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263 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1891
Now, as regards to the first of these two statements, I will say, to begin with, that the warmth of apparel does not depend really on the number of garments worn, but on the material of which they are made.Preach it, mister, he knew his shit. Overall this essay really delighted me because it showed that Oscar was an advocate of woman's rights in some part and refused to conform to the standard set by society.
I would like, in fact, to use the word ovation, but a pedantic professer has recently informed us that this expression is not to be employed except when a sheep is sacrificed.It's always of great interest to me to see in which way Oscar examined Art. He made the distincion between living and existing, and here he talked about the difference between reciting a passage and acting one.
In our day it is best for man to be married, and men must give up the tyranny in married life which was once so dear to them, and which, we are afraid [!], lingers still, here and there.I was pretty relieved to see that Oscar tried to promote the equality of men and women. Oh, I can't deny you this last fact, he uses the words 'Scotch lassie' once and I never cringed so hard in my life.
and to translate 'son coeur avait un calus à l'endroit du loyer' by 'his heart was a callus in the direction of the lease' is an insult to two languages.It was also delightful to read how much he appreciated a well-written book. He proved himself to be a true bibliophile stating that he could understand anyone who would rather stay at home and read than meet their friends outside.
In spite of this, there are many people who havew declared the Comédie humaine to be indigestible. Perhaps it is: but then what about truffles?Exactly, what about them? ;)
The American mother is a tedious person. The American father is better, for he is never seen in London.I admit it, he got me there. It's interesting to see how his view on America changed five years after lecturing there. I'll definitely research what prompted this change.
The maxim, 'If you find the company dull, blame yourself,' seems to us somewhat optimistic, and we have no sympathy at all with the professional story-teller who is really a great bore at a dinner-table.Oh, Oscar, let's be pessimistic together!
It is really of very little use to dress up a London girl in Greek draperies and to paint her as a goddess. The robe may be the robe of Athens, but the face is usually the face of Brompton.I'm lowkey living for his pettiness though. Anyways, none of this really matters (to me, at least) because he also talked about fucking gymnastics and acrobatics (my passion) and how beautiful it is.
Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.Wilde, in discussing nature versus art, mentions Aristotle (p. 3):
Nature has good intentions, of course, but as Aristotle once said, she cannot carry them out.Vivian is discussing his preference for the indoors, and says (p. 4):
Why, even Morris' poorest workman could make you a more comfortable seat then the whole of Nature can... If Nature had been comfortable, mankind would never have invented architecture, and I prefer houses to open air.This first part of the introduction is then neatly wrapped up with reference to Vivian (p. 5) writing the word "Whim" over the door of his library, echoing Emerson doing similar in his famous essay Self-Reliance. What does this all mean? It sets out several themes that thread through these five dialogues and essays. First is the interaction of art and nature in the human spirit. Second is contradiction. Vivian doesn't want to go outside, until he does. Vivian thinks writing is a waste of effort. But he is writing an article. In the final paragraph of the collection, Wilde writes:
Not that I agree with everything I have said in this essay. There is much with which I entirely disagree. The essay simply represents an artistic standpoint, and in aesthetic criticism, attitude is everything. For in art there is no such thing as a universal truth. A Truth in art is that whose contradictory is also true.Third is the rhythm of life and the pursuit of human excellence. Wilde's characters in the dialogues go from contradictory point to contradictory point. In the essays we learn how ill-discipline and ignoring our intuition can lead to trouble (for instance, the poisoner leaves his ground-floor curtain open and is instantly recognised from the street); how Shakespeare used architecture and costume to make a point (as opposed to the theatrical archaeologists who point out Shakespeare's character's anachronistic raiment); how one moment we are focused, the next bored, even depressed, but we can be humorous, witty, intelligent, and dull. The dialogues read like a moment of intense thought that begins out of boredom and ends in boredom with thought. An indoor conversation is the scene of energy, but after talking "long enough", the outdoors beckons:
Egotism itself, which is so necessary to a proper sense of human dignity, is entirely the result of indoor life.It is unsurprising that Oscar Wilde is so well read and witty. After all, he was a graduate of Oxford at a time when only the elite or those with elite patronage could dream of studying there. Yet there is an intense use of Plato's form of dialogue, an interesting blend of self-reliance and pompousness, intensity appearing indoors (even within Shakespeare's Globe Theatre), and the outdoors being a place of leisure (for the well-to-do, at least!). Yet the point of contradiction is not to be dishonest, but, through art, to bring to Nature the human experience:
The final revelation is that Lying, the telling of beautiful untrue things, is the proper aim of Art.I recall in high school, when studying English literature, the teacher would ask: "What does the author mean by this or that?" to which I would say, "How should I know? And how do you know if you didn't ask them?" Logical to an egotistical teenager, to be sure, but hardly intelligent. And now? It would take several re-readings of these dialogues and essays and some intense study into Wilde's life at the point in time of writing these works to discover more. Yet, armed with the knowledge of reading given to me by Harold Bloom, Mortimer Adler, Italo Calvino, and Theodore Roosevelt (to name but a few), I think I can safely tell my teenage self that, contradictory to what I thought then, one can interpret and learn from the writings of others, even if the lessons learnt were never intended. And if Art cannot deliver such lessons, what other medium can?