In a nutshell: The church basically doesn't remember you exist or have needs. Here are some ideas for how to structure your life and cobble together a DIY vocation. It will take a ton of work.
Some parts of this book are incredibly enlightening and others are difficult to trudge through. I must admit I picked it up out of curiosity because of the title and as I read was sorely disappointed that my concept of "unwilling celibate" is quite different to that of someone in the Catholic faith. Some helpful insights, but not something I would read again.