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Simplify Your Life With Kids: 100 Ways to Make Family Life Easier and More Fun

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Simplify Your Life with Kids, first published in 1997, has sold over 250,000 copies. Here is the paperback edition of Elaine St. James's best-selling guide to making life with children easier, simpler, and happier.Everyone with children has experienced the frustrations of trying to juggle softball practice, PTA meetings, meals, laundry, and comforting a crying child with marriage, a hectic career, and what used to be a social life. It's a familiar challenge in many of today's harried households. In fact, in nearly three-quarters of American homes with children under eighteen both parents are employed full-time. Life can quickly get complicated.Simplicity expert Elaine St. James now has solutions for beleaguered parents everywhere. Simplify Your Life with Kids offers practical, down-to-earth advice for the vital, time-demanding, perplexing issues that all parents face; it promises to be an easy read for busy parents whose lives are so hectic they don't have the time or energy to wade th

384 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1997

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September 5, 2019
4 stars. I’ve been reading this over about a month and a half (it’s broken into 100 small chapters). The title doesn’t necessarily fit the material inside... a better one might be “How To Parent.” It has ideas on every aspect of parenting: morning routines, family meals, house rules, wardrobe, logical consequences, praising in specific terms, encouraging creativity, what to keep around for a first aid kit, talking to your kids about drugs and sex.

I really liked a chapter about saying yes - “Can we go to Disney World?” “I’d love to! As soon as we find the time and save up enough money, we are on our way.” “Can I have a cookie please?” “Sure, after you’ve finished your dinner.” “Can I have a new bike?” “Great idea. Save up your money, and I’ll drive you to the bike store and help you pick out your very own.” Some of the material was dated (published in 1997), but you can still apply it!

Shoutout to my lovely mama who let me borrow this book.

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705 reviews4 followers
February 18, 2025
The best practical book ever for those starting a family. If you have babies/toddlers, I strongly suggest you buy this book NOW. I raised four children, and I wish I had this book at the very beginning - it would have saved me much frustration, time, and agony!
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589 reviews9 followers
February 5, 2008
Had a lot of great ideas, I don't remember this one being as "life-changing" as her first, but I agree with the emphasis on the simple joys of child/parent togetherness, and the reminder of what a fleeting time it is.

Was the author having a hard time trying to get to 100 items?...I became bored when it veered towards discipline, etc. Not that they were bad ideas, just not so much what I was looking for in this book.
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697 reviews18 followers
March 7, 2009
Well. I bought this used at Bookman's, and the pages I read while browsing seemed pretty smart (esp. about how to wash kids' socks and not lose them or have to sort them). Much of it, though, as with many advice books, seemed either common sense or preachy/weird... but it was marginally interesting and helpful for the scattered gems.
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August 10, 2012
not as good as the first book I read by this author. Here I was expecting actual tips on simplifying my life (with kids) instead I got a lesson on parenting which was not what I was looking for ... also the author's ideas of parenting don't necessarily Meld with my own views on the topic so ... eh? take it or leave it ... whatever ...
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117 reviews3 followers
March 31, 2008
What a great book! Another great fantasy series. I wonder why they made The Seeker a separate book instead of doing the entire series? It could be another Harry Potter. I love the scenery it invokes when reading: Cornwall and the sea. Oh to jump right in the book....wonderful.
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August 4, 2007
You can pick and choose what would really help simply your life. The sections are divided into different areas of our lives: money, house, job, etc. The chapters are short but give excellent ideas on how to make life more peaceful and simple...which I am all for!
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2,292 reviews
January 7, 2009
I found this when my babies were 10 years old. I wish I had found it when my oldest was a newborn because she has some terrific ideas. I was able to incorporate many ideas of Elaine's into my family's life. For many years this is the gift I would give at baby showers especially first time moms!
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36 reviews1 follower
June 29, 2009
Alot of the points in this book are self explanatory ...However I did enjoy reading it to get additional ideas and also to remind myself what can be improved, because I am in no way.... a perfect mom
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February 14, 2010
I have a hard time accepting advice from this author that doesn't have children at the time that she wrote it. However, there are methods that she mentions that we already practice. Not sure if that's good or bad. :-]
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July 12, 2010
Was pleasantly surprised to find that I already have taken on many of the habits and suggestions in this book in my own family, but it was still an interesting reference, and had some new ideas that I would like to implement.
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595 reviews10 followers
February 25, 2012
i'd read another book by Elaine St. James, and found it useful, so i was interested to see how she applied her simplification strategies to parenting. i found this full of helpful tips - many common sense, but all compiled in one quick, easy-to-read book.
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502 reviews
September 16, 2015
This book was good. It has some helpful suggestions of how to have a better relationship with your kids. I learned a few things, but most of the other information was stuff I've already heard or already tried. Easy read, and I'm sure I'll use a few of her suggestions.
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114 reviews
January 25, 2008
Very enlightening and helpful book... every mom needs one :-)
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175 reviews9 followers
August 10, 2009
The information in this book is somewhat interesting and helpful but the layout of the book bothered me. The first section of the book was most enjoyable and then I ended up skimming the rest.
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88 reviews5 followers
October 23, 2008
Some good practical advice and a short read which I like when I am recieving advice.
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354 reviews68 followers
September 14, 2009
It was interesting to see how many things we were already doing as a matter of survival with four kids, lol. I took lots of notes.
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133 reviews
February 4, 2010
It was more a parenting how-to guide than ways to simplify. They were all great ideasfor being a great parent but I didn't find any helpful suggestions for simplifying.
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115 reviews2 followers
January 12, 2011
I'd say about 25% of the stuff in this book was helpful. Most of it is common sense, but it was nice to be reaffirmed, I guess.
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366 reviews8 followers
March 3, 2011
this book is great for toddlers and up, but not so relevant for a mom-to-be but i will definitely read it again in the future.
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July 14, 2011
Very dated in certain respects. The author has a bad habit of telling you what you MUST do, instead of simply offering suggestions. Did not enjoy.
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