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324 pages, Mass Market Paperback
First published January 1, 1956

Gianetta: "Do you want to keep your husband or don't you?"While I agree with pride being a real stumbling block in a relationship, it's a false dichotomy to say that if one partner cheats, the other has to choose between keeping quiet or losing that person. There's a lot of room for heart-to-heart discussions without saying things that will damage the marriage irrevocably (assuming you still want to try to save your marriage). And I don't think keeping quiet about adultery ever helped a marriage much. Maybe it kept the couple together, but at what cost? Still, I'm able to roll with it here because .
Wronged wife: "I--of course I want to keep him! What a silly question!"
Gianetta: "Then leave him alone. Don't you know yet that there's no room for pride in marriage? You have to choose between the two. If you can't keep quiet, then you must make up your mind to lose him. If you want him, then swallow your pride and shut up. It'll heal over; everything does, given time enough and a bit of peace."
