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224 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2004
"If you've answered yes, then I think you're in a minority. Most people would not only reject this option, they would be horrified by it."-- I do not buy this at all. How this can be support/evidence that is the key to his arguments follows??? Just because "he thinks so"?
"Nevertheless, the fact that authenticity of some kind is an important value for millions of people is enough to establish that there are some things significant numbers of people value at least as much as, and in some ways more than, happiness. So we cannot assume that finding meaning in life is just a matter of determining what happiness is and how to get it."-- Why there has to be a binary choice between authenticity and happiness? The previous argument does not support such a duality at all. My naive thought is that quite a lot of people pursue happiness by being authentic.
"It seems that the pursuit of happiness is useless, and can even fuel the kind of discontent that makes its attainment less likely."-- This is totally a distortion or narrowing of the concept of "happiness."
"So if we define success in such a way that everyone is bound to achieve it, it becomes meaningless."-- But even if we define success in such a way, it does not necessarily mean everyone can not achieve it at the same time because success is NOT ONE DIMENSIONAL. People can be successful in one aspect, and other people can be successful in another, there is not a single "success" that is the only one!
For that reason any “guide to the meaning of life” cannot be a complete instruction manual but can only establish the framework within which each individual can construct a worthwhile life.and
[Life] is worth living just as long as it is a good thing in itself. Such a life has meaning because it means something to us, it is valuable to those who have it. Many things can contribute to [meaning in life]... a balance of authenticity, happiness and concern for others; one where time is not wasted; one which engages in the ongoing work of becoming who we want to be and being successful in those terms.