as a source of happiness. Do not look at marriage this way. See it as a reservoir of joy, a deep, welling spring, that endures the icy blast of temper Bite, the void of loneliness in a heart for Talk when there is no response. Seek joy and each other, not happiness. Amen.
132-33 Bishop: Jacob, do you promise to love Lily lap more than you do those horses of yours? Because it’s known thing that you might tend to your horse before your Fraa and that might not do in the case of childbirth or fire.
Jacob: I do, promise, sir.
Bishop: To what?
Jacob: To… Love and care for Lily… More than horses, and whatever you just said, sir.
Do you promise, my son, to love, Lily, lap beyond all others, beyond any other – as long as Derr Herr gives you life?
Jacob: I do so promise, sir
Bishop: lily lap well, let’s see, your schoolteacher, which means your honorable, trustworthy and loyal…
Lily felt vaguely like he was liking her to a dog.
You care for your ma’am, love to your neighbors, and, are I believe, of excellent character. Why are you marrying this man?
Lily: I marry him because I’ve always had respect for him, since we were Kinner. He loves creatures made by.Derr Herr’s hand; he loved my father. Derr Herr has provided this man as a proper and fitting husband for my heart and Home. I marry him of my choice and my privilege. He is – my friend and can complete my life like the pieces of a quilt are worked to complete a whole.
Bishop: well then, before the Lord, these two make a vow to lead. And I give my blessing upon their reunion, that they may live long and joyfully together, with laps full of children and hearts full filled with love. Come now, it’s time for turkey and dressing. It’s near starved that I am. Jacob, you’ve got all your life to look up on her. And Lily, go and talk to those School kinner who behave so well throughout the service.
155Jacob about choosing to love Lily: he asked for their hairs, help to choose to love his wife, and then he called out for Sarah – on his wedding night. He tried again to grass the dream, to rally his subconscious into some kind of obedience. But he couldn’t remember, and Lily said she couldn’t forget. expelled the breath of surrender what had she said about his will? It was not his WillH that would work in all of this, but the Lords. He opened Buttercup stall and greeted her with the back of his curled hand. Then he touched her gently on her withers. And she yielded to his touch. His gentle touch. Yield. He needed to learn how to yield to the Lord in the same way his horses learn to yield to the touch of his fingers – even those secret parts of his mind that seemed so far out of reach.even histories needed to fall into the trust of the Lord