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How to Adult: An Illustrated Guide

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An irreverent guide and gift book explaining what it means to be an adult in the real world. What does it mean to be an adult? When am I an adult? How can I adult? How can I possibly get to the end of this page without checking social media? To be an adult, physically, is to be a person who is fully grown or developed. To be an adult socially is to be financially self-reliant (to have a job), to be independent (to not live with your parents), and responsible (to be able to make sensible decisions). Legally you are an adult at 18, but adulthood can be a state of mind. There are children out there running their own companies. They are adulting better than you. Stephen Wildish presents his findings, via charts, graphs, and illustrations, of what it means to adult in the areas of bed, work, social media, household chores, grooming, conversations, finances, and food and drink in this hilarious and relatable gift book, for anyone questioning whether or not they're doing this thing―i.e. "adulting"―correctly. A hilarious gift

182 pages, Hardcover

Published September 18, 2018

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53 reviews1 follower
March 13, 2024
I learnt nothing and it wasn’t even that funny. Pictures were cool though.
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27 reviews4 followers
June 11, 2024
I adore how this book imparted a valuable lesson. Unlike other books, it captivated my attention with its illustrations. It was delightfully concise and easy to digest, making me finish it in a single sitting!
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4 reviews
October 9, 2024
Some stuff I already knew, some stuff I learned. But since enjoyed the pictures and illustrations.
Profile Image for Schwefi ꒳。゚.
9 reviews
August 10, 2025
Stephen Wildish is handing out an instruction on how to adult in a very humorous meme-kinda- way with a lot of illustrations, charts, memes and slang words which makes the book very entertaining to read. It therefore also speaks to an audience who doesn’t like to read that much because a hardcover of 180 pages full of words sounds scary if you don’t read. But having it have 80% illustrations and making it a picture-book (or better float-chart-book) dos the trick.

You could read it in one sitting.

His book covers the basic manners of adulting that usually everyone gets taught along the way, hence ‘helpful’ is not necessarily how i would label its content. The purpose of his book is rather to mock you and to call you out on your ‘non-adult’- behavior and reflect on how you’re treating yourself. At least that’s my take away.

I still would have wished for some little useful advice in there, especially when it came to the icons on clothe’s washing labels (maybe he didn’t know himself but i felt called out here).
Profile Image for Alice.
6 reviews1 follower
March 2, 2023
Nothing much profound about the content.
But idea is nicely presented. Some pages are perfect for social media, on-point, hilarious and informative. Love how the author calls himself "idiot", such a funny guy. I think young people gonna like this book.
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162 reviews25 followers
January 24, 2024
Hilarious and diagram-filled easy read that does even include some genuine advice! Loved it. Will probably get it for my bookshelf and gift it to a few friends.
The conversations chapter has some useful tips for neuro-sparkly types on what neurotypicals expect…
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148 reviews
November 28, 2025
Funny little book I was given for my 30th and only got round to reading a few years later, not a good example of adulting. Enjoyed the bit on workplace talking, pasta dishes by age and surviving until pay day. Best quote: "fruit is one of my five a day. Chocolate cake is the other four."
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January 11, 2026
I finished it in 2 hours after not reading a proper book in about, 2/3 years. Easy read but doesn’t really live up to the hype it had online, I did enjoy it though! Might look into another one he has written in the future.
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427 reviews39 followers
May 20, 2023
A hilarious book on how to be an adult
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96 reviews1 follower
August 9, 2023
Just a silly book I read while at the library. Nothing profound tbh. Can’t believe people still use the term “adulting” tho.
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128 reviews13 followers
September 29, 2023
Perfect for a brand new adult who has little in life skills or someone 16-17. Not in-depth but great for those who really just don't have any life skills.
Profile Image for Alexander Cruz.
140 reviews3 followers
December 30, 2023
What a good laugh I had with this book, also, quite sound advices. Love the author's presentation: "he is also an idiot".
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11 reviews1 follower
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April 26, 2024
一本小图解书,很适合当厕所读物,就不评分了。
4 reviews
July 18, 2024
bestie got it for me for my 18th and it’s pretty good. not very helpful but very funny
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11 reviews
November 27, 2024
Nothing to learn but i enjoy the graphics and the Logic and fun side behind it !
Profile Image for Stephen Ede-Borrett.
169 reviews3 followers
April 6, 2025
A wonderful and amusing book with some very interesting points hidden within the humour.
Not sure I want to "adult" sometimes however from reading this book. An excellent and very humorous read.
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78 reviews1 follower
October 9, 2025
I learned I am more adult than I thought and I also had to smile a bit while going through this fun little book
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