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Speaking of Jesus: The Art of Not-Evangelism
Some of us fear moments when we need to defend our theology. Some of us seek them out. But we are seldom ready the way Jesus seemed to be ready. So how do we draw others to God in the midst of these ordinary conversations the way Jesus did?
In Speaking of Jesus, Carl Medearis draws on his experience of international reconciliation between Muslims and Christians to remind us of the heart of the matter: Jesus. Here he gives us tools, stories, and the foundation we need to move beyond “us” and “them” and simply talk about the One who changes it all. As Carl writes, “While others are explaining and defending various isms and ologies we’re simply pointing people to our friend. The one who uncovers and disarms. Who leads people right to himself. The beginning and the end of the story. A good story indeed.”
In Speaking of Jesus, Carl Medearis draws on his experience of international reconciliation between Muslims and Christians to remind us of the heart of the matter: Jesus. Here he gives us tools, stories, and the foundation we need to move beyond “us” and “them” and simply talk about the One who changes it all. As Carl writes, “While others are explaining and defending various isms and ologies we’re simply pointing people to our friend. The one who uncovers and disarms. Who leads people right to himself. The beginning and the end of the story. A good story indeed.”
187 pages, Paperback
First published June 1, 2011
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Carl Medearis
18 books46 followersCarl Medearis is an international expert in the field of Arab-American and Muslim-Christian relations.
He acts as a catalyst for a number of current movements in the Middle East to promote peace-making, as well as cultural, political and religious dialog leading toward reconciliation. He is the author of the acclaimed book on these issues, Muslims, Christians and Jesus.
Carl, his wife Chris, and three kids lived in Beirut, Lebanon for 12 years. Through their unique and strategic approach around the Arab world, they encouraged university students, business professionals and political leaders to live their lives by the principles and teachings of Jesus in order to change their societies and nations.
Today Carl spends much of his time working with leaders both in the West and in the Arab world with the hope of seeing the Arab Middle East and the West experience full and fruitful relationships through the life and teachings of Jesus of Nazareth.
He acts as a catalyst for a number of current movements in the Middle East to promote peace-making, as well as cultural, political and religious dialog leading toward reconciliation. He is the author of the acclaimed book on these issues, Muslims, Christians and Jesus.
Carl, his wife Chris, and three kids lived in Beirut, Lebanon for 12 years. Through their unique and strategic approach around the Arab world, they encouraged university students, business professionals and political leaders to live their lives by the principles and teachings of Jesus in order to change their societies and nations.
Today Carl spends much of his time working with leaders both in the West and in the Arab world with the hope of seeing the Arab Middle East and the West experience full and fruitful relationships through the life and teachings of Jesus of Nazareth.
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March 16, 2013
Dear Carl,
I am writing to you because I know you're a true friend, and will not hold back when giving me your advice. I'm in a bit of a bind. You see, a good friend of mine just wrote a letter to my wife, and I don't know what to do about it. In the letter, he says wonderful things about me, praising me to no end. But at the same time, he keeps saying nasty things about her. He says he likes her, but he tells her she's ugly, that she talks funny, and that she doesn't really love me but only hangs around me because she likes success. He says she only likes the comfort I can provide her, and tells her she doesn't really understand who I am.
I've been married to her for a long time! I love her! But he tells her that she should forget everything she thinks she's learned about me, and only remember what she learned about me on our first date, because that's all there is to me.
He says he doesn't intend to hurt her, but not only does he tell her she's no good, he also relates dozens of stories about conversations he's had with other people, telling them how great I am, and how awful she is. He tells them bad things about her, then asks them if they agree with his characterizations. He says they usually do, but even in his stories you can sometimes see that some of them might have good things to say about her, but he's not interested in hearing that stuff.
Carl, what should I do? I like this guy, always have. I know he genuinely likes me. But he keeps insulting my wife, and questioning what she's learned about me over the years.
I'd appreciate your help, Carl. Thanks!
Sincerely,
Jesus
2 Samuel 12:7
I am writing to you because I know you're a true friend, and will not hold back when giving me your advice. I'm in a bit of a bind. You see, a good friend of mine just wrote a letter to my wife, and I don't know what to do about it. In the letter, he says wonderful things about me, praising me to no end. But at the same time, he keeps saying nasty things about her. He says he likes her, but he tells her she's ugly, that she talks funny, and that she doesn't really love me but only hangs around me because she likes success. He says she only likes the comfort I can provide her, and tells her she doesn't really understand who I am.
I've been married to her for a long time! I love her! But he tells her that she should forget everything she thinks she's learned about me, and only remember what she learned about me on our first date, because that's all there is to me.
He says he doesn't intend to hurt her, but not only does he tell her she's no good, he also relates dozens of stories about conversations he's had with other people, telling them how great I am, and how awful she is. He tells them bad things about her, then asks them if they agree with his characterizations. He says they usually do, but even in his stories you can sometimes see that some of them might have good things to say about her, but he's not interested in hearing that stuff.
Carl, what should I do? I like this guy, always have. I know he genuinely likes me. But he keeps insulting my wife, and questioning what she's learned about me over the years.
I'd appreciate your help, Carl. Thanks!
Sincerely,
Jesus
2 Samuel 12:7
April 24, 2012
I appreciated this book.
There were times he made me squirm (as he said he would) but as I continued reading I understood his point. I think Medearis' method is useful and powerful. We should certainly be more concerned with Jesus than with Christianity. However, throughout the book the author's theological knowledge base creeps in, making it apparent that he knows his doctrine and his beliefs well. Knowing this is helpful, because if read from the wrong perspective the book sounds very universalist and emergent. But I don't think it is.
What concerns me, though, is that someone with too little Biblical knowledge, too little doctrinal training, too little theological foundation, too little apologetic instruction, could be easily led astray when conversing with a hostile world.
Technical stuff
The book is written very conversationally. It's an easy read, but there is still a lot of depth in much of the content, so it should still be read carefully.
Overall
It's worth the read, but make sure to power through the controversial stuff to get his point. I would definitely recommend supplementing it with some solid apologetics and doctrine, though.
There were times he made me squirm (as he said he would) but as I continued reading I understood his point. I think Medearis' method is useful and powerful. We should certainly be more concerned with Jesus than with Christianity. However, throughout the book the author's theological knowledge base creeps in, making it apparent that he knows his doctrine and his beliefs well. Knowing this is helpful, because if read from the wrong perspective the book sounds very universalist and emergent. But I don't think it is.
What concerns me, though, is that someone with too little Biblical knowledge, too little doctrinal training, too little theological foundation, too little apologetic instruction, could be easily led astray when conversing with a hostile world.
Technical stuff
The book is written very conversationally. It's an easy read, but there is still a lot of depth in much of the content, so it should still be read carefully.
Overall
It's worth the read, but make sure to power through the controversial stuff to get his point. I would definitely recommend supplementing it with some solid apologetics and doctrine, though.
April 22, 2012
A hard book to review. I learned a great deal from the book. I've had some similar thoughts a long the line of Carl's thinking, but there are aspects of his perspective that I'm just not sure about. From what I can see he looks at Jesus purely from a physical perspective or he teaches Jesus that way. Following Jesus is following the Jesus of the gospels and whether he would admit it or not he minimizes a lot of the teaching of Paul regarding Jesus; his atonement, the purpose of the church, Jesus the Spirit, which is huge! Jesus the pre-incarnate Word and the Word made flesh. I'm not saying he disagrees with any of these things, he just minimizes them, which, if you are reaching out may be the perfect thing to do, but, if we are thinking of Jesus there is more on the table. You may disagree but go back and re-read the book and find out how many times he mentioned the Holy Spirit in the book. Not once that I know of...who reveals Jesus, teaches Jesus, guides the Christian and convinces the world of Jesus? The Holy Spirit. Also, Jesus wasn't just a talker about the kingdom, he didn't have to convince people of much because he demonstrated the Kingdom in works of miracles, healing and deliverance; another area that Carl doesn't talk much about. To know the Jesus of the Bible is to know a miracle worker, you just can't get around it. We need that power in our gospel. Jesus is not just about talking with people, I was thinking of this last night on a walk. Jesus solved peoples problems in a real way.
I love the fact that he set up shop in a gay-friendly, new age friendly, etc...book shop. I love the fact that he talks to those that most Christians avoid. He does so many things right and I really enjoyed reading about how he relates to people. I think he has so much right.
OK, so, before you think I'm trashing the book, I've got to say again, I really learned from it and liked it. I'm not done musing over it either. It was very helpful and I'm glad I read it, but, I'm not sure I could recommend it to everyone just yet. I came away from the book liking Carl too. I added him to my twitter feeds! I'm asking the Lord to what He thinks about it! Ha!
Grace and Peace. Brad
I love the fact that he set up shop in a gay-friendly, new age friendly, etc...book shop. I love the fact that he talks to those that most Christians avoid. He does so many things right and I really enjoyed reading about how he relates to people. I think he has so much right.
OK, so, before you think I'm trashing the book, I've got to say again, I really learned from it and liked it. I'm not done musing over it either. It was very helpful and I'm glad I read it, but, I'm not sure I could recommend it to everyone just yet. I came away from the book liking Carl too. I added him to my twitter feeds! I'm asking the Lord to what He thinks about it! Ha!
Grace and Peace. Brad
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June 22, 2011
This is a phenomenal book that calls Christians back to their first love, Jesus of Nazareth. It is a call back to the person of Jesus rather than the idea/beliefs of Christianity or the doctrines of the Church.
Here an example: What is the Gospel?
Seriously, stop for a moment and answer the question, “what is the Gospel?”
When you are done, think about your answer – did it include things like: free gift from God, eternal life, freedom from sin, righteousness, grace, healing, redemption, faith in God? How about the person of Jesus? Did you remember that?
Or how about this one – can you describe your salvation using only Matthew, Mark, Luke and John? How about WITHOUT using the words “atonement,” “justification by faith,” “eternal life,” “sinners fallen away from God,” and/or “saved”?
If you were able to pass those litmus tests, congratulations – you are rare soul. I dare say that most self-professing Christians would not able to do so. Instead of talking about Jesus and their (daily) relationship with Him, they would quote Paul, Martin Luther, John Calvin, John Wesley or, perhaps, John Wimber (lots of Johns there…but sadly no St. John).
In reaction to this, Carl is calling followers of Jesus to do just that – follow Jesus. Talk about Jesus. Love Jesus. Obey Jesus. Live like Jesus.
“I don’t want to redefine salvation. I don’t want to redefine the gospel or even Christianity on the whole. I suppose I want to undefine them. I want to strip away the thousands of years of graffiti painted onto the gospel, turning it into a reasonable code of doctrines. The gospel is not an idea. It is not a belief. It is not a favorite verse. The gospel does not live in your church, it cannot be written down in a simple message, and it is not the sinner’s prayer. The gospel is not a what. It is not a how. The gospel is a Who. The gospel is literally the good news of Jesus. Jesus is the gospel.” - Carl Medearis
Here an example: What is the Gospel?
Seriously, stop for a moment and answer the question, “what is the Gospel?”
When you are done, think about your answer – did it include things like: free gift from God, eternal life, freedom from sin, righteousness, grace, healing, redemption, faith in God? How about the person of Jesus? Did you remember that?
Or how about this one – can you describe your salvation using only Matthew, Mark, Luke and John? How about WITHOUT using the words “atonement,” “justification by faith,” “eternal life,” “sinners fallen away from God,” and/or “saved”?
If you were able to pass those litmus tests, congratulations – you are rare soul. I dare say that most self-professing Christians would not able to do so. Instead of talking about Jesus and their (daily) relationship with Him, they would quote Paul, Martin Luther, John Calvin, John Wesley or, perhaps, John Wimber (lots of Johns there…but sadly no St. John).
In reaction to this, Carl is calling followers of Jesus to do just that – follow Jesus. Talk about Jesus. Love Jesus. Obey Jesus. Live like Jesus.
“I don’t want to redefine salvation. I don’t want to redefine the gospel or even Christianity on the whole. I suppose I want to undefine them. I want to strip away the thousands of years of graffiti painted onto the gospel, turning it into a reasonable code of doctrines. The gospel is not an idea. It is not a belief. It is not a favorite verse. The gospel does not live in your church, it cannot be written down in a simple message, and it is not the sinner’s prayer. The gospel is not a what. It is not a how. The gospel is a Who. The gospel is literally the good news of Jesus. Jesus is the gospel.” - Carl Medearis
July 24, 2020
Wow, some fantastic stuff in this one. The whole premise of the book could be summed up with this:
If Jesus were here, who would he be hanging out with? Christians or everyone else? Obviously, the convicting answer is that he’d be pissed with the Christians (today’s Pharisees) and he’d be loving the struggling/sick-ones of today (gays, atheists, Muslims, etc.). Christians spend far more energy today trying to grow the religion and preventing anything opposing the religion, than actually talking about Jesus and modeling the love He shared with the world.
The whole book is about taking our religion, our traditions, our churchianity and putting Jesus before it all. “I just want to follow Jesus and love people.”
Book rating criteria; to help objectify my ratings.
1. Will I read it again?
This was my second read, so, definitely!
2. Would I recommend this to others?
Yes, anyone who identifies as a Christian OR anyone who hates Christians should read this. If you're in the former group, you'll be challenged to think a lot less of your religion, and a lot more of the person of Jesus, and thus your life will look different because Christians today don't act at all like Jesus... If you're in the latter group, hating Christians, you'll walk away being challenged to consider shifting your focus from the faults and failures of Christians and the religion, and putting your perspective on Jesus, who loves you deeply.
3. Am I smarter, better or wiser as a result of this book?
Yes. You cant read this book without walking away with a new perspective, appreciation and love for the person Jesus. At the same time, you walk away from this book holding a little less onto the religion of Christianity (in a very good way).
4. Was I entertained while reading this/it kept my attention?
Yes, super entertaining read.
5. This book was just the right length?
Yes, perfect length. Quick and easy read, which makes it great for people who "aren't readers."
If Jesus were here, who would he be hanging out with? Christians or everyone else? Obviously, the convicting answer is that he’d be pissed with the Christians (today’s Pharisees) and he’d be loving the struggling/sick-ones of today (gays, atheists, Muslims, etc.). Christians spend far more energy today trying to grow the religion and preventing anything opposing the religion, than actually talking about Jesus and modeling the love He shared with the world.
The whole book is about taking our religion, our traditions, our churchianity and putting Jesus before it all. “I just want to follow Jesus and love people.”
Book rating criteria; to help objectify my ratings.
1. Will I read it again?
This was my second read, so, definitely!
2. Would I recommend this to others?
Yes, anyone who identifies as a Christian OR anyone who hates Christians should read this. If you're in the former group, you'll be challenged to think a lot less of your religion, and a lot more of the person of Jesus, and thus your life will look different because Christians today don't act at all like Jesus... If you're in the latter group, hating Christians, you'll walk away being challenged to consider shifting your focus from the faults and failures of Christians and the religion, and putting your perspective on Jesus, who loves you deeply.
3. Am I smarter, better or wiser as a result of this book?
Yes. You cant read this book without walking away with a new perspective, appreciation and love for the person Jesus. At the same time, you walk away from this book holding a little less onto the religion of Christianity (in a very good way).
4. Was I entertained while reading this/it kept my attention?
Yes, super entertaining read.
5. This book was just the right length?
Yes, perfect length. Quick and easy read, which makes it great for people who "aren't readers."
April 15, 2012
Some people try to course-correct Christianity from within (reformers, etc.). Others try by distancing themselves from it ("follower of Jesus", etc.). Medearis is of the latter sort. If you are inclined that direction, you may enjoy his book more than I did.
I feel, for all the mistakes, misunderstandings, and misuses of Christianity, somewhere inside her is still the bride of Christ. And if I'm going to love the church, if I am going to call others into the body of Christ, it seems much harder to do the further one distances oneself from Christianity. I would rather err on the side of loving the unlovely (the church) than keeping her at arms length.
I feel, for all the mistakes, misunderstandings, and misuses of Christianity, somewhere inside her is still the bride of Christ. And if I'm going to love the church, if I am going to call others into the body of Christ, it seems much harder to do the further one distances oneself from Christianity. I would rather err on the side of loving the unlovely (the church) than keeping her at arms length.
February 27, 2018
Really enjoyed the book. It was a breath of fresh air in an arena that is often filled with formulas, tips and tricks. As a follower of Jesus myself I have often felt the tension of wanting to introduce my friends to the Good News I have found, yet also not wanting to stuff anything upon them that doesn't make sense. Really glad I read this book and am sharing it with friends.
November 26, 2022
I think he was trying to make a good point, but I didn’t agree with some of his arguments and his approach
August 7, 2022
Just a good, simple book showing a better, more beautiful way to talk to people about Jesus. To actually talk about Jesus rather than some religious principles or theological jargon. It’s already having an effect on how I think about and have conversations with people.
March 12, 2023
wow he’s funny.
“I think part of the reason Christians are so weak in their faith is that we tend to promote the evangelism method of spreading Christianity rather than the discipleship model of Jesus. We get people ‘in’ and then try to go out and get others. After a while, everybody’s ‘in’ and nobody had any idea how to mature in their faith.”
oops.
“I think part of the reason Christians are so weak in their faith is that we tend to promote the evangelism method of spreading Christianity rather than the discipleship model of Jesus. We get people ‘in’ and then try to go out and get others. After a while, everybody’s ‘in’ and nobody had any idea how to mature in their faith.”
oops.
April 12, 2024
Honestly, the separation between Christianity as a religion and following Jesus was well explained. I’m a fan of most but not every argument in this one.
August 11, 2021
Carl Medearis has a very story-focused writing style, which makes Speaking of Jesus is a remarkably quick and easy read. Yet despite the ease with which you can read this book, it is not lacking for deep, thought-provoking and challenging content. Medearis is a voice advocating for simplicity in an age where things are often made out to be more complicated than they are, and his thoughts on and approach to what he calls “non-evangelism” are poignant and refreshing. His simple dependence and singular focus on Jesus are truly an inspiration, and while I certainly didn’t agree with every point or perspective offered in this book, I thought deeply (and am continuing to think deeply!) over each one and found myself inspired to get back to “Christ and Him crucified” above strategies, formulas, or religious affiliation. He challenges those who love and follow Jesus to rethink their ties to and affiliation with the religious title “Christianity,” and how simply sticking to Jesus removes a lot of historical and even cultural baggage surrounding the term “Christianity”. I would have loved seeing more references to other writers, which would have indicated a firmer foundation and long-standing history for his point of view. However, he did do a great job of going back and pointing out how we got to where we are today, and how the way we view and do evangelism isn’t primarily based on Scripture or the teachings of Jesus as much as it is on our historical context.
So… did I agree with Medearis? Yes and no. But regardless, I think this is a much-needed voice in the conversation concerning those who truly do follow Jesus and want to see others follow Him, too. So I would wholeheartedly recommend this book, as it will be sure to challenge you deeply and in incredibly practical ways!
So… did I agree with Medearis? Yes and no. But regardless, I think this is a much-needed voice in the conversation concerning those who truly do follow Jesus and want to see others follow Him, too. So I would wholeheartedly recommend this book, as it will be sure to challenge you deeply and in incredibly practical ways!
September 13, 2022
This book was recommended to me by a friend who said he read it a couple of times to reflect on it. I can see why. The author makes a convincing case for sticking to talking about Jesus (and not Christianity or Bible or any of our Christian words which are loaded with negative meaning for unbelievers). The book was consistent and convincing - even delightfully clarifying when dealing with very difficult Christian conversations. I learned a great deal!
May 31, 2017
I read to 25% and was so upset I stopped. While I like the basics of what Carl was saying, it really bothered me that he said Christianity and Jesus were separate things. While I will be the first one to stand up and say a lot of the traditions we have are not based on the Bible and that our faith is about relationships with Jesus, it IS a religion.
I could rant for longer, but I won't.
I could rant for longer, but I won't.
March 30, 2017
This was one of the most thought provoking, insightful book on following Jesus that I have ever read. Carl knocks down many preconceived paths that Christians seem to automatically follow and does this by sharing his own experiences with Muslims in the middle east as well as here in the states and with many non-believers through his many years. His straight forward questions such as "What do you think of when you hear the word Christian" and "What do you think of Jesus" was extremely telling. This book has really changed my view on sharing Jesus with others and I would suggest it is a great read for both the believer and non-believer.
This book is not preachy or overbearing and just helps the reader to form a perspective on their own.
This book is not preachy or overbearing and just helps the reader to form a perspective on their own.
April 4, 2019
An great reminder/discovery of viewing the world. Too many times as Christians we think of the world as us vs them (gays, liberals, Muslims). Instead of using terms that have loaded connotative meanings behind them, our message should be be simple: point to Jesus.
Carl does a great job explaining the simplicity yet complexity of making followers Jesus. I disagreed with a few things and even thought things like the Holy Spirit deserves mentioning, but overall well-done.
Carl does a great job explaining the simplicity yet complexity of making followers Jesus. I disagreed with a few things and even thought things like the Holy Spirit deserves mentioning, but overall well-done.
February 25, 2020
It's always a little annoying when authors give examples of what you should say, using stories of when they've said the right thing as evidence. Despite that, he was definitely upfront about his flaws in a rare way, so it balances out. This book inspired me to love Jesus more, so you can't lose with that.
January 18, 2023
This provides a really great prospective a lot of Christians can and should learn
April 18, 2023
Claiming to be a Jesus follower is less offensive than claiming to be a Christian. Jesus would hang out with sinners, why don’t we?
September 6, 2022
This book gave me good reason to talk about Jesus and to invite others to know and follow Jesus.
Also to be careful when talking to others, as Christian terms, doctrines, and“Christianese” can cause barriers and misunderstandings. Staying curious in conversation is always a good practice. Asking questions and getting clarity about what the other person is thinking. Showing love to others is being Christ-like … following Jesus.
I’m looking forward to discussing this with staff.
Also to be careful when talking to others, as Christian terms, doctrines, and“Christianese” can cause barriers and misunderstandings. Staying curious in conversation is always a good practice. Asking questions and getting clarity about what the other person is thinking. Showing love to others is being Christ-like … following Jesus.
I’m looking forward to discussing this with staff.
August 22, 2011
Pretty neat book about changing the focus of evangelism from making converts to simply sharing one's love for Jesus. The author does not say he is a Christian, but rather tells people he tries to follow Jesus. He has observed that many people who are offended/turned off by Christianity remain interested in the person of Jesus (I thought of Gandhi, though he's not mentioned in the book). The author is an expert on Muslim/Christian relations, and a lot of his observations come from his experience living in Lebanon with many Muslim friends and colleagues.
He related one story that was very interesting to me, about an experience in Basra, Iraq. He told a hotel clerk that he was in Basra "seeking Isa" (the ARabic name for Jesus). The clerk asked if he knew any "Isa stories," as his grandfather had apparently told him "Isa stories" when he was younger and he very much missed hearing them. The author gave him a copy of the gospel of Luke translated into Arabic, and the man was SO excited. I was really quite jealous--I don't remember thinking the Jesus stories were exciting and memorable, even when I heard them as a child. They were always weighted down with lessons and not with the excitement I got from fairy tales or ghost stories or "stories."
I've been wondering about this, and I've decided that perhaps I find the stories less exciting because I've been taught to think of them as historical events. If something really happened, then in a lot of ways, it's not as exciting as it might be if it remained in the realm of myth. I mean, even if a miracle occurred, if it seems like a one-time deal, somehow that's not very exciting to me. But if it's a myth, somehow that seems larger than life and even more powerful than if it really happened in the way described.
I mean, think of it this way. You know the story of the loaves and the fishes. It doesn't matter to me whether Jesus physically made a bunch of food appear, or if he somehow inspired those who had food to such unity that they shared with one another, or what...but the outcome was that no one went hungry. It doesn't matter how it happened, or whether it was 5,000 or maybe just 500. The important point is, Jesus provides what is needed, and Jesus can spur people to unity, and afterwards, people are fired up for Jesus and tell great stories about what he has done and what he can do. There are certainly truths in that story regardless of the facts. If that's not myth, then I don't know what is. So paradoxically, I'm thinking that maybe my belief in Jesus is even stronger and more excited if I think of the stories about him as myths.
The other thing I find interesting about this is that I'm quite certain Carl Medearis didn't write this book to encourage anyone to see "Jesus stories" as myths. The friend who lent me the book commented "Oh I think you'll like it; he's pretty liberal" but I didn't find him to be liberal at all. His vocabulary may not be that of the typical conservative Christian, but beyond changing his presentation, his underlying beliefs remain fairly conservative. However, definitely not "I'm going to judge you" conservative. I appreciated that he recognizes that it is not our job to "convert people." Jesus never said "convert people." He said "make disciples." Discipleship is all about learning. It's up to God/the Holy Spirit to change people's hearts so they turn toward him--and none of us can REALLY be sure what that might look like in someone else's life. So we just love and share our lives, and that is what we are called to do. And this book gives a lot of great insights on how to to share love for Jesus in a way that is respectful and doesn't come off as "just trying to convert."
He related one story that was very interesting to me, about an experience in Basra, Iraq. He told a hotel clerk that he was in Basra "seeking Isa" (the ARabic name for Jesus). The clerk asked if he knew any "Isa stories," as his grandfather had apparently told him "Isa stories" when he was younger and he very much missed hearing them. The author gave him a copy of the gospel of Luke translated into Arabic, and the man was SO excited. I was really quite jealous--I don't remember thinking the Jesus stories were exciting and memorable, even when I heard them as a child. They were always weighted down with lessons and not with the excitement I got from fairy tales or ghost stories or "stories."
I've been wondering about this, and I've decided that perhaps I find the stories less exciting because I've been taught to think of them as historical events. If something really happened, then in a lot of ways, it's not as exciting as it might be if it remained in the realm of myth. I mean, even if a miracle occurred, if it seems like a one-time deal, somehow that's not very exciting to me. But if it's a myth, somehow that seems larger than life and even more powerful than if it really happened in the way described.
I mean, think of it this way. You know the story of the loaves and the fishes. It doesn't matter to me whether Jesus physically made a bunch of food appear, or if he somehow inspired those who had food to such unity that they shared with one another, or what...but the outcome was that no one went hungry. It doesn't matter how it happened, or whether it was 5,000 or maybe just 500. The important point is, Jesus provides what is needed, and Jesus can spur people to unity, and afterwards, people are fired up for Jesus and tell great stories about what he has done and what he can do. There are certainly truths in that story regardless of the facts. If that's not myth, then I don't know what is. So paradoxically, I'm thinking that maybe my belief in Jesus is even stronger and more excited if I think of the stories about him as myths.
The other thing I find interesting about this is that I'm quite certain Carl Medearis didn't write this book to encourage anyone to see "Jesus stories" as myths. The friend who lent me the book commented "Oh I think you'll like it; he's pretty liberal" but I didn't find him to be liberal at all. His vocabulary may not be that of the typical conservative Christian, but beyond changing his presentation, his underlying beliefs remain fairly conservative. However, definitely not "I'm going to judge you" conservative. I appreciated that he recognizes that it is not our job to "convert people." Jesus never said "convert people." He said "make disciples." Discipleship is all about learning. It's up to God/the Holy Spirit to change people's hearts so they turn toward him--and none of us can REALLY be sure what that might look like in someone else's life. So we just love and share our lives, and that is what we are called to do. And this book gives a lot of great insights on how to to share love for Jesus in a way that is respectful and doesn't come off as "just trying to convert."
May 24, 2012
Carl Medearis’ Speaking of Jesus: The Art of Non-Evangelism is a book with as much appeal to those outside the church as in it.
I’m not sure when it happened, but somewhere along the line, an unofficial Christian conservative council formed to judge all things pop culture. If your book is approved by this unofficial council—made up of writers like John Piper—you’ll sell to Christians (and nothing but Christians). Often times, reaching for people outside of the church with your book or movie (or whatever medium you use to contain your theology) can get you dismissed by this council, but I appreciate authors who take the risk. Carl Medearis is one of those authors.
For 12 years, Medearis lived in Beirut, building Arab-American and Muslim-Christian relations. During that time, Medearis learned to put titles like Christianity and missionary on the shelf and just talk about Jesus without the idea of conversion or thoughts of who’s in and who’s out. Medearis accurately assesses that a lot of the history of Christianity cannot and should not be defended, whereas Jesus doesn’t need defending. He talks about a lot of encouraging experiences with the Muslim community in Lebanon and the gay community in Colorado Springs (where he lives now)—the kinds of experiences that Jesus and many non-Christians would love. Therein lies the strength of the read: That you may not agree with everything, but it sure is moving.
That said, there’s just not that much to Speaking of Jesus. In many ways, the same material could be covered in a few articles or videos. Additionally, Medearis quotes too much from Dallas Willard and Donald Miller (and I can see comparisons between Medearis and the latter). Finally, there’s no real oomph at the end; the book just stops. Overall though, the insights found in Speaking of Jesus are the kind of simple and encouraging points that are often easy to forget. Three stars.
I’m not sure when it happened, but somewhere along the line, an unofficial Christian conservative council formed to judge all things pop culture. If your book is approved by this unofficial council—made up of writers like John Piper—you’ll sell to Christians (and nothing but Christians). Often times, reaching for people outside of the church with your book or movie (or whatever medium you use to contain your theology) can get you dismissed by this council, but I appreciate authors who take the risk. Carl Medearis is one of those authors.
For 12 years, Medearis lived in Beirut, building Arab-American and Muslim-Christian relations. During that time, Medearis learned to put titles like Christianity and missionary on the shelf and just talk about Jesus without the idea of conversion or thoughts of who’s in and who’s out. Medearis accurately assesses that a lot of the history of Christianity cannot and should not be defended, whereas Jesus doesn’t need defending. He talks about a lot of encouraging experiences with the Muslim community in Lebanon and the gay community in Colorado Springs (where he lives now)—the kinds of experiences that Jesus and many non-Christians would love. Therein lies the strength of the read: That you may not agree with everything, but it sure is moving.
That said, there’s just not that much to Speaking of Jesus. In many ways, the same material could be covered in a few articles or videos. Additionally, Medearis quotes too much from Dallas Willard and Donald Miller (and I can see comparisons between Medearis and the latter). Finally, there’s no real oomph at the end; the book just stops. Overall though, the insights found in Speaking of Jesus are the kind of simple and encouraging points that are often easy to forget. Three stars.
October 7, 2017
Intriguing. Though I don't fully agree with everything, there are quite a few good points about the starting point for fulfilling the mission of making disciples that Jesus has given us. The problem is the Medearis does not even point to the fact that Jesus needs to be understood in context. Even Peter, Stephen, and Paul when speaking to their fellow Jews explained Jesus by starting with his historical context. Once the context was given the teachings and signs and wonders of Jesus could be understood for what they were, Jesus as the promised Messiah, Jesus as the fulfillment of the Law and the Prophets.
While Jesus did hang out with the tax collectors, prostitutes and sinners he was always calling them to leave their life of sin. Maybe somewhere further into the process of telling others about Jesus Medearis gets to that point, but if he does he never gives a hint of it in this book.
I do agree that sometimes we can get hung up on the incidentals, but in this case it seems the pendulum has swung to far away from them. So while there are take always front this offering for followers of Jesus to consider in how the share the Good News of Jesus the Messiah, I think it is only a starting point.
While Jesus did hang out with the tax collectors, prostitutes and sinners he was always calling them to leave their life of sin. Maybe somewhere further into the process of telling others about Jesus Medearis gets to that point, but if he does he never gives a hint of it in this book.
I do agree that sometimes we can get hung up on the incidentals, but in this case it seems the pendulum has swung to far away from them. So while there are take always front this offering for followers of Jesus to consider in how the share the Good News of Jesus the Messiah, I think it is only a starting point.
March 7, 2016
Carl Medearis discusses how to share your faith in such a way that we aren't "making Christians" like a cloning machine, but instead followers of Him. He explains why the "us aginst them" way of approaching people is way off Jesus message. It is not a "our religion against theirs" message the one we have to preach. Jesus message is all inclusive, He wants everything in, it is not up to us to decide who's in and who's out, God is the judge, not us. Rather than defending ours system of beliefs, we have to only speak of Jesus sincerely. Speak of His life and ministry, His teachings, and His available friendship and also our doubts and intimate concerns. Be authentic. We just only have to mention Jesus and the Spirit will do the rest. In our world, being Christian and being a follower of Jesus are often two different things. People tend to hate Christianity, they see it in a negative way because past experiencies and because of the History of Christianity, but they will be always open to talk about Jesus. Everyone feel attraction to Jesus techings. This is a tremendous book, and I recommend it to all Christians who are seeking to share not Religion, only Jesus, with their friends.
July 29, 2015
It is an interesting call to make Jesus the focus of evangelism, though in many regards I find it oversimplifying the message of the Gospel. The author gives examples of successful stories of being able to break through the obstacles such as Chrisitian lingo, controversial event in church history, etc. The premise if that christens need to focus on preaching Jesus rather then their understanding or version of Christianity. Though it is true that there is a need to be aware of issues that are an obstacle to the gospel message, this book gives an oversimplified solution that will help reach some. It does not give a good gameplay to addressing issues that will inevitably come up after the "interaction" to Jesus phase is over. Overall a good and easy read and Christians will benefit from a healthy view at obstacles we create in effectively communicating the message of the resurrected Savior.
March 11, 2016
Read this at the recommendation of a dear friend who has shared my journey of working through a bundle of church baggage. Like her and the author of this little number, however conflicted I may feel about the church and Christianity, when it comes to Jesus himself--I just love the guy. And I'm not alone. What's that Gandhi quote? "I like your Christ, but I do not like your Christians?" According to Carl, this is pretty universal--from the many of us who have been through the wringer with the church to his experiences with "liberals and homosexuals" (ok, that made me laugh a little) in Colorado Springs to Muslims throughout the Middle East. So, he suggests, just stay there and grapple with Jesus and don't get so fancy. I loved the story of creating a "What the Hell??" Group to figure out with Jesus was even talking about and what it would mean to live that out. I appreciate the simplicity and sincerity of his message.
January 27, 2020
This book does a fantastic job of breaking down issues within Christian evangelism culture, and offering a clear biblical answer. For me this book was encouraging and I felt personally rebuked several times, but in a way that helped me to reconsider how I've been approaching my faith.
This is a hard book for people entrenched in doctrinal issues, like myself. It specifically calls out mentalities and mindsets that are fairly common in churches across America. Be prepared to be open minded and really think about the idea of "speaking of Jesus"
I would highly recommend this to Christians thinking about evangelism, as well as people who grew up with and have issues with the Christian church but are still interested in Jesus.
This is a hard book for people entrenched in doctrinal issues, like myself. It specifically calls out mentalities and mindsets that are fairly common in churches across America. Be prepared to be open minded and really think about the idea of "speaking of Jesus"
I would highly recommend this to Christians thinking about evangelism, as well as people who grew up with and have issues with the Christian church but are still interested in Jesus.
March 3, 2014
Reading this book has been humbling. At first I didn't like it, but the more I read it the more I loved it. The author expressed ideas that I've been afraid to say in public for years. The book seems very similar to teaching I received under Dr. Darrell Whiteman in class years ago.
The author calls us to ask people to follow Jesus instead of a church, Christian cause, or a pastor. Simple! Brillant! True! Christianity and the Gospel are not the same.
I hope in the not too far future that my evangelism efforts show more fruit after trying to employ the ideas presented in the book. I'm also excited to discuss this book with my Christian friends.
The author calls us to ask people to follow Jesus instead of a church, Christian cause, or a pastor. Simple! Brillant! True! Christianity and the Gospel are not the same.
I hope in the not too far future that my evangelism efforts show more fruit after trying to employ the ideas presented in the book. I'm also excited to discuss this book with my Christian friends.
July 2, 2014
I strongly recommend my Christian friends, particularly those in the US finding themselves immersed (willingly or unwillingly) in divisive controversy, please, please, please read this book.
I don't like the tendency in the book to separate Christianity from Christ. I don't like his tendency to pick on conservatives more than liberals, rather than giving both an equally hard time.
Aside from that, this is probably one of the easiest to read and most important books I've come across. There's a Kindle copy available for, I think, a reasonable price.
Just read it, and think carefully next time your values and deeply held beliefs are - whether real or imagined - under assault.
I don't like the tendency in the book to separate Christianity from Christ. I don't like his tendency to pick on conservatives more than liberals, rather than giving both an equally hard time.
Aside from that, this is probably one of the easiest to read and most important books I've come across. There's a Kindle copy available for, I think, a reasonable price.
Just read it, and think carefully next time your values and deeply held beliefs are - whether real or imagined - under assault.
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