This book was given to me as a gift from my friend Celia when we visited Arizona 2024 for a book themed trip. I loved it so much. I loved reading his journey of healing and enlightenment and gardening. So well done.
Favorite quotes:
“Nothing we do in life ever has only one reason; we usually do what we were always going to do, then we find as many reasons as we can to try to explain or justify what we have done.” (Pp. 42)
“It is easy to forgive people if you love them-that is one of the ways you know that you love them. It is often easier to forgive other people than it is to forgive yourself, but you have to do both. It's harder to forgive people you don't love, and even harder to forgive those who are greedy or selfish, violent hate-filled people who like to make you hurt, and those who want to count the things they have and compare them with the things that other people have.
You can't change the world by changing other people. You have to start with yourself by examining who you are, the harm you do, the things you think and feel and say, the things you use and consume. You must forgive and begin each day from where you are today, with nothing left from yesterday.” (Pp. 48)
“I put on my jacket to go and buy flowers for the kitchen table, and to stretch my legs. As I amble around the village where I was a gardener for so many years I see the flowers I planted in the little front gardens of people who've since died, moved house or just grown old, and I feel that I have added love. Most people won't consciously notice them, but will still have their day lifted. I planted when it was time to plant, pruned when it was time to prune and mowed when it was time to mow, and these things added to the sum total of beauty and politeness and positivity of the daily world.” (Pp. 99)
“I found my true self when I saw that the 'self is merely illusion-there is no such thing as a separate "self", only the stream. This idea of self makes Ego; it separates us from the animals and so destroys our world. It is not good to feel separate from the animals.” (Pp. 104-105)
“At school his art teacher asks him why he never finishes anything-he doesn't know, he says. He doesn't need to, isn't interested in finishing. His drawings are tools; they are not made to decorate the walls or look pretty, they are made to explore and understand.” (Pp. 108)
“There are only two kinds of knowledge we can have about a thing: we can say what the thing is made of and we can say what the thing does. Anything else is mystery and up for debate.” (Pp.120)
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If I am worthless, then I will find the world worthless too, for creating things like me that are worthless—if the world is worthless, then everything is worthless—if everything is worthless, everything is equal-if everything is equal, there is no such thing as worth or worthlessness?
Finally he thought, 'There is no such thing as worth or worthlessness, other than what my mind gives a thing?
At this, his mind went silent. The scar of worthlessness had turned to gold and gave him strength, and became a word describing nothing more than the bark of a nervous dog.” (pp. 134)
“Nothing happens without a cause. Instead of taking control of my bit of the world, I had for some years been letting the world guide me, not resisting or paddling against the tide —taking care of myself and others, of my bit of the planet, but aware that I am not in charge, trying to be mindful of my part in the world when I could, when I remembered to pay attention.” (Pp. 146)