The Act of Marriage After 40

by Tim LaHaye, Beverly LaHaye, Mike Yorkey

Yes, lovemaking does change after 40, but it is still the most thrilling experience two married people of the opposite sex can experience on this earth! In this practical, fun-to-read, illustrated guidebook, Tim and Beverly LaHaye cover a broad spectrum of key topics and show married couples how to experience a more satisfying and joy-filled sex life long after age 40. Millions of married couples have questions about sexual intimacy. Yet all too often, their questions go unasked . . . or unanswered. This easy-reading, medically sound book candidly addresses issues of intimacy. Does sexual desire actually reverse with aging? How does menopause affect a woman's sex drive? How can exercise and nutritional supplements improve our sex life? Is there such a thing as male menopause? What can we do to put more spark into our lovemaking? You'll learn about sexual desire and dysfunction. Understand the risk and temptation of extramarital affairs. Gain a better understanding of menopause and the dangers of breast and prostate cancer. Learn how to prepare for, and adjust to, physical changes affecting lovemaking. You and your spouse can rekindle that sexual spark in your marriage--or build even stronger intimacy and commitment.

Genres: Marriage, Relationships, Self Help, Nonfiction

272 pages, Paperback

First published August 29, 2000

About the author

Timothy "Tim" F. LaHaye was an American evangelical Christian minister, author, and speaker, best known for the Left Behind series of apocalyptic fiction, which he co-wrote with Jerry B. Jenkins.

He has written over 50 books, both fiction and non-fiction.

Reviews

[Marinda Wise · Rating 5 out of 5]

Not a ton of books for happily married couples, specifically over 40. I appreciated how they normalized what is happening in the bodies of 40+ people.
A lot of changes are taking place....such is common to man....but they took a practical approach and led with the fact that many MANY couples (especially Christian couples) are enjoying a rich sex life into their 70's some even beyond that.
It's a good book to read simultaneously or together.
I'm a very open person so I appreciate books that are practical and put "embarrassing topics" out there for discussion.
The more you know....the better equipped you are.

[Scott Wise · Rating 4 out of 5]

A good balance of the physical and spiritual realities that drive intimacy. It was especially helpful at thinking about and cultivating true intimacy past just the adjustments of the 40's

[Marissa · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wonderful book! I learned so much about the intimacy aspect of marriage. It covers different areas, not just what happens in the bedroom. I found it very interesting and encouraging.

[Jennifer Hughes · Rating 4 out of 5]

A good refresher for middle-aged marriages and beyond. I appreciate the Christian framework and Tim and Beverly LaHaye's sensitive treatment of the importance of healthy sexuality within marriage. Note that if you're familiar with The Act of Marriage: The Beauty of Sexual Love there's nothing really new here; much of the same content is repurposed for a different audience.

[Ashley Funk · Rating 4 out of 5]

A good follow-up to the LaHayes’s essential Christian book “The Act of Marriage.” This one focuses more on the dysfunctions resulting from aging, disease, and disability. It addresses preventative measures and common medical treatments that affect sexual function. With a perspective centered on Christ and spiritual wholeness, this is a very hopeful take on marital intimacy in later years.

[Crystal]

I sort of skimmed this book. Some chapters I found more relevant than others. I appreciate frank discussions on improving sex in a marriage relationship. It is hard to find helpful information that is not from a "worldly" view.

[April · Rating 5 out of 5]

I happened upon a review of this Christian book one day and wanted to read it for myself. While I am thankful for a great marriage with a loving husband there is always room for improvement. This book is probably the most direct approach I have ever read to intimacy in marriage while citing the bible and being respectful at the same. I had several aha moments reading this and wished I had read it earlier in my marriage. This book focuses on our changing hormones and bodies as we age and can a married couple still have a physical relationship? The resounding answer was yes and talked about how God wants it that way. I really appeciated feeling normal about the process of aging and changes I already see with starting into the decade of the 40's. Definitely a "good" read.

[Tracy · Rating 5 out of 5]

Superb