I was given this book by a colleague recently. The book has well written intentions but it fails to hit the mark. Award winning teacher, Ron Clark discusses his 55 essentials that are supposed to help kids succeed in the classroom. However, his “essentials” came across as overly strict and seemed almost humiliating to an everyday student.
In the book, Clark discusses some of his rules/ideas:
Rule 9: “Always say thank you when I give you something. If you do not say it within three seconds after receiving the item, I will take it back. There is no excuse for not showing appreciation”
I agree with Clark that manners are key to developing polite citizens. However, Clark goes on to mention how a student in one of his classes won a book set in a Social Studies competition. Clearly ecstatic to have won, she began jumping up and down with joy. Guess what? Clark decides to take it away because she doesn’t say “thank you” within 3 seconds. She is heartbroken. How devastating! These kids are 10 years old and in 5th grade for crying out loud! Of course she isn’t going to say “thank you” right away because she’s so happy with the gift she received. Give them a break!
Rule 18: “You will make every effort to be as organized as possible.”
In Clark’s classroom, organization is important. I don’t disagree! However, Clark mentions an instance where one of his student’s desks are so unorganized that he decides to pick up the desk and dump EVERYTHING out on the floor in front of the rest of the class! He says it is not done to humiliate the student, but done to teach him/her a lesson in front of the others. Seriously?? Does anybody actually think the student isn’t going to feel some type of humiliation later on? Not the right way to deal with the situation if you ask me. Politely talk with the student individually before or after class!
In addition to this, Ron also explains in a variety of rules how students should behave in the movie theater, at lunch, on the bus, etc. Look, I get that there are times when the teacher needs to have students quiet down or be well mannered in public, but it seems like he is sucking all the enjoyment out of their educational experience. They’re kids. Kids need to talk, laugh, smile, and enjoy spending time with peers rather than sitting or walking in complete silence, standing/sitting straight forward, etc. There is a clear difference between well-mannered children and having them behave what I observed as “robot-like”.
Clark’s methods are clearly directed for elementary and lower middle-school levels, however I disagree with the majority of his methods no matter what grade. Times have changed and so have students. I personally would not recommend this book.