Was in a bookstore with my friend and he just had to read the book title out loud to me. I was curious and being ashamed on my own sexual orientation - I instantly felt a surge of embarrassment after reading the back cover or synopsis of the book.
I knew homosexual is normal, but I've always treated it as something abnormal because of stereotypes. I wished I was different and just straight, but I knew I couldn't get myself to love another girl. So before reading this book, I can say I'm not proud to be gay. My best friend knows I'm gay and when he saw me trying to hide my own identity in front of others, he asked me the reason I'm afraid to disclose being gay. Silence was in charge after.
I am afraid, still am.
So, after purchasing and reading this book, as a gay man I am, it's surprising to know so much things unknown to me! The book is packed with numerous reports and stories about the minor sexuality that it's OKAY to be homosexual. I've been in denial for SO long, thinking that homosexual is just wrong. Reading this just enlightened me, I can't be more thankful to everyone who've contributed in the research.
If you're a person who's afraid to disclose your sexual orientation.
It's okay, take it really slowly. Somewhere in our life, we HAVE to do that. I'm scared, but I'll give it a try.
As the author've written: ...as research has repeatedly shown that the strongest predictor of tolerance toward homosexuality is knowing a gay person, coming out of the closet is not only a personal step but also an important political act. In addition, it's a significant health benefit...
Have fun discovering yourself / the minor sexuality.