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Wegkomkans

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Tien vriende wat oor ‘n tydperk van tien jaar byeenkom – en onder andere emigrasie, spermtellings, oudword en seksuele frustrasie bespreek – is die spil van hierdie roman.

Wegkomkans is 'n roman oor die verhouding tussen tien vriende oor 'n tydperk van tien jaar, wat strek van die politieke noodtoestand in die jare tagtig tot die demokratiese bevryding. Soos in 'n stadige dans beweeg hulle om mekaar, nader en verder, en weer nader, en deel in mekaar se ekstase en smart, vrese en fantasiee. Hulle ontmoet mekaar tydens "wegkomkanse" by die see, gewoonlik in 'n strandhuis, en praat oor politieke geweld en emigrasie, seksuele frustrasies, spermtellings en plooie. Soms met spot en selfspot, soms hartstogtelik. Die huwelik loop vir byna almal in die groep op 'n fiasko uit, nuwe verleidings en verhoudings volg, en die vreugde en risiko van ouerskap word 'n nuwe gesprekstema. Tegelyk begin die jeugdige glans verdof, en pynlike werklikhede keer die blik na binne. Uiteindelik is dit vriendskap wat die aanslag van tyd en trauma deurstaan; wat 'n skans teen verlies vorm. Wegkomkans bied prikkelende insigte in mense se versugtinge en ontnugteringe; in die verraderlikheid van die hart.

613 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1999

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Marita van der Vyver

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Marita van der Vyver is the author of a dozen novels, a collection of short stories, two collections of humorous essays, picture books for children, many short stories and essays in anthologies, and regular columns in newspapers and magazines. Her books have been published in English, Dutch and German, and her first novel, published in English as Entertaining Angels, became a bestseller and was translated into twelve languages. She lives in France with her family.

Marita van der Vyver is die skrywer van ’n tiental romans, ’n bundel kortverhale, twee versamelings van humoristiese essays, prenteboeke vir kleuters, talle kortverhale en essays in versamelbundels, en gereelde rubrieke in koerante en tydskrifte. Haar boeke word deurgaans in Engels, Hollands en Duits vertaal na die sukses van haar eerste roman vir volwassenes, Griet skryf ’n sprokie, ’n literêre sensasie wat in sowat ’n dosyn tale gepubliseer is. Twee van haar romans, Die ongelooflike avonture van Hanna Hoekom en Dis koue kos, skat, is verfilm. Sy woon in Frankryk saam met haar familie.

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Author 26 books88 followers
January 5, 2018
It's been ages since I read Marita's novels, but I'm so glad I picked this one.

This novel is about a group of friends trying to negotiate life in a changing South African political environment. We meet them on ten occasions when they go away for a weekend spaced over ten years. But it is not only the politics that are changing. We also see the changes in them across the years, physical, emotional and spiritual.

I loved this novel! The characters became my friends, and when tragedy touched them I shed a tear. I wanted to fight their battles with them, and comfort them in times of hardship.

Highly recommended. A page turner.
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June 3, 2017
I enjoyed reading this book. However, I found the French words and French food to be out of place. It did not seem likely that a bunch of Afrikaners​, especially men, would be making Bouillabaisse. I read about the author and she lives in France which explains all the French references. Other than that, I found the book very enjoyable. The characters had a lot of depth and personality.
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April 10, 2019
It took me about two chapters to get into the book. I loved how the characters changed through the chapters and also in the same era as I grew up. Sometimes very dark but very realistic. A very honest read.
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October 7, 2023
Sal graag wil weet wat die lotjie nou in 2023 oor 'n naweek gaan bespreek.
(Ek gaan hom nou weer lees VOOR ek Laaste Kans lees.)
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90 reviews
January 1, 2018
I was captivated by this book in a way I haven't been captivated for a while. Kept me up late reading. A page turner, a book that introduced me to new friends, wander what is happening in their lives today! Loved it.
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December 12, 2016
Excellent reading - takes you back to those years....
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January 2, 2015
Lank gelede die boek gelees, my laat dink aan mense met "fomo" en eet helemaal te veel uit mekaar se borde uit...was een van my minder aangename leesstof
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193 reviews
September 15, 2015
Set in South Africa over ten years about the relationship between 7 friends and how their lives are affected by the changing time in South Africa between 1990 and 2000
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July 16, 2025
Loved meeting the earlier versions of the people in 'Still Breathing' - this book made me laugh, made me cry and makes me reach for the follow-up again! Love her writing, love us opinionated South Africans. We're all just like her characters in so many ways.
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July 6, 2020
Hierdie boek is net fantasties. Beslis iets wat ek weer sal lees. Ek het dit regtig verskriklik geniet. I am now a Marita fan for life!
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May 21, 2023
Nou toe nou. My eerste Afrikaanse boek sedert hoërskool. Nie werklik my tipe boek nie, maar heel interessant en maklik om te lees. En goed om die moedertaal op te skerp.
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