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Bullied
Honorable Mention for LGBT YA/Coming of Age in the 2011 Rainbow Awards.
Every day, all over the country, teenagers struggle with the realities of bullying. Tormented, ridiculed, and beaten—simply for being who they are—these teens face alienation, humiliation, and even the explicit assertion that they have somehow brought this upon themselves, that they should just blend in. Bullied is a series of short stories exploring the world of these teens from several different the victim, the bully, the gay bystander, the straight friend, the concerned parent.
Closeted Bryan wonders why Christian Michaelson doesn't just try to blend in if he hates being bullied so much. Star athlete David isn't a homophobe—after all, he's not afraid of anything. Jonathan, a Christian fundamentalist, must weigh the Bible against peer pressure and what he knows is right when he discovers his childhood friend is gay. Bully victim Chase Devereaux finds an unexpected ally in a brave fellow student. A single mom struggles to accept the reality that her only son is gay. Two tough gay teens are forced to confront their own inner demons when tragedy befalls a classmate they failed to help. And overweight Kirby finds the strength of character to make a friend, which leads to a lifestyle change and a chance at love. Each character grows as an individual as he or she comes to terms with what it means to be a gay teenager in America.
Every day, all over the country, teenagers struggle with the realities of bullying. Tormented, ridiculed, and beaten—simply for being who they are—these teens face alienation, humiliation, and even the explicit assertion that they have somehow brought this upon themselves, that they should just blend in. Bullied is a series of short stories exploring the world of these teens from several different the victim, the bully, the gay bystander, the straight friend, the concerned parent.
Closeted Bryan wonders why Christian Michaelson doesn't just try to blend in if he hates being bullied so much. Star athlete David isn't a homophobe—after all, he's not afraid of anything. Jonathan, a Christian fundamentalist, must weigh the Bible against peer pressure and what he knows is right when he discovers his childhood friend is gay. Bully victim Chase Devereaux finds an unexpected ally in a brave fellow student. A single mom struggles to accept the reality that her only son is gay. Two tough gay teens are forced to confront their own inner demons when tragedy befalls a classmate they failed to help. And overweight Kirby finds the strength of character to make a friend, which leads to a lifestyle change and a chance at love. Each character grows as an individual as he or she comes to terms with what it means to be a gay teenager in America.
158 pages, Kindle Edition
First published August 12, 2011
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Jeff Erno
71 books641 followersJeff Erno currently lives in southern Michigan. He holds a bachelor's degree in business management and human resources. Jeff began writing stories in the late 1990's and initially posted them to a free online amateur website. The positive feedback he received from readers encouraged him to continue, and this eventually led to the publication of his first novel, Dumb Jock. Erno has subsequently published several other novels.
His greatest passion in life is writing, and he hopes to be able to continue sharing his work with readers worldwide.
His greatest passion in life is writing, and he hopes to be able to continue sharing his work with readers worldwide.
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October 21, 2016
This book should be a must read for all teenagers and their parents.
The stories are good but not as powerful as I had hoped. Even so, Jeff Erno still put together a great collection of short stories.
This collection of short stories focuses on the lives of gay teens and how they deal with being bullied. Bullying is a serious problem in our schools and believe it or not most school administrators are completely clueless about it. Whether they know it exists and ignore it or are not aware of it I'm not sure. My boyfriend and I started an anti-bullying campaign in our high school and faced constant opposition from administrators who claimed the school didn't have an issue with bullying.
Though the stories in this book are nothing compared to some of the stories I've heard they are still touching. If you are not aware of what kids are facing today for just being different then you MUST read this book. It will definitely open your eyes. It's not made up, it happens every day, in every school, in every country, all across the world. In case you hadn't noticed I really hate bullies.
September 20, 2011
"THE FIRST TEN LIES THEY TELL YOU IN HIGH SCHOOL
1. We are here to help you.
2. You will have time to get to your class before the bell rings.
3. The dress code will be enforced.
4. No smoking is allowed on school grounds.
5. Our football team will win the championship this year.
6. We expect more of you here.
7. Guidance counselors are always available to listen.
8. Your schedule was created with you in mind.
9. Your locker combination is private.
10. These will be the years you look back on fondly.
TEN MORE LIES THEY TELL YOU IN HIGH SCHOOL
1. You will use algebra in your adult lives.
2. Driving to school is a privilege that can be taken away.
3. Students must stay on campus during lunch.
4. The new text books will arrive any day now.
5. Colleges care more about you than your SAT scores.
6. We are enforcing the dress code.
7. We will figure out how to turn off the heat soon.
8. Our bus drivers are highly trained professionals.
9. There is nothing wrong with summer school.
10. We want to hear what you have to say."
- From Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson
How many kids or teens have been bullied every day? Do you think employees, other students and teachers are part of it? How many lives do we have to kill and destroy? As a bystander, I saw a lot of kids bullied in school when I was in high school. Not because I never cared for them but because I don't like to be bullied like them, it is normal for us to think of it and to protect ourselves from the bullies.
I ask myself many times after reading every short story included in the book. Do we really have to be quiet while watching those kids tortured physically and mentally? We as a bystander have to put ourselves in the right position, be the generation of anti-bullies and help them to stand out. Keep our school clean from the outburst of the cry and laugh and let them feel what they have done to those who are weak.
Most of the bullied are gays, a lot of kids and teens lately stand out and proud to be gay. But what does it take for them to be gay and different to the society? Be bullied and mock by others because of their differences and be a coward forever? No. They deserve what a normal people do; they are still human but thought to be hypocrite in the society. They are open to anything; artistic and very friendly but only few understand and know them.
There also times that gays are overreacting, too captivating of themselves and too proud of being gay. I'm not against to any sexes and I have a story to tell, something irritating in my part. When I go to the cafeteria there is a gay keep on shouting and singing very loud and everyone is looking at him and he never cared. He lose his moral and as well as the respect of others. See how happy he is but the irritation he gets from others worsen and most or maybe few gays are like him
Bullied by Jeff Erno is a compilation of short stories related to gay bullied and how they survive such racism from friends and school mates. A typical school stuff but something more unique for me. Each story has different characters and different narrators. You can see how they manage to think about gays and how they bullied them. This book really makes sense and I'm glad I read it.
I know readers have speculation whether the book contains sex and the truth is none. This book is completely safe and people don't have to eek in the middle of the book. I also wonder how he wrote the novel, to make other characters more masculine compared to the other character. I imagine kids like them bullied in a very young age and I pity those bullies. I wish this book will help teens to open their eyes to new possibilities and let us stop bullying in school.
Super thanks to NetGalley for sharing an advance copy of the book and I'm thankful too to Dreamspinner Press to make this book possible for the public.
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Rating: Bullied by Jeff Erno, 4 Sweets
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Book #237 for 2011
September 22, 2011
^^ LEFT ME IN TEARS!^^
This book played on every emotion, every single one of them. The strongest emotion I felt was anger; because there are so many young people going through these same issues that Jeff expresses so wonderfully in this book of short stories. He manages to capture everything in these stories, with an underlying of hope and most of all love. I cried through out reading the entire book, and I commend Jeff in sharing issues facing LGBT youth.
Jeff possesses a gift. A gift of connecting to the reader and making you feel for all his characters. I never cry for any other books as much as I do for a Jeff Erno book. In Bullied all seven of these wickedly emotional stories had me in tears, whether from sadness or from pure joy.
The Stories: Blending In, Chuckie, Saved, Different, Invisible, Shame, Kirby. All these stories could have been a repetitive mess, but instead each story offers up a variety of content. Though the victims all seem familiar, in the end it’s a realistic view on what some people might think “a male should not be”. Because males are supposed to be tough, grow 6ft tall, and play extreme sports (gimme a break).
What makes this book truly special is the talent the author has to make each character believable. From the bully, to the victim, or the mom trying to wrap her mind around her son being gay. It was like reading a story about real people, and their struggles. Though you might think. Man, this book sounds depressing. This book mostly is about friendship, love and the power to overcome all.
I have to say Kirby is my favourite story in the bunch. The fat kid who was bullied, by none other than someone who claims to be his best-friend. After being humiliated and made to feel horrible about himself. Kirby still came out on top. Loved it so much. My least favourite (not because it sucked) and the saddest (the reason) of them all is Different. Different manages to touch on gay hierarchy, where another gay person feels that they are better than the other is. I guess if we are going to stop discrimination, we need to start on the inside. Different was very hard for me read, and though the ending is optimistic, still left an ache in my heart.
Overall, I recommend this read. One of these stories is guaranteed to resonate with its reader. You might really love one or you might love them all. I can honestly say this is one powerful book.
This book played on every emotion, every single one of them. The strongest emotion I felt was anger; because there are so many young people going through these same issues that Jeff expresses so wonderfully in this book of short stories. He manages to capture everything in these stories, with an underlying of hope and most of all love. I cried through out reading the entire book, and I commend Jeff in sharing issues facing LGBT youth.
Jeff possesses a gift. A gift of connecting to the reader and making you feel for all his characters. I never cry for any other books as much as I do for a Jeff Erno book. In Bullied all seven of these wickedly emotional stories had me in tears, whether from sadness or from pure joy.
The Stories: Blending In, Chuckie, Saved, Different, Invisible, Shame, Kirby. All these stories could have been a repetitive mess, but instead each story offers up a variety of content. Though the victims all seem familiar, in the end it’s a realistic view on what some people might think “a male should not be”. Because males are supposed to be tough, grow 6ft tall, and play extreme sports (gimme a break).
What makes this book truly special is the talent the author has to make each character believable. From the bully, to the victim, or the mom trying to wrap her mind around her son being gay. It was like reading a story about real people, and their struggles. Though you might think. Man, this book sounds depressing. This book mostly is about friendship, love and the power to overcome all.
I have to say Kirby is my favourite story in the bunch. The fat kid who was bullied, by none other than someone who claims to be his best-friend. After being humiliated and made to feel horrible about himself. Kirby still came out on top. Loved it so much. My least favourite (not because it sucked) and the saddest (the reason) of them all is Different. Different manages to touch on gay hierarchy, where another gay person feels that they are better than the other is. I guess if we are going to stop discrimination, we need to start on the inside. Different was very hard for me read, and though the ending is optimistic, still left an ache in my heart.
Overall, I recommend this read. One of these stories is guaranteed to resonate with its reader. You might really love one or you might love them all. I can honestly say this is one powerful book.
August 27, 2011
You consider yourself a good person, your mouth drops open when you hear of bullying, and you wonder, "How can anyone do that or allow that to happen?" Jeff Erno shows us in "Bullied." He put me into the heads of bullies, their victims, those who stood idly by, and those who didn't know the full extent of it until it was too late. He made me think. He made me feel, "There, but for the Grace of God, goes I." And I cried. Lord, did I cry! It started just by me looking at the cover.
It's been a long time since I was in high school, and though there was bullying then, it pales in comparison to what kids today must deal with. Though we read it in the papers, through his writing Mr. Erno allows us to feel the despair, the pain, the hatred, and every other imaginable emotion. And then he gives us hope, leaving us with a positive message: that if we don't allow bullying, it can't happen.
May we soon see that day when no child has to fear.
It's been a long time since I was in high school, and though there was bullying then, it pales in comparison to what kids today must deal with. Though we read it in the papers, through his writing Mr. Erno allows us to feel the despair, the pain, the hatred, and every other imaginable emotion. And then he gives us hope, leaving us with a positive message: that if we don't allow bullying, it can't happen.
May we soon see that day when no child has to fear.
November 3, 2018
I would recommend, not just to the younger generation that are gay but to any of the younger generation that have bullied or have been bullied. It really does hit home and teaches some profound lessons on what it's like to be in both positions, as well as going in depth into the mind of both the bully and the victim.
It should be required reading in every middle and high school in America, taught as a guide book to acceptance and tolerance, not just of others but yourself. I can't speak highly enough of this work. There is no sex or anything remotely like it unless consider a few chaste kisses as sex.
Important;; READ IT, take in every word and imagine both sides. What if you was gay, black, Muslim, small or just quiet.
The best book of 2018 I have read. I can't say it enough please read it and give to all 11-18 year olds.
It should be required reading in every middle and high school in America, taught as a guide book to acceptance and tolerance, not just of others but yourself. I can't speak highly enough of this work. There is no sex or anything remotely like it unless consider a few chaste kisses as sex.
Important;; READ IT, take in every word and imagine both sides. What if you was gay, black, Muslim, small or just quiet.
The best book of 2018 I have read. I can't say it enough please read it and give to all 11-18 year olds.
October 23, 2018
The author who l respect for trying to highlight the problems which young people experience. The thing is though that you do not have to be GLBT to have problems. I know kids at school who are just different yet they seem to be a target for a few.
Jeff Erno did a great job, I wish the book was longer.
Jeff Erno did a great job, I wish the book was longer.
October 16, 2011
Overall
Let me start of with a warning: This book is written with a purpose, an agenda, and a message to get across. If you didn't know about all that from the name of the book or the blurb, then the Letter from the White House and the Introduction would give it away. If you somehow started reading without getting this point, then the amount of anti-bullying might surprise you, but really you have no one to blame but yourself.
Aside from the obvious agenda and one story, which seemed weaker than the others, I have nothing but praise for this book. It's heartfelt, saddening, and hopeful. It made me want to make a difference in the world, or at least my part of it. It made me want to support my friends instead of teasing and mocking, which comes so easily. True, its messages read like an after-school special (but with better characters, plot, dialogue, and acting), but it's not trying to hide that. I'd recommend this to most everyone, but especially saps. Saps will love this. I should know.
Blending In
A sweet story about a closeted gay student who watches horrible bullying happen to a flamboyant gay student and learns how important it is to stand up against bullying. Short, meaningful, and beautifully done. It was touching.
Chuckie
This story feels unique because it takes the point of view of the bully and not the victim. It gives a good look into the head of the bully and what drives him, and also the potential for change. While the transformation happened quickly (obviously working within a limited space), it was well handled and believable.
Saved
While this story was heavily religious, I liked that it didn't use religious beliefs as the catalyst for the bullying. Instead, people were the cause, whether they came from an uber religious background or not. Another touching story of overcoming bigoted beliefs and of standing up for a person--and for yourself.
Different
While all stories of bullying are sad, this one was truly heartbreaking in its brutal honesty. It touches upon herd/peer dynamics and the fear of being "associated" with the outsider, no matter what that outsider is. The hardest part is almost everyone will know there was a time when they didn't stand up for someone who needed it.
Invisible
A touching story of a kid who is coping with being bullied--until it escalates to public humiliation. As he tries to "man up" and "tough it out," he really just wants to be left alone and stay invisible. To live his life. The character is so real--so like any other kid--that it makes his story all the more moving. The show of his strength and the necessity of an outside force to help him, is extremely telling of everyone.
Shame
Taken from the perspective of a mother, I didn't find this story as emotionally moving, but older readers--and readers with children--may be able to better relate. It was well done, even if you want to smack the mother around (which is the point).
Kirby
Poor Kirby. Fat and gay. But this story is nice because it really makes something other than sexuality the central focus of the bullying, although it's still important. Obviously obesity (which is a childhood epidemic now, according to experts) is a major issue, both for health and psychological reasons. While I encourage people to get fit, I think this story points out the important differences in getting fit because it's expected of you and getting fit because you want to. Being pressured into getting skinny isn't going to work, in most cases. It has to be something the person really wants.
Requested this book for review.
Be sure to check out my other reviews on my blog.
Let me start of with a warning: This book is written with a purpose, an agenda, and a message to get across. If you didn't know about all that from the name of the book or the blurb, then the Letter from the White House and the Introduction would give it away. If you somehow started reading without getting this point, then the amount of anti-bullying might surprise you, but really you have no one to blame but yourself.
Aside from the obvious agenda and one story, which seemed weaker than the others, I have nothing but praise for this book. It's heartfelt, saddening, and hopeful. It made me want to make a difference in the world, or at least my part of it. It made me want to support my friends instead of teasing and mocking, which comes so easily. True, its messages read like an after-school special (but with better characters, plot, dialogue, and acting), but it's not trying to hide that. I'd recommend this to most everyone, but especially saps. Saps will love this. I should know.
Blending In
A sweet story about a closeted gay student who watches horrible bullying happen to a flamboyant gay student and learns how important it is to stand up against bullying. Short, meaningful, and beautifully done. It was touching.
Chuckie
This story feels unique because it takes the point of view of the bully and not the victim. It gives a good look into the head of the bully and what drives him, and also the potential for change. While the transformation happened quickly (obviously working within a limited space), it was well handled and believable.
Saved
While this story was heavily religious, I liked that it didn't use religious beliefs as the catalyst for the bullying. Instead, people were the cause, whether they came from an uber religious background or not. Another touching story of overcoming bigoted beliefs and of standing up for a person--and for yourself.
Different
While all stories of bullying are sad, this one was truly heartbreaking in its brutal honesty. It touches upon herd/peer dynamics and the fear of being "associated" with the outsider, no matter what that outsider is. The hardest part is almost everyone will know there was a time when they didn't stand up for someone who needed it.
Invisible
A touching story of a kid who is coping with being bullied--until it escalates to public humiliation. As he tries to "man up" and "tough it out," he really just wants to be left alone and stay invisible. To live his life. The character is so real--so like any other kid--that it makes his story all the more moving. The show of his strength and the necessity of an outside force to help him, is extremely telling of everyone.
Shame
Taken from the perspective of a mother, I didn't find this story as emotionally moving, but older readers--and readers with children--may be able to better relate. It was well done, even if you want to smack the mother around (which is the point).
Kirby
Poor Kirby. Fat and gay. But this story is nice because it really makes something other than sexuality the central focus of the bullying, although it's still important. Obviously obesity (which is a childhood epidemic now, according to experts) is a major issue, both for health and psychological reasons. While I encourage people to get fit, I think this story points out the important differences in getting fit because it's expected of you and getting fit because you want to. Being pressured into getting skinny isn't going to work, in most cases. It has to be something the person really wants.
Requested this book for review.
Be sure to check out my other reviews on my blog.
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10/18/2011 Between the Covers awards Bullied a five-star review http://creative-whimsy.blogspot.com/2...
10/8/2011 Fallen Angel Reviews awards five stars to Bullied and assigns "Recommended Read" status http://fallenangelreviews.com/2011/Se...
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9/3/2011 Some of My Favorite Books blog gives Bullied five star review http://tana-someofmyfavoritebooks.blo...
8/25/2011 Bullied receives a 4.5-star review from Top 2 Bottom Reviews http://top2bottomreviews.wordpress.co...
8/22/2011 Bullied receives a 5-star review from Well Read Blog http://jenre-wellread.blogspot.com/20...
8/17/2011 Bullied receives a 4.75-star review from Bookwenches http://www.bookwenches.com/august11re...
8/5/2011 Bullied receives an "excellent" review from Reviews by Amos Lassen http://reviewsbyamoslassen.com/?p=7693
10/18/2011 Between the Covers awards Bullied a five-star review http://creative-whimsy.blogspot.com/2...
10/8/2011 Fallen Angel Reviews awards five stars to Bullied and assigns "Recommended Read" status http://fallenangelreviews.com/2011/Se...
9/27/2011 Great Minds Think Aloud Book Club gave Bullied a great review and recommendation. http://greatmindsthinkaloud.tumblr.co...
9/20/2011 Bullied receives a 5-star review from Three Dollar Bill Reviews http://threedollarbillreviews.com/201...
9/3/2011 Some of My Favorite Books blog gives Bullied five star review http://tana-someofmyfavoritebooks.blo...
8/25/2011 Bullied receives a 4.5-star review from Top 2 Bottom Reviews http://top2bottomreviews.wordpress.co...
8/22/2011 Bullied receives a 5-star review from Well Read Blog http://jenre-wellread.blogspot.com/20...
8/17/2011 Bullied receives a 4.75-star review from Bookwenches http://www.bookwenches.com/august11re...
8/5/2011 Bullied receives an "excellent" review from Reviews by Amos Lassen http://reviewsbyamoslassen.com/?p=7693
February 27, 2013
Heartbreaking, Beautiful, Honest
Bullied is a collection of seven short stories about bullying. Each are unique unto themselves. Some are about the bullied kids, others about the bullies, some have a mixture of the two and also one from the POV of the mother. They are all woven together to create a wonderful book that I am so glad I read.
One thing I feel I must say is that not all of these end happily. Not all the characters move on from High School and life is perfect. It would not be honest if that happened all the time. What I can say is that no matter what story you read, you will find your heart aching for one or more of these characters.
Jeff Erno has managed to write this book perfectly. Most authors would never release a book solely about the affects of bullying and how bullying can affect everyone. It's about homophobia, fitting in, making friends, losing friends, hurting and heartbreak. I did not find one story that disappointed in this book.
If bullying is a sore spot for you then I suggest reading one story at a time. Or taking a break and spreading out your reading of the book. Some may find it too upsetting to read in the one sitting. I am not one to put a book down so I find it easier to read at once and deal with the emotion after.
Highly recommend this book! Not enough can be said about this book and the impact it can have on people.
Bullied is a collection of seven short stories about bullying. Each are unique unto themselves. Some are about the bullied kids, others about the bullies, some have a mixture of the two and also one from the POV of the mother. They are all woven together to create a wonderful book that I am so glad I read.
One thing I feel I must say is that not all of these end happily. Not all the characters move on from High School and life is perfect. It would not be honest if that happened all the time. What I can say is that no matter what story you read, you will find your heart aching for one or more of these characters.
Jeff Erno has managed to write this book perfectly. Most authors would never release a book solely about the affects of bullying and how bullying can affect everyone. It's about homophobia, fitting in, making friends, losing friends, hurting and heartbreak. I did not find one story that disappointed in this book.
If bullying is a sore spot for you then I suggest reading one story at a time. Or taking a break and spreading out your reading of the book. Some may find it too upsetting to read in the one sitting. I am not one to put a book down so I find it easier to read at once and deal with the emotion after.
Highly recommend this book! Not enough can be said about this book and the impact it can have on people.
August 28, 2011
This is one of the most powerful books I have read in a long time.
As a parent of a child who has always been unique, and bullied throughout his school years, I was very moved.
I cried at more than one of these short stories.
This is a book, that in my opinion should be required reading in all schools. It is simply, excellent.
As a parent of a child who has always been unique, and bullied throughout his school years, I was very moved.
I cried at more than one of these short stories.
This is a book, that in my opinion should be required reading in all schools. It is simply, excellent.
September 9, 2011
A book that should be part of every middle and high school's library.
January 2, 2016
This anthology contains a collection of seven different short stories about gay-related bullying. Some are more poignant than others (Different, Invisible), some stand out more to me from the crowd (Blending In, Different, Invisible), some were hard to believe they could end the way they did by being a little too rainbows and kittens in the end. POVs range from the bullied, the bully, and even a couple from the parents.
Every story has a stirring of emotion in common. Whether it's rage at the injustice of it all, hope that maybe it can get better, pity, compassion, or empathy...I felt all of those emotions while reading this.
My largest complaint is while the intention is brilliant and I cheer wholeheartedly for it - STOP BULLYING NOW - the execution was lacking. I mean I believe in the message. So much. I cannot express how much I despise bullying. But these stories are either heavy handed or completely implausible to the point where I'm losing the message and paying more attention to how improbable they all are.
Almost all of the stories I wish would have more character growth or for the plot or flow to work better. I wish some were less inconceivable or seem so flat out impossible. I would have preferred maybe two or three stories only and for them to have been really fleshed out and given a chance to rise to the top. With that said though I never once lacked emotion when reading these stories. It made me want to go out and get involved in some way.
Ultimately that is my takeaway here. We cannot stand by and allow bullying to happen. All of us are responsible for saying NO and not just standing by - but to stand together to put a stop to it.
Review Copy generously provided by Dreamspinner Press in exchange for an honest review.
This review has been cross-posted at Gay Book Reviews.
Every story has a stirring of emotion in common. Whether it's rage at the injustice of it all, hope that maybe it can get better, pity, compassion, or empathy...I felt all of those emotions while reading this.
My largest complaint is while the intention is brilliant and I cheer wholeheartedly for it - STOP BULLYING NOW - the execution was lacking. I mean I believe in the message. So much. I cannot express how much I despise bullying. But these stories are either heavy handed or completely implausible to the point where I'm losing the message and paying more attention to how improbable they all are.
Almost all of the stories I wish would have more character growth or for the plot or flow to work better. I wish some were less inconceivable or seem so flat out impossible. I would have preferred maybe two or three stories only and for them to have been really fleshed out and given a chance to rise to the top. With that said though I never once lacked emotion when reading these stories. It made me want to go out and get involved in some way.
Ultimately that is my takeaway here. We cannot stand by and allow bullying to happen. All of us are responsible for saying NO and not just standing by - but to stand together to put a stop to it.
Review Copy generously provided by Dreamspinner Press in exchange for an honest review.
This review has been cross-posted at Gay Book Reviews.
February 7, 2013
Seven short stories surrounding the topic of bullying. These stories cover the gamut of viewpoints, from the bully, to the victim, from a kid too scared to intervene, to one who does intervene very effectively.
While short stories are not my favorite form of literature, I do think that this work is worthwhile reading that provides a valuable message. When I started this, I expected that it was an important read but was worried that the stories would be one sad tale after another. That expectation was shattered. While each story had its sad elements, the stories were different enough and well written enough to merit my interest, albeit not as a one night read.
Still, these are brilliant and well worth the reading time, but I'd advise spreading them out over a few days so as to avoid any fatigue factor that such closely aligned topics might engender.
While short stories are not my favorite form of literature, I do think that this work is worthwhile reading that provides a valuable message. When I started this, I expected that it was an important read but was worried that the stories would be one sad tale after another. That expectation was shattered. While each story had its sad elements, the stories were different enough and well written enough to merit my interest, albeit not as a one night read.
Still, these are brilliant and well worth the reading time, but I'd advise spreading them out over a few days so as to avoid any fatigue factor that such closely aligned topics might engender.
September 26, 2011
This is one of the most touching books I ever read. It's a collection of short stories about gay teens being bullied in school. Each story is told in first person and from various points of view: the victims, the bullies, the parents or friends of victims. It is a very difficult and painful reading, wich made me feel angry and sad and left me in tears, but I am really glad I read it. There is not sex in these stories, the focus is on emotions: fear, loneliness, anger, heartache, hatred, dispair, oppression, helplessness, love and hope. Yes hope, because these stories, even the most heartbreaking, will leave you an optimistic message.
Bullied is a very emotional book. I highly recommend it.
Bullied is a very emotional book. I highly recommend it.
August 23, 2011
A collection of short stories focusing the effects of bullying on young gay men, told from varying points of view - the victim, the bully or from the family/friends of the victim/bully. These stories are short but have an intense impact upon the reader - at one stage I was literally sobbing, and while I get teary frequently, very rarely do I get to the sobbing stage! If dealing with topics such as abuse (physical, verbal and peripherally sexual) and suicide is difficult for you, then you may not want to read this anthology, but I admit despite my heartache caused by these stories, I don't regret reading them.
September 2, 2011
Like all of Jeff's books this one is brilliant and exceptional.
All short stories are perfectly written and have the potential to get under your skin, some of them even to shake you to the core.
Bullied makes you aware why bullying can happen: There are no black and white stories, with an evil thug and the poor victim you sympathize with. Jeff shows us bullying means more: It is an interaction between many people and when you look in the mirror you can see a person who most likely was part of bullying as well - and if only by looking the other way.
It is a wonderful book. Some stories will give you hope, some will make you smile and some will make you cry.
All short stories are perfectly written and have the potential to get under your skin, some of them even to shake you to the core.
Bullied makes you aware why bullying can happen: There are no black and white stories, with an evil thug and the poor victim you sympathize with. Jeff shows us bullying means more: It is an interaction between many people and when you look in the mirror you can see a person who most likely was part of bullying as well - and if only by looking the other way.
It is a wonderful book. Some stories will give you hope, some will make you smile and some will make you cry.
October 31, 2011
This is an excellent anthology of short stories about high school kids who are bullied, and what happens to their lives. The book does more than just tell the story of the victims, but also the family and friends, who see the consequences of bullying. The book is not as sad as I thought it might, because each story shows someone beginning to learn and understand the destruction that can be caused. It gives a small sense of hope that things can change even if it is only one student, and one situation at time. I'll give it to my high school age son to read, and hope that he sees something that will make him a better person for having read it.
January 16, 2016
School students must read this book.
Each story teaches you some kind of lesson. All the stories has happy ending except one. Few stories are hard to believe because characters were too good to be true. Even though, each story is unique in its own way. It also address multiple type of bullying. And stories not only questions the bully but also the bystanders, parents. It also throws light on victim's psychology.
I think I liked the last story very much ( about fat kid). But all stories are likeable.
It's a quick read too. I liked it.
Each story teaches you some kind of lesson. All the stories has happy ending except one. Few stories are hard to believe because characters were too good to be true. Even though, each story is unique in its own way. It also address multiple type of bullying. And stories not only questions the bully but also the bystanders, parents. It also throws light on victim's psychology.
I think I liked the last story very much ( about fat kid). But all stories are likeable.
It's a quick read too. I liked it.
September 3, 2011
This is one of those books you come across that you think most people should read and maybe every school should put it on their reading list.
A collection of short stories some are very emotional to read but in my opinion was worth every tear I shed.
I would recommend this book to anyone and everyone. Excellent is all I can say.
A collection of short stories some are very emotional to read but in my opinion was worth every tear I shed.
I would recommend this book to anyone and everyone. Excellent is all I can say.
March 28, 2012
It's really too bad that the bullying that Jeff describes in these short stories happens every day. As adults we must really examine how we interact with each other, the children are watching and picking up our bad habits.
October 3, 2011
Excellent book of short story views into teen bullying. I highly recommend for use in the middle school and high school library and for councilor education.
July 29, 2013
Well-intentioned, but the stories are anti-climactic and don't ring true. However, I did like how parts of the stories focus on how easily kids change alliances when their friend is deemed "uncool."
September 21, 2025
First story is good. Resonated with “wanting to fit in” well after I came out. Didn’t pretend not to be gay but wanted to be perceived as being “normal”.
Truly wonderful. I read someone relate this to a PSA but imagine growing up in a time when I was unthinkable to even “act” gay much less be out. That’s the era I came from and it amazing watching these kids who were able to do so and make allies along with way.
The third chapter is HARD to read. I had to stop a couple of times because of how badly I feel about Curtis.
The story about Caiden, Rick and Tina really had me in tears. I wasn’t at all surprised at how things turned out. What other outcome could there be? Even in 2025 this sort of bullying is still going on and the same kind of outcomes are happening.
This story was what could have happened in the one prior. Help could have been forthcoming and it would have changed everything. It was still emotional but not in quite the sad way as the last one.
The one about Cameron and his mother was my least favorite. The mother was a huge bigot of all kinds which was evident almost from the start. “Special rights.” “Flaunting it.” Ugh. Not too fond of the easy ending.
This last one was okay. It’s pretty bad to have people who you trust, who were only ever using you, finally betray you. It is just as good to find people you could trust and accept you for who you are. But the ending was a little bit too much to buy into. Not for the changes in Kirby but instead to the responses from a crowd of teenagers at the end.
Overall, I did really enjoy this book. It touched on a lot of important things when it comes to bullying LGBTQ people. It is still very much relevant in 2025z
Truly wonderful. I read someone relate this to a PSA but imagine growing up in a time when I was unthinkable to even “act” gay much less be out. That’s the era I came from and it amazing watching these kids who were able to do so and make allies along with way.
The third chapter is HARD to read. I had to stop a couple of times because of how badly I feel about Curtis.
The story about Caiden, Rick and Tina really had me in tears. I wasn’t at all surprised at how things turned out. What other outcome could there be? Even in 2025 this sort of bullying is still going on and the same kind of outcomes are happening.
This story was what could have happened in the one prior. Help could have been forthcoming and it would have changed everything. It was still emotional but not in quite the sad way as the last one.
The one about Cameron and his mother was my least favorite. The mother was a huge bigot of all kinds which was evident almost from the start. “Special rights.” “Flaunting it.” Ugh. Not too fond of the easy ending.
This last one was okay. It’s pretty bad to have people who you trust, who were only ever using you, finally betray you. It is just as good to find people you could trust and accept you for who you are. But the ending was a little bit too much to buy into. Not for the changes in Kirby but instead to the responses from a crowd of teenagers at the end.
Overall, I did really enjoy this book. It touched on a lot of important things when it comes to bullying LGBTQ people. It is still very much relevant in 2025z
May 24, 2022
2.5 rounded up
Earnest but repetitive collection of short stories focusing on bullied gay students in high school.
It's an important subject that deserves better than this cookie cutter approach. The reader repeatedly encounters similar characters through the collection: 1. the effeminate, unathletic, socially awkward gay boy; 2. the hot jock homophobe who may or may not be latently homosexual; 3. parents who are embarrassed of their gay sons so offer little support.
There is very little nuance, just a whole lot of hurt, followed by suicide and/or an unbelievably sudden change of heart by the bully or an equally unbelievable scene in which the weak gay boy stands up for himself.
Earnest but repetitive collection of short stories focusing on bullied gay students in high school.
It's an important subject that deserves better than this cookie cutter approach. The reader repeatedly encounters similar characters through the collection: 1. the effeminate, unathletic, socially awkward gay boy; 2. the hot jock homophobe who may or may not be latently homosexual; 3. parents who are embarrassed of their gay sons so offer little support.
There is very little nuance, just a whole lot of hurt, followed by suicide and/or an unbelievably sudden change of heart by the bully or an equally unbelievable scene in which the weak gay boy stands up for himself.
May 16, 2017
This book was an emotionally roller coaster ride. I was all over the spectrum of emotions after reading this book. sad, then mad, then crying, then happy, and laughing. It is well worth reading. Because it is an eye opener as to what young gay people have to endure from their peers growing up, if they are one bit different from everyone else.
November 4, 2011
Reviewed by Joe: I am a big advocate against bully, especially bullying against LGBT youth. I believe there isn’t enough publicized resources that they can turn to so when I saw this title up for review I knew I had to read it and I am mighty glad I did. I feel that Mr. Erno’s latest collection of short stories should be REQUIRED reading in every high school and middle school in the world.
Be prepared, the stories in this collection are very hard to get through. It took me a couple weeks to get through them. I could only read one or two stories at a time because Mr. Erno’s characters are so real that they stay with you. These stories will make you smile, cry and nod your head as you recount memories from your time in high school. I knew every one of these characters and situations so I was able to feel that much more of a connection.
The only thing I would have wanted was to have a couple more stories that didn’t end so happily. I think one of the most powerful stories in the collection is the one that doesn’t end happily. I also thought it would have been interesting if Mr. Erno had included maybe one or two stories from the bully’s point of view. Maybe we could start to understand why these kids do what they do.
As someone who was bullied in high school and, I’m ashamed to say, did a fair share of bullying I highly recommend Mr. Erno’s book to everyone who wants something real that will touch you and stay with you days after you reach the end.
A+
Be prepared, the stories in this collection are very hard to get through. It took me a couple weeks to get through them. I could only read one or two stories at a time because Mr. Erno’s characters are so real that they stay with you. These stories will make you smile, cry and nod your head as you recount memories from your time in high school. I knew every one of these characters and situations so I was able to feel that much more of a connection.
The only thing I would have wanted was to have a couple more stories that didn’t end so happily. I think one of the most powerful stories in the collection is the one that doesn’t end happily. I also thought it would have been interesting if Mr. Erno had included maybe one or two stories from the bully’s point of view. Maybe we could start to understand why these kids do what they do.
As someone who was bullied in high school and, I’m ashamed to say, did a fair share of bullying I highly recommend Mr. Erno’s book to everyone who wants something real that will touch you and stay with you days after you reach the end.
A+
September 27, 2011
"BULLIED" BY JEFF ERNO
This book was incredibly moving. It delves deep into several stories of being bullied and how hard it is on the younger generation today. The stories all relate to kids that are homosexual and how they are treated in school by their peers. It also shows how kids are viewed differently depending on their personalities. What I found most interesting is it doesn't matter if a person is homosexual, sometimes they are treated differently depending on how they present themselves rather than their sexual preference. You could have two kids in the same school both with homosexual tendencies and one could be treated fine while the other is treated as an outcast.
This book is definitely one I would recommend, not just to the younger generation that are homosexual but to any of the younger generation that have bullied or have been bullied. It really does hit home and teaches some profound lessons on what it's like to be in both positions, as well as going in depth into the mind of both the bully and the victim.
This is one of the issues today that has become more prominent and I very much feel this book gives great insight into the ongoing problem of bullying with our youth.
Kitty Bullard / Great Minds Think Aloud Literary Community
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This book was incredibly moving. It delves deep into several stories of being bullied and how hard it is on the younger generation today. The stories all relate to kids that are homosexual and how they are treated in school by their peers. It also shows how kids are viewed differently depending on their personalities. What I found most interesting is it doesn't matter if a person is homosexual, sometimes they are treated differently depending on how they present themselves rather than their sexual preference. You could have two kids in the same school both with homosexual tendencies and one could be treated fine while the other is treated as an outcast.
This book is definitely one I would recommend, not just to the younger generation that are homosexual but to any of the younger generation that have bullied or have been bullied. It really does hit home and teaches some profound lessons on what it's like to be in both positions, as well as going in depth into the mind of both the bully and the victim.
This is one of the issues today that has become more prominent and I very much feel this book gives great insight into the ongoing problem of bullying with our youth.
Kitty Bullard / Great Minds Think Aloud Literary Community
Read more: http://www.greatmindsthinkaloud.probo...
July 6, 2023
A series of short stories compiled into this wonderful collection. The stories vary in terms of depth, sub-themes and of course plot. They all, indeed, at one point or another, are related to homosexuality, school and bullying.
Blending In: It's a sweet little story to kick off this book, with its share of intense moments.
Chuckie: Another sweet little story that comes with a great lesson and an engaging story flow.
Saved: This is my personal favorite. I think this is rather deep and certainly seems to stand out in the sense that it is deeply related to Christianity.
Different: Probably the darkest of all the stories, but that really makes the lesson that much greater.
Invisible: I like this one. It's short and engaging enough, though I'd love to see a longer version.
Shame: A story that details how people think about homosexuality and the so-called stereotypes that are associated.
Kirby: I just think this is a very nice story to end the book. It's bitter and sweet at the same time.
I don't want to say too much and spoil the stories for you, but as a whole, this is a very good book, though I'd certainly argue that the quality does vary from story to story. But if you're worried about repetitiveness, you certainly do not need to, because each story is quite different from any other in the collection.
Blending In: It's a sweet little story to kick off this book, with its share of intense moments.
Chuckie: Another sweet little story that comes with a great lesson and an engaging story flow.
Saved: This is my personal favorite. I think this is rather deep and certainly seems to stand out in the sense that it is deeply related to Christianity.
Different: Probably the darkest of all the stories, but that really makes the lesson that much greater.
Invisible: I like this one. It's short and engaging enough, though I'd love to see a longer version.
Shame: A story that details how people think about homosexuality and the so-called stereotypes that are associated.
Kirby: I just think this is a very nice story to end the book. It's bitter and sweet at the same time.
I don't want to say too much and spoil the stories for you, but as a whole, this is a very good book, though I'd certainly argue that the quality does vary from story to story. But if you're worried about repetitiveness, you certainly do not need to, because each story is quite different from any other in the collection.
February 14, 2017
Great book! It's a collection of short stories about gay teens getting bullied for being gay. I almost cried when I read some of them, and actually did cry when reading "Different", which was the most powerful story in my opinion.
March 24, 2016
A compilation of short stories about gay related bullying in high school. Every story in here made me an emotional wreck. Jeff Erno has crafted an amazing heart-wrenching anthology. Each one of them are really powerful with the messages they convey. What's also great about this is that not all stories are told from the victim of bullying. Some are told from the pov of the bully, and one from the parent of a victim. Erno proves to be master in emotionally charged stories without making them over-dramatic. He captures the right emotion at the right time, with the right tone. There is purpose behind this book and it successfully achieves it. It's such a shame that at this day and age, there still is bullying. This would serve to be an eye-opener to many. Kudos to Jeff Erno for an amazing book that makes a difference in life.
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