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336 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1882
"There are new questions constantly arising," she went on, "for a woman in my position. One ceases to be an individual. One acts for the whole,—for the sex, for a cause, for a future. We are not quite free, like other people, in little perplexities. It is what Paul said about no man's living to himself. We pay a price for our privilege. I suppose everything in this world renders its cost, but nothing so heavily, nothing so relentlessly, as an unusual purpose in a woman. Nothing is more expensive than sustained usefulness,—or what one tries to make such.["]Between when I first penned my review and now typing up, I decided to go ahead with upgrading my rating, and not just because the average rating is so low and the rating count is so few that a five star would make a significantly positive difference. Whatever my rating ends up being, I am content in having recovered a buried classic, as I've gone over many an older piece of lit in my time, and this ranks next to Deerbrook in terms of undeserved obscurity, and even higher in my heart. The afterword argues that this is a flawed and less 'feminist' work than others of its period and ideation, but it also ignores so much of the thematic context that goes into my evaluation that I am comfortable in saying that this work is flawed in the way human beings are. This work is, ultimately, a subversion of a sentimental set piece that retains a great deal of the warmth while challenging more harmful of the genre's stereotypes. All in all, I regret having chosen Belinda for the Romance task of one of my reading challenges, as this work is romantic in a way that pays off regardless of whether it chooses to encourage a penultimate 'happy ending'. I went some way into falling in love while reading this, and that's not something I can say very often at all.
It is not the first time that a woman has been called unwomanly for saying the truth[.]
...Mrs. Isaiah Butterwell was one of those housekeepers who would prefer a lukewarm conscience to a lukewarm boiler[.]One thing Phelps has down in spades is the sort of command of prose and literary allusion that I'm a total sucker for. Add in what is essentially a character study heavily, yet cleverly, relying on various fanfiction-level plot gimmicks such as 'thrown together out of medical necessity only to become so much more', and you have something that could either brilliantly draw from the cornerstones of its craft or be unremittingly dull in succumbing too much to the safe narrative path traversed many times before. I am firmly in the camp that believes Phelps has crafted a work of art that strikes the right gorgeous balance between the familiar and the novel, for as much credibly literary reason as personal bias. You see, it is very easy to infuse this love story with queer readings, as it is a woman the reader is supposed to fall in love with, and the woman herself, much as was the main character of Asunder, to me, is very lovable in that half-exacting, half-worshipful frame of mind of mine. It doesn't hurt that the character herself is surprisingly direct about wishing to have a woman to come home to, even going so far as to describe an opportunity that she unwillingly rejected, which as queer as it gets in late 19th century US lit. All in all, this is no monumental philosophical spread coupled with sweeping landscapes and huge arcs of time and theme, but something drawn on the level of The Age of Innocence and, to me, just as good as that next-century Pulitzer winner, if not better. Self-indulgent, perhaps, but all a classic has to do is indulge generations forever on, and I can well see this work doing such on a much larger scale if given the chance.
You would think of the other men, whose wives were always punctual at dinner in long dresses, and could play to them evenings, and accept invitations, and always be on hand, like the kitten. I should not blame you. Some of the loveliest women in the world are like that. I should like somebody myself to come home to, to be always there to purr about me; it is very natural to me to accept the devotion of such women. There was one who wanted to come down here and stay with me. I wouldn't let her; but I wanted her.
Yorke was receiving that enlargement and enlightenment of the imagination which it is the privilege of endurance alone, of all forms of human assimilation, to bestow upon us. Experience may almost be called a faculty of the soul.This ranks up with the works I've rated the highest so far this year and is otherwise a very lovely surprise, which just goes to show that a rather off putting cover design and a not at all apolitical publishing outfit do not serve as excuses to forgo what proved to be a gloriously, deceptively complex story. This is not a work that achieved the US breed of intersectionality to much extent, but it isn't nasty either, unlike certain works published a mere half century afterward. As such, in my honest opinion, this work deserves as wide and as serious a reputation as other romances that take the time and energy to probe social malignancies without losing sight of the human heart. Not only the level of Austen or the Brontës, perhaps, but definitely on that of Gaskell, especially when considering the theme of women in work that both books are concerned with: factories in one, medicine in the other. All in all, I may have been misguided in putting this off out of uneasy assumptions of less than quality writing, but that only increased my heights of unexpected pleasure experienced after trudging through more than one work with far more elevated reputations and not finding much to crow about. Here's hoping this reaches a vaster audience in my lifetime. It's apparently on Kindle Marketplace of all places, and as much as I loath Amazon, I won't begrudge anyone who uses it in this case as an initial foothold.
He sat and watched her, thinking that he would not have borne from any other woman in the world what came like a fine intoxication from her; he drank her noble severity like gleaming wine.
You do not love me. You have needed me. I have been useful to you[.] I have occupied your thoughts, You may miss me. But that is not love.