Those are the words The Divine Ms. M wrote on the opening page of Gravity.
That one sentence, that seemingly innocuous quote, is one everyone should live by.
If you want an example, take a look at JoEllen.
JoEllen Kya Astor is a survivor.
Born to a teenage mother who was a child herself, Jo learned at a young age her home life was different from most.
Most kids had two parents. Most mothers didn't drink themselves away daily. Most mothers didn't have a different male friend every night.
Most kids slept in a room with a window.
Most kids slept on a bed.
JoEllen didn't.
When Jo decides she wants a better life for herself, she makes it happen.
At the age of 16, she enters college.
By the age of 22, she's a master at her crafts, with a plan and a purpose to make her dreams come true.
What she doesn't plan for is Holden.
One day Holden shows up at the bar Jo works at. Two strangers who lives entwine in one brief moment.
Holden is instantly attracted to Jo. He sees that instead of being bitter and angry, she is strong and unwilling to compromise her plans.
Then he makes a mistake.
A mistake that could end something with JoEllen before it began. Holden is used to getting what he wants, but can he put aside his own bitterness and convince Jo to give him a chance?
Reading this book, I was connected to Jo.
I was enthralled and transported to the little town of Skiatook, Oklahoma, and a part of me stayed there.
Watching as Jo overcame the life she was born into, the life that didn't give her a chance, was inspiring.
If there was ever a person who deserved the best that life had fulfillment and joy, it's Jo.
Thank you Shayne, for bringing these characters to life. Again, I applaud you, and will continue to do so.