A good mix of stories. Simple, straightforward. At points I felt I was heading towards to falling out of love with her as an author. But why go from infatuation to disrepute? There are some nice redeeming features here. It made for enjoyable light reading on the train - and allowed me to reflect on and put into perspective challenges within my own relationships.
There were at least two stories about people on their way to break up with their lover, only to reverse course at the last minute. There were a fair number of stories that spoke to the prison of living one's life according to social expectation. These themes she handled relatively well.
Yet in her books she manages to tease out more philosophical complications and depth on questions of interpersonal relations: specifically individual selfishness and collective expectations and their consequences. In longer format, her ideas have more space to breathe and she has time to tease out the complexity and nuance while building up narrative tension. In her longer stories the sense of drama is earned and credible. In these shorter pieces it can lean more into feeling like a trick, or lack moral weight or seriousness.
I think there are three stories where she tackles the subject of death head-on, and a number of others where it is worked in. Also included are more than a couple where she takes on otherwise successful if superficial people having moments of emotional crises at midlife, crises that they themselves cannot understand or explain to themselves. These were less well handled for the reasons above, and the intended punches just didn't land.
Finally, I can't say I agree with her obsession with upper class European types. I am quite frankly tired of cultural products about the lives of rich people, as if nobody else is worthy of having their story told.
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Highlights:
"It was strange, when you came to think of it, how all those men who had loved her so much, who had all been so proud of her and so jealous, had never, in the end, resented her deserting them; they had all remained her friends. She congratulated herself on this, but it may have been that, at heart, they had all felt a certain relief at no longer having to share her perpetual state of indecision. As Arthur Connolly, one of her richest lovers, used to say: 'one could no more leave Letitia than she could leave you.'" Page 84, The Left Eyelid
"It was always the men who didn't attract her in the least who had pointed out the prominence of the Mount of Venus in her palm, and hence her sensuality. It was always the men who bored her who had told her how amusing she was, and, saddest of all, it was always the men she had loved who had told her how selfish she was." Page 87, The Left Eyelid