The Spirit of Open Adoption

by James L. Gritter

An outspoken and ardent advocate for openness in adoption, James Gritter writes of the need for members of the adoption triad to emphasize services that first and foremost benefit adoptees. Open adoption serves children first by reversing the traditional hierarchy -- by treating adoptive families as resources for birthfamilies. Adoptive parents, birthparents, and adoptees come together in a spirit of extended family that helps them replace the fear, pain, shame, and loss of adoption with honor, respect, and reverence. Drawing on the profound insights of contemporary thinkers in the fields of adoption, theology, philosophy, and literature, Gritter guides the reader along a spiritual journey that explores the candor, commitment, community, and cooperation that define successful open adoptions.

Genres: Adoption

314 pages, Paperback

First published May 1, 1997

Reviews

[Noelle · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book is required reading for our infant adoption program. I found it very informative when it comes to a proper philosophy of adoption. Rather than being a narrative/collection of stories, it's written by a social worker who is concerned about excellence in the adoption experience.

Well written, good principles for relationships in any context, really. Written from a Christian/Catholic worldview.

[Crystal Swafford · Rating 1 out of 5]

DNF, giving up after 3 years. This feels very academic and outdated. Glad I got it for $1.99 because it’s so terrible I literally recycled this so no one else has to read it. I’d give this 0 stars if possible.

[shanamadele · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is a foundational book about open adoption, and it firmed up our decision to seek an open adoption. It also helped us think through what we wanted from our open adoption and how to talk about it with other people.

[Heather · Rating 4 out of 5]

Needs a good edit, but the content is excellent.

[Loni Kayleene · Rating 5 out of 5]

A book of inspiration, truth, and deep understanding. I found it relatable, as well as clear and concise.

[Jean Davis · Rating 4 out of 5]

A good title for the book, as it was more about the important qualities that should be involved in open adoption, and less about the practical issues. I'm glad I read it.