I had hoped this one would be fantastic, because the Dust Bowl is intriguing to me, and I adored the cover with its muted, earthy tones. The Dust Bowl part of this story was the best part for me. I especially enjoyed the haboob (dust storm), which is not an often-featured disaster in the books I read, and Kathryn’s journey through that event.
However, there was an explicit nudity/sex scene in chapter two, and none of the positives in this book could redeem that moment for me. I understand the author was setting up Henry to be an abusive husband from the jump, but there are cleaner ways of doing that. I do NOT need to read (or hear, as I was listening to the audio and following along on my Kindle) what happens between a man and woman on their honeymoon (or any time afterward, for that matter)—those are intended to be between-man-and-wife moments, NOT share-them-with-the-whole-class moments.
The church ladies knew Melissa was in an abusive relationship, and I think they did well to encourage her to be an obedient, submissive wife (Malachi 2:14; 1 Peter 3:1). Yet, there are also verses about men not abusing their wives, but these weren’t broached at all.
For example:
Colossians 3:19 “Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.”
1 Peter 3:7 “Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.”
Malachi 2:14-15 “… the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously; yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant. But did He not make them one, having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth.”
1 Corinthians 13:4 “Love is patient and kind…”
Ephesians 5:28-29 “In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church.”
John 13:34 “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”
Not all of those verses are strictly about husbands, but they are still overall human-decency verses about loving one another and are useful for husbands and wives alike.
I understand the church ladies were encouraging Melissa to do right by her husband, and that was a great point, but why did no one ever approach her husband about doing right by his wife? He was not honoring at all toward her, as husbands are instructed to be in 1 Peter 3:7. He wasn’t loving (John 13:34 and 1 Corinthians 13:4), but he WAS harsh with her (Colossians 3:19) and “dealt treacherously” with her (Malachi 2:14-15). Yet NOBODY in the entire town confronted him about his wrong and sinful behavior, even though they KNEW it was happening. Where were the church ladies (or gentlemen) on that side of things? The man never acknowledged his sinful ways, either.
I really adored Melissa’s heart for doing more than the bare basics where her charity work was concerned. It was so admirable that she was going above and beyond the expectations and actions of her fellow church ladies. I was disheartened to see they didn’t change their ways and do more too, but that is completely realistic and something I’ve personally seen in my own life. I strive to go above and beyond too, and always have, because there are many needs in the world, and if I can meet a few of them during my journey, then the extra time and effort involved are absolutely worth it.
Kathryn had an interesting journey. I was highly concerned for her, because she was a young teenager forced to rely on different strangers to survive through the book. It wasn’t safe to do such a thing, especially for someone as youthful as she. However, I love that she learned more about courage and pushing past what she thought she was capable of accomplishing. I also liked that, as a lead, she had clubfoot. It’s not every day that a leading lady (youngster or otherwise) has a deformity or disability, and it was fantastic to see this sort of thing highlighted and so well written. I also enjoyed that she had to face a natural disaster and its aftermath, got to meet a real cowboy, and hopped a train. She definitely had some wild adventures, and I rather enjoyed most of her portion of the story. This is what pulled my rating up from a single star and helped me push through to the end of the book even though I wasn’t really enjoying Melissa’s side of things much (because of Henry and the lack of reproach for his sins, as well as the explicit scene in chapter two).
The narrator, Sarah Zimmerman, did a fantastic job of bringing the era and community to life. Her voice inflections were spot-on, and her pacing was really great. I especially enjoyed her country accent. It felt very accurate to the South, and it was underplayed and subtle instead of exaggerated and over-the-top. She found the perfect balance and tone for the story.
I feel like I could have loved this story if it didn’t start off by offending the sacred bonds of marriage by displaying its intimate acts on the page for anyone and everyone to see.
Content: explicit nudity/sex scene, tobacco, alcohol, derogatory terms, replacement expletives, replacement profanity, crude and sexual talk, expletives, profanity, sexual abuse from a husband, domestic abuse, child abuse