This book is about how to live in the moment. Much of which I already knew. But I also have doubts about whether or not it is even possible to actually live in the moment, not to mention why would I want to ignore the future. My metaphor for life is a tightrope walker with one eye on the rope below him and the other on the destination. When I have worked on breathing exercises with Buddhists, I did find them a bit boring. I also felt many of the members were just a tad on the phony side.
Then there is a chapter on the "illusion of limitations." As Marcus Aurelius said, "our life is what our thoughts make it." Once again though, some limitations are real. Past experiences can distort our present reality and prevent us from moving forward. There are lessons to be learned. Kierkegaard said it best, "Life must be lived forward, but it is learned backward."
Don't be afraid to question and change your beliefs. That always sounds great to me for the other guy. Beliefs can limit you. Henry Ford said, "He can who thinks he can and can't who thinks he can't." We need to sometimes accept what is, but isn't that a limitation? We need to do what we can with what we have where we are. Eckhart said there "are no problems only situations to deal with in the now." Sounds like a problem to me.
Horace said, "Whoever lives in fear will never be a free man." Things that can alter our mood when we feel we need to do something: sex, television, work, drugs, alcohol, tobacco, tasks, rage, exercise, adrenaline, food, hoarding, shopping, cleaning, and spiritually. Pretty much covers everything doesn't it? I guess that's why I write poetry.
"What the mother sings in the cradle goes all the way down to the coffin," says Henry Ward Beecher. In other words, we are affected by our parents. We can have negative and positive core beliefs. One particular problem is parental discipline from out of control parents. There are so many things that define us, rather than ourselves.