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73 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 18, 2010
"The way we feel about a concept and idea is influenced by our personal experiences. This has both good and bad consequences. The bad part of it is, emotions and feelings can't be defeated by reason even if these feelings are out of place and uncalled for. If you want to use logical reasoning, all you can do is explain your view and then let your opponent accept or reject it on his personal feelings. On the other hand it can be considered a good thing that you can't force someone into believing something simply by superior reasoning. This is also why in many religious debates you'll find that people resort to emotive arguments rather then logical ones. One of the most powerful ways to convey emotive arguments is by art. Poetry, books, music or even paintings can convey strong arguments that can't be defeated by logic. Whether or not that argument or message is realistic is of course a totally different matter. But important here, is that most people do not approach emotive messages from a skeptical, logical point of view."
"The tactics manipulators use can make it seem like they're hurting, caring for you, defending you; almost anything but fighting. These tactics are hard to recognize as merely clever ploys. They always make just enough sense to make a person doubt their gut hunch that they're being taken advantage of or abused [...] These features make them highly effective psychological weapons to which anyone can be vulnerable. It's hard to think clearly when someone has you emotionally on the run [...] All of us have weaknesses and insecurities that a clever manipulator might exploit. Sometimes, we're aware of these weaknesses and how someone might use them to take advantage of us. For example, I hear parents say things like: "Yeah, I know I have a big guilt button." – But at the time their manipulative child is busily pushing that button, they can easily forget what's really going on. Besides, sometimes we're unaware of our biggest vulnerabilities. Manipulators often know us better than we know ourselves. They know what buttons to push, when and how hard. Our lack of self-knowledge sets us up to be exploited."
"Nevertheless, you are not who you think you are. Thinking gives you the illusion of being someone, but you are not someone, but rather Oneness itself; the Divine masquerading as an individual. The masquerade is for the purpose of exploring the physical reality and for having unique experiences you are having as someone. The divine is enjoying the experiences it is having through all of creation, even experiences you would consider unenjoyable. What the Divine enjoys is experience- any experience. It created you just for that, or rather you created you just for that. [P] You may think you are not enjoying an experience, but if you touch deeply within yourself you will discover enjoyment in even the most unpleasant experiences. The joy of these experiences comes simply from the ability to have them, the ability to be alive and experience them. the Divine is enjoying life and celebrating in every moment through every creation, regardless of what is being experienced. Therefore it is possible for you to find joy in any experience as well when you align yourself with the divine Self in you, or essence, instead of the personal self, or the you that you think you are."