Although I've been in Korea for just about eight months now, it wasn't until reading Brother One Cell that I actually took the time to appreciate where I am. Sure, I've reveled a bit in this unique opportunity, especially to those back home, but I never really do so objectively. What's worse is that as I'm often frustrated with 'work,' I find myself complaining about a number of things totally unrelated. In turn, even though I really have enjoyed Korea, I frequently view it in a negative light, clumping together my experience working here and my experience living here.
This book helped me to reaffirm the notion that I've held all along that my complaints are hardly worth voicing in that not only is it my choice to be here, but I really do have the opportunity to leave at any time, unlike Cullen Thomas did in during his three and a half year sentence which he served in full behind bars in Korea.
While Cullen Thomas was locked up in Korean prison against his will and I am merely 'stuck in Seoul' by choice (as I like to say), his story resonates deeply with my experience here in the Hermit Kingdom. From battling ajummas in the subway to receiving flurries of ridiculous cautionary tales, Cullen's time teaching in Korea seems very much like what I myself am going through. He even accurately captures the mental exhaustion that I experience everyday despite only putting in around 30 hours a week!
Where our stories diverge is when Cullen is arrested and sent away on charges of drug smuggling. From then on Brother One Cell offers the casual reader a glimpse into the dark and unknown world of being locked up abroad. Luckily for Cullen, and the faint of heart, his torment seemed to be mostly mental as he was spared (or at least the reader is spared) of any horrid physical torture or brutality.
What I found incredibly fascinating about this book was not that it was a tale of danger and deceit but rather how accurately and objectively Cullen presented Korean culture that is all too foreign to Westerners, even those of us living it day to day! The prisons, just like the rest of Korea, adhered to a strict set of Confucian principles that finds its strength in unquestioned adherence to tradition and more importantly a rigid hierarchical status structure.
To see this same set of principles so vividly reflected in Cullen's life behind bars was simply shocking. Rather than constantly fighting one another to survive as is 'expected' among American prisoners, Korea's inmates still follow the same rules of respect and status that they would out in the open. One of my favorite examples of this is prisoners remembering to use the polite form of the word when they swear at the guards.
This was a fantastic and simple read that was made much better by my actually living the experience for myself. Well, half the experience at least, as I've yet to visit a Korean prison. Oh, and on that note, to top it all off I walk outside to a view of Suraksan each day, the same mountain that Cullen could only stare longingly at from his bleak cell in the city just north of my Uijongbu. As for me, well, I'm able to hike it whenever I want, if I wake up early enough!
Sometimes you forget just how lucky you are. Brother one cell sure helped to remind me!